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[sparkygump]

The one common aspect of all the narcs I've come across in my life is the inability to simply say "I'm sorry" and actually mean it.

[cliffp.]

"Self preservation is a right", best mantra I've heard yet.

[borealiswan]

"They've had their sad stories'', but ours are even worse because we were confused and unconscious of the damage, but now we are aware.

[vh]

Every one needs to listen to the last bit, "focus on the here and now" and "even if you can't leave, you can think differently!" And my favorite, "YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH!" If you are reading this, know that you are wonderful. You are enough just by being you. Have a great day. Thank you Dr. Ramani for these videos and your tireless work in educating people.

[smpotts]

Hi Dr. Ramani,
I think the most important thing you taught the audience was, N's will not change.
It' can be hard for a normal person to accept, but once you do, it actually let's you off the hook and can bring you peace.

[jen]

Im getting exhausted with the daily upkeep of all the narcs dimensions. Im just so tired.

[phyllisjunemillerjohnson]

Now I'm going to buy a book. Love these series. I'm pushing 70 and it's a "litte" disturbing to learn some of this stuff now, but better late than never. <3

[darlixjaffa]

Recently left a relationship with a narcissist. Watching the series I was confused because I’d see how his personality would manifest in some ways, but not others. Very grandiose while flirting, benign with his friends, and covert when he got into trouble for cheating, lying, and baiting [im talking literal TEARS, “my childhood was hard, no one understands me, poor me” and even Omg “I need you in my life because you make me a better person” despite never changing]. When I finally left him, I wasn’t sad because he was gone, I was sad that I had wasted so much time on him, trying to fix the unfixable. Thank you for this series, it’s kept me so grounded since breaking up and cutting off contact with him. I feel like I can protect myself and the people I love in my life from being swept up by others who will abuse and never appreciate them

[larasudomlak]

Self Preservation is your right. Remove yourself from any person, place or situation that is not of your choice. No explanation. No excuses. No convincing a grown adult. No need for them to be in your life at all. Just because everyone else is doing it...doesn't mean you have to submit to a narrative you want absolutely nothing to do with. The End.😊

[Erikprc]

N O C O N T A C T ‼

I hope everybody is staying safe in these time's. Much love from Los Angeles! ☀️🌞

[valeriecailean]

Dr. Ramani, you have been my guiding light as I not only discovered that my husband of 25 yrs is a (c)overt narcissist, but he is also BPD!!!! Thank YOU for opening my eyes - 2 weeks after I learned about the profiles, I discovered that he's been leading a double-life for years.. wish me luck - I am faced with Mount Everest, but hey - now I know what to expect!!! 😉👍

[mamalex]

My narcissist is a covert, neglectful, communal, generational and cultural narcissist. Quite a doozy of a person.

[KCNwokoye]

Thank you Dr Ramani, you are truly one of the small group of people with a brilliant mind and heart full of empathy on the web who truly are here to help others be better not just sell products. You give so much value each time and you do it with grace and love in your heart and eyes, so I am deeply grateful. I have your latest book on Audio book and it's awesome. Everyone needs to go read it or listen to it. It's all of her genius and so much more. It's definitely better on audible as you can carry it with you and have her wise voice guiding you. I am grateful for your insights and grace. Keep on shining Queen!

[genevalawrence]

"Self preservation is a right." It seems so simple, yet for those of us raised by a narcissist, it's not as obvious as one might hope. I've spent the last few years identifying the false beliefs I was raised with, unlearning them, and learning new truths. You have helped, Dr. Ramani. Thank you for this series. It has brought me (and likely many others) insight.

[cymbolichuman]

A friend told me they weren't enough for a man. I told her it's because he will
never be enough for her. And I insisted she quit thinking that way. We can't
allow ourselves to be dependent on what someone says about us. We
have to depend on what we think and how we want our lives to flow.

[phoenixrising]

Regardless of the specific narcissistic types their inflicted emotional/mental abuse is toxic and dysfunctional. Love yourself enough to let go ✊

[nd]

You are the first practitioner on YouTube to speak of hybrid narcissists. My husband is a hybrid grandiose, neglectful, malignant narcissist. Yikes.

[jenla]

“Stop defending / explaining yourself it is a waste of time - they.are.not.listening.to.you and they will still blame you” 👌🏻👌🏻

[ceegee]

I have been in therapy for decades. Decades!! And moved several times so had a variety of therapists. Not a single one of them said, hey, I understand, you were surrounded by narcissists. Not one! How much that would have helped!! Thank you Doctor Ramani for being the person who made me feel sane! I always knew I was. But no one ever said so. No one ever validated me like you do, Doctor Ramani! Thank you!

[phyllisjunemillerjohnson]

You are soo good. I like hearing your voice while I'm puttering around the house.
You are soo grounding.