My wife is not an angel // Part 1 [CC]

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[grimesdaughter]

I find it so degrading, when some people tell disabled persons: "Omg, your partner is so wonderful for taking care of you inspite of all that!"
Because they think they are saying something flattering, but actually they are saying: "Do you even know what a burden you are and how hard it must be for them to put up with you?"
I mean, I'm not disabled, but I'll just make a stab in the blue and hypothesize that disabled people in romantic relationships actually do think a lot about that and are not excactly happy getting reminded of it? 😅

[DianaBell_MG]

No one would date anyone if we had to write down everything wrong with us before we meet

[andybee]

My husband is mentally ill to the point of being disabled. He’s very kind, funny, and intelligent, but he has a hard time holding a job because of social anxiety an ptsd. Because I’m the woman and he’s the man, people assume that he’s being lazy and inconsiderate by “making” me work. I have a hard time explaining that I love him and don’t care that he’s disabled. I didn’t marry him for financial reasons. I married him because we’re in love. And people who love each other stay with each other no matter what challenges they face. He will be a great stay at home dad, and that’s just as valuable as making money. I actually like the idea of being the working parent. I even have to remind him sometimes. When you love someone, you treat them like family. Would you just refuse to take care of your parent, sibling or child because their disability was physically or emotionally draining?

[kyliecuthbertson]

She’s a dentist, makes a great garden, and is a total babe. How is that not an angel?

[jordanlake]

Claud is an angel, but not because she’s dating a disabled person, she’s just lovely

[CupcakeBla]

When I was just reading the title I was thinking "Of course she isn't. She's a dentist."

[cxdiggy]

My dad is recently disabled and he is constantly apologizing to my mom for being a burden and thanking her for taking care of him, and it is so heartbreaking to know thats how he sees himself at the moment because we are all just so thankful he survived none of us see him as a burden, least of all my mom.

[LadyLifa]

My boyfriend is Deaf and when people make comments about his “condition” or “hearing impairment” somehow being this big obstacle, I’m taken aback and I’m shocked because it’s so far removed from how I think of him that I don’t know what to say to these people.

My boyfriend is Deaf, it’s nbd. I’m learning ASL, I already add captions whenever I watch TV, & I have no problem finding the best ways for us to communicate. This is the guy that picked up my broken pieces and showed me that I was still someone worth loving and knowing, that I could still contribute to the world even though my life has not gone to plan. His Deafness is absolutely no problem for me. And you know what one of the first things we bonded over was? Music. So take that, all your preconceptions, limiting beliefs, & other bs.

[mikaelamcauliffe]

“I think you’ll find, I’m actually a catch” far out that’s fabulous

[hannahmacey]

You're right... You and your wife aren't angels... You're whole goddesses!

[nuviamor]

“I’m an oldie so I don’t know what Netflix and chill actually means” .... Jessica excited for Netflix and chill 😂, she seems to know the true meaning.

[ohh]

Jessica advertising herself is just hilarious

[rosequill]

How to ask out a disabled person:
"Will you go out with me?"

[OK-hiym]

The headache story reminded me of the scene from Friends when Rachel is in labor and Ross hits head and says “you have no idea how bad this hurts” while Rachel is literally pushing out a baby

[thelittlestpika]

As someone with an autoimmune disorder that leaves me constantly exhausted, my able bodied fiance is not better for staying with me through it but it definitely is a perk knowing that he won't leave just because of my health.

[melissabell]

So glad I found this. I am the able bodied partner in a lesbian polyamorous triad. I've had people tell me I'm an angel, and they always quickly find out how not angelic I can be when I tell them what I think of that using the more gutteral ranges of my vocabulary.

[Me-ssgq]

Jessica: *has memory problems*
Also Jessica: MY WIFE WAS AN HOUR LATE TO OUR FIRST DATE




No hate, just thought it was kinda funny lol

[sunnybugz]

CLAUDIA NOT KNOWING WHAT 'Netflix and chill' MEANS WAS SO FUNNY IDK WHY

[SMC-zmkg]

I feel this. My husband is disabled (left side paralyzed, cancer, and now a new seizure disorder that means he can’t read or look at screens). He was paralyzed when I met him, and people have said that I’m amazing for doing all this....nope. I just love him

[lauram]

I think the "on paper" comment is very interesting in a world where we've become accustomed to seeing profiles of people and ruling them out with little to no compromise. So I don't think that not telling people right away is "tricking" them (a worry I've had about my own behaviour before). My current boyfriend didn't tell me he was autistic until we'd been on a couple of dates and by that point I was just like "yeah, makes sense, cool" rather than forming expectations or doubts. I however told him about my mental health in just about the first message because I had so much guilt that he might not know what he was "getting into". I realise now it would have been okay not to.