Why you can't find the words!

If you have a fear of speaking in front of people, and have a lack of self confidence in public meetings where you have to speak. It might not be your voice. It could be your emotional state. Lets see if todays tip can help you overcome this fear.

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[iselagonzalez]

Just what I needed to hear.... I hate not being able to communicate how I want

[m.lk.]

I don’t think it’s always about someone’s emotions when they can’t articulate themselves clearly. I also think their vocabulary is a huge factor of it. Getting more knowledge on a variety of words will help immaculately.

[projectunknown]

I struggled a lot with this two years ago, and still do to some extent. Without even realizing it, I’ve used this advice since then, and it has helped me tons!
Thanks for making a video on this topic and putting it into words like this ☺️

If some of you struggle with this I would really recommend recording yourself and try to get comfortable speaking to a camera. It may sound odd, but it’s a great way to practice holding “eye contact” and force yourself to speak with confidence to something that won’t give you a response to what you’re saying. It is surprisingly uncomfortable, but it has changed the way I communicate.

Pick up your phone. Find a topic to talk about, it doesn’t really matter what you talk about. The goal is just to speak for a set amount of time. Rewatch the recording and find two-three points you could improve. For example: lack of eye contact, “uhh”, “ehh” and “ahh” sounds etc...
Make a second recording where you focus on these points and make a new assessment of it. Did I improve?
Rinse and repeat. I did this daily for 10 days or so and saw an amazing improvement.
If you struggle with speaking with confidence, I really hope you give this exercise a shot! And if you do, please let me know if it helped! It might also encourage even more people to try it out😇

Again, thanks for addressing this issue I know a lot of people including me struggle with. Have an amazing week! 👊🏻
Much love from a random Norwegian.

[okayranks-]

This is the realest video you ever made.

[katiem]

I've sometimes struggled with this too - and thinking about it, it's usually in a situation where I'm not confident in my answer, or I'm not comfortable sharing that thing with the person I'm with - so it's definitely the psychological response that then causes that physical adrenaline rush/glottal stop that can amount to a blank. It's annoying but good to know there's a way to improve on it!

[peacefulhorsellc]

I’ve recently joined an improv class. This has been a fun way to put my “thinking” aside and be in the moment with my words. I appreciate these “Improve Your Voice” videos!

[DANLIAOFreeToLearnChinese]

Thank you so much for all your videos. You are a brilliant coach.

[oviislam]

That's why I'm a subscriber of yours. Thanks sir, and lots of love❤️ from Bangladesh 🇧🇩

[bwash]

Thank you for this video. I finally looked up this issue I have been struggling with. I see the rest of your videos are also equally what I need at this time. You just got a new subscriber! So excited to do the daily warm ups for my voice!!!

[amulyamishra]

Thanks Darren ! Very helpful insight 🙂

[bobalobba]

Thanks Darren, I used to struggled in meetings when put on the spot, but I'm a lot more confident now and it has helped. Thanks for reassuring us.

[PrigglyPearr]

Wow I'm so happy i decided to click on this qwp I'm so happy to be able to share this!💙❤💙❤💜💜💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💜💙❤

[kumipermaecovillageghana]

Don't think too much about what people say about you but always think positive about yourself.

[amulyamishra]

I don't know how will I be judged after this....but I try to take lessons from Christopher Hitchens on public speaking...So erudite, fluent, and firm !

[devamshah]

Rule no.1- whatever people feel or think about you is completely false

[liviupopeanga]

A new subscriber and new friend. Thanks

[valeriebwilliams]

put on the spot yes, so what I do is wait a few seconds b4 replying

[williamdavies]

Can you do a Paul Battany Voice Review please

[josketobben]

Apparently this is what people needed to hear. But I can't escape the impression that blatant delusion isn't the answer to lack of confidence. That's what creates those brash characters that emphasize their insecurity with their put-on assertiveness.

[V-Oblivion]

Question, what about people (like me) who hear their voice already low, but when hearing a recording is totally different?
(Nasal, in my case).