If Your Shame Is Holding You Back . . .

Do you sometimes feel like you’re still carrying trauma from a narcissistic relationship? Perhaps you’re haunted by regret over the fact that you didn’t leave earlier. Or you’ve been through so much in recent years that you’re not even sure you know who you are anymore . . . and have no idea how to start the healing process.
 
In today’s video, an incredible member of my Club 320 inner circle asked 3 beautifully vulnerable questions (and gave me permission to share them with you). From a painful childhood to a 10-year relationship with a narcissist, she wanted to figure out how to release shame, heal, and find her true self.
 
No matter what your story is, you don’t have to carry this baggage forever. I think that after listening to Cara’s story, you might start to look at your life, your history, and your future differently.

Full video on my Youtube channel

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[sashgk]

"...you didn't have the childhood"
So true.

[Shiva_Ani]

"...That doesn't deserve shame. It requires compassion." It feels so right for so many things in our lives. ❤

[Areadien]

"Guess what? Today's best is better than yesterday's best." I expected the audience to clap right there cuz they was clap-worthy. 👏

[Kr]

This man is one of the vey few relationship coaches worth listening to. He’s almost always spot on.

[Universe]

I almost cried from hearing his compassionate words

[celceleste]

You can see the compassion, empathy and kindness coming from Matthew. What an incredible human being he is to truly, wholeheartedly want to help humans.

[HeatherReid-qi]

God bless her. She had a difficult time. She deserves a good life ahead

[deezed]

He is seriously so wise and the best dating coach out there

[betsyveritas]

Yes, Matthew is right on the mark. Forgive yourself for what is only a lack of self love, for a time. We all suffer it, especially women, because we're not taught, much less allowed, good self esteem. Not your fault.
Be especially gentle with yourself & you'll have that to offer others.

[phoebesmith]

Well said Matthew. Compassion for self is where it’s at.

[Shelly-plvn]

Wow Matthew, much better than any therapist, ! Amazing.

[Jeaniebean]

I needed to hear this twenty years ago but happy to hear it today.

[wonderwomanx]

Ahhh and there it is… compassion. He’s right.

[amandaredeagle]

The longest chapter of my life, grateful I can write another

[kosviik]

Thanks Matt.

Recently coming out of an 8 year long relationship, where now I realize I did my best, but her best wasn't good enough even for herself... I needed to hear this.

I just wish I could go back in time. Not to change anything, but to give myself a hug. Because the little guy really didn't even know how much he struggled... And he deserves all the love he didn't get from her.

But now. Now he gets it from me.

[KittyFoxArtWorld]

Dear Matthew, thank you so much for your gentleness and compassion with all of us that are struggling to do better.

[bronx]

We need more human beings like Matthew, please 🙏💕

[pritianita]

Matthew, I love you the way you healed her. I stopped crying here at home too as I've been through the same❤❤❤

[brookemarchant]

This is so well said. They have already beaten us down in so many ways we don’t need to continue doing that to ourselves, we need to let go of any guilt, guilt is not welcome, and instead we need to work on building ourselves back up again.

Hurricane Narc left destruction, but we can still build an empire out of the rubble ❤❤❤

[michellekane]

When you know better you can then do better and when she did She Did That is a 🥇