How Narcissists Fake Caring | Karen Conti & Lisa Bilyeu

[kaizen_]

When a person makes a point to encourage you to open up but they are very vague about themselves or don't share anything too personal, it's a red flag.

[reverendgreen]

When I moved to a new city, a girl, who was probably a narcissist, became my new best friend. At the beginning she seemed so caring. She wanted to know everything about me, especially about my innermost fears. In the end, she used everything against me, mainly to feel superior and make me feel small. I still remember that I cried a lot because of her... Fortunately, I ended this toxic friendship with her a year ago. Since then, I've had friends who love me for who I am, with my strengths and weaknesses.

[Louise-qhnj]

’Care’ but in their own way. No empathy, just an ego-plan. Watch out. Leave silently.

[sonyaunderwood]

“They care to hurt” 😢 that hits different, … ☝🏾NO lies told. Take very good care of yourself✨

[Bumbelbee]

Thats why when a person I just met start to ask me a lot of questions about myself and my life I start to ask myself why do you want to know all that about me? thats when I stop giving answer. I also try to keep that person away as possible. Also if you wanna play a little you can answer to their questions with really vague answers and ask them the question back like "and you"? If they are vague : keep them away from you.

[evanianichols]

Such a nightmare…neighbor across the street became a best friends, she is a therapist by profession, she wanted me to share all my story, to let her in to be vulnerable…I started helping her workout, she liked how fit I was then over time became jealous and cutting me up, every other day she got nastier, eggshells, then used it against me. Said things I’ve never heard from a friend, turned the cheek so many times…she had a bad family, no relationships ever… today I had to end it. Worst experience ever.

[jenninemorel]

They understand just fine; they don't care. They want to know where your vulnerabilities are.

[kristinej.]

Excellent point! I went through this with my ex who had text book narcissistic traits. They are scary human beings.

[Strawberryfreeze]

Omg! This makes so much sense bc he would ask me so many questions when we talked and I couldn’t stand that ..I hated it ..when I mention my feelings to him ..how it made me uncomfortable he would get mad and hang up in my face ..I’m like dude talk about yourself, say a funny joke anything😂😂 they ask you questions to find ways to manipulate you and then get angry at your reactions for it…call you crazy, too sensitive, too confrontational, why you screaming, cursing ..smh I’m so glad all that toxicity is out my life ..I’m upset I let it go on for so long …get out immediately if this is your life !

[Ippyleng]

The sad thing about coming across a narcissist, the only way to put them to their place is to think like them and calculate their moves before they strike. So to beat them is to be like them... may we heal from this demonic experiences!

[fionarevell]

Absolutely, everything they do at the start I'd information gathering for later use against you

[LG-lrup]

So true!💯 Been through this, he even slept with my sister-in-law to get more information about me, who's also a hateful narcissist and told him a lot of dirt about me.

[BikeLife]

Find this out in my 20 year marriage to a covert narc. He wanted to separate me from all my friends he didn't know, even tried to delete all of my friends in my phone contacts. I offered a lot of info about my family during conversations, but in hindsight, it was mostly me talking and him listening, and then he used all of that against me in our divorce. My advice to anyone would be to be careful what information you offer to people. It took me 20 years to realize what he was doing to me.

[kosmikenergy]

Evil and Diabolical... Word is Bond

They lay in wait...

[SuMonCheri]

Narcissistic is such a sweet word. Call them demons who have possessed human bodies

[SRHisntSilent]

And this is why it's so hard for me to trust people

[AmandaSchlitzer]

Yes true, at the same time,
Belieeeveeee it or not some people ask those deeper personal questions because they Genuinely care and are curious to who u are as a person. And if they see faults or weaknesses, it's not to exploit, it's to just understand how they work as a person etc. I wish these videos would speak of both sides when they go and put these shorts out there. Its makes someone who's just looking into this as a young person doubt every person they come in contact with. Always be aware and never just blindly trust but my goodness don't go out thinking the whole world is that. If u start a relationship based on that believe and it's nothing but a tug of war in life.. it will only lead one way.
Especially if they come from a not so sunh disposition. When it comes to there personal family history etc.. anywho.. 🦔

[DEEJOJOHNSON]

My narcissistic wife did exactly what you're saying

[ToniWilson-cq]

Thats why i dont jump into relationships

[ksreyno]

They ask a lot of questions about you and listen to your stories in the beginning stage of a relationship and then ramble on and on about themselves and interrupt you if you’re talking