THIS Is How To Get Her Back... | Courtney Ryan

In this video, I go over some ways to get a girl back if you might have messed things up. While this is not always the route I'd suggest going, there is a time and a place where it makes sense. Share your personal stories below!

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[siowmingfeng]

1. take accountability
2. give her space
3. be honest/intentional
4. be the best you
5. know when to move on

[UFCPR]

The only reason to try this: You are reasonably sure she's still interested or somewhat in love with you. But going all in with a woman that simply brushed you out of her life is demining and humiliating.

[CJish]

The first step in "getting someone back" is often realizing it's just not worth it. Sometimes it might be, but rarely is it ever. It didn't workout for a reason. Realize why, learn from that, and find someone better or better for you.

[adam_]

Sometimes people just need to experience life. You could be meant to be with your ex, but if they broke up with you, what makes you think things are gonna change a week later? Relax. Take a step back. Focus on yourself. Grow. Sometimes you need to separate, experience the highs and lows, and then get back together in a much better place. If she broke up with you, odds are she's not waiting by the phone for you. And in the end, if she doesn't want you back, you're in a much better place. Trust the process, improve your own life and you can only do better.

[iambubba]

Just focus on yourself fellas. If she cared she’d still be around.

[sergiootero]

Bros, unless you know you fucked up, don't try to get her back. If you're grinding and treating her like a human and she left, DON'T CHASE! REPLACE!

[ziagno]

Yea how you get her back guys,
The answer is: You don’t. Live your life and you will find someone better, why would you want someone who thought you werent enough. You should be higher value than that guys.. step up the mindset

[asapg]

Fellas please take a moment to realize how many pretty girls you’ve seen in your life and how many you will see in the future. There’s no way she holds that much power over you to completely ruin your entire life

[ericv]

This is how to get her back, don't. If she doesn't want you, move on.

[LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

If you're with the right person it's impossible to lose them, because they want to be with you and behave as good as possible to stay with you. <3

[redpillcatholicism]

Always remember Iron Rule of Tomassi #7:
“It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.”

[norswil]

If you know she was special and you know the love and connection was real and you know there’s still a flame flickering, go for it!

These are the moments of inaction that’ll haunt you your whole life — don’t listen to the bitter “ex is an ex for a reason” crowd, they seem to think people never screw up and are incapable of change and forgiveness.

My ex and I still love each other, we never used to have to say it, I could tell she loved me everyday I looked into her eyes. It was deep and real and this is why I know I have to give this another chance. I’ve had relationships, dated meet heaps of girls, she is different and I was to her too.

[joshuaclavel]

Can’t get back with someone who doesn’t love you

[themarkofglass]

I lost someone that was my soulmate
No matter what I do I can't stop thinking about her.
I let her down time after time and I even seen the red flags but I still let her down.
Don't let it get this bad
If you love her
Treat her so

[wigwam]

9/10 you shouldn’t. Not just because of her being terrible but sometimes relationships even two good people just don’t work. I tried it once, I failed, I realized we’re meant to get into relationships to learn for the future.

[k.n.bakerauthor]

Hi woman here. If a guy broke my heart, rejected me, or dumped me and he wants me back— I definitely want flowers! I’m 29 years old and no guy has EVER given me flowers. I want a guy to show up on my doorstep with flowers 1, 000%! WOMEN WANT ROMANCE! Yes we also want you to be genuine and sincere. Tell us how you feel and be honest! A love letter wouldn’t hurt either! I’ve always wanted to receive a love letter from a guy because I’m the only one who has written them! And yes if you messed up and want her back then you need to pursue her and prove that you want her back! You have to be consistent. So no do NOT just move on and let her go. Make the romantic gesture! I’m still waiting and have always wanted these things from a man. When a guy is basic and just simply says sorry, I want you back— it doesn’t feel genuine or seem serious. We want effort! Sorry, I disagree with Courtney. We want romance, we want to be pursued, we want to know you care, we want the gesture. And I would not mind seeing the guy cry. It would show me his feelings for me are real and true!

[mattd]

Dont ever want her back. you split for a reason, nothing can fix that. Let her do whatever but don't want her back it'll end badly again.

[elchayan]

She was never yours, it was only your turn. Cut your losses, learn from the experience and move forward.

[TheMongolat]

What I have learned in my 37 years is that if a woman breaks up with me, her loss. There will never be a second chance. Just move on.

[ViktorDi]

Absolutely loved that you shared your own experience from both sides. That's what many other channels on such topics lack - own life experience, admitting mistakes and sharing them.