4 Ways to Stop Self-Sabotaging Your Success | Conor Neill

Take control of your life and end self-sabotaging behaviour. The world will put countless obstacles in your path but none will be as big as your own self-sabotage.

The 4 Destructive Self-Sabotage Mindsets:
- Distraction
- Emotional Impulsiveness
- Arrogance and sense of Entitlement
- Fixed Mindset

Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain.

Conor is a sought-after keynote speaker on Leadership. He teaches Leadership Communications at IESE Business School and is the President of Vistage in Spain, part of the world’s leading CEO organisation. As an entrepreneur, he has founded 5 companies, selling 16 private jets and building the 3rd largest fleet of private jets in Spain. He is a visiting professor at University College Dublin, the University of Montevideo and Permanent Faculty on Entrepreneurs’ Organisation’s Global Leadership Academy.

What is Persuasion?
* What does it take to move people to action?
* What does it take to have impact when you communicate?
* How can I inspire the people around me to be the best version of themselves?
These are questions that I answer. I answer these questions with tools that work for politicians, business leaders, entrepreneurs and professors.

Where do I begin?

Speak as a Leader is an email driven course. You will learn to deliver speeches that are interesting and lively so that you can capture and maintain your audience’s attention.

[yantrakar]

Excellent guidance Mr Conor Neill
I want to rearrange this as follows FADE
F - Fixed mindset
A - Arrogance
D - Distraction
E - Emotions

[SAA-zcxp]

Being Humble despite a great personality and so much knowledge is perhaps your key to being so effective

[mrmoshlijjie]

I am Arabic
It takes a long time to translate the video
The good news is that it deserves
Thank you
Allah bless you

[mariamshqair]

The most things sabotaging your success is :
1- Distraction, you have to stop the habit of opening email first in the morning and you have to manage your time, so you can use panadora technique .
2- Emotions, stop react by effect of your emotion, try hard to control rather than it will control you .
3- Arrogance, stop your ego of reserves and shift your attention for another needs .
4- Fixed mindset, you should be a growth mindset, try to give focusing on your work and improving it quality .

[rwharrington]

This guy has a pleasant demeanor. How could you not like his stuff.

[theveka]

OMG why am I discovering this chanel and this guy mid 2022? Content here is magical. Thank you

[lizskyline]

I am really suffering from self sabotaging for years and felt hopeless. Via the DEAF tips from this video, I now know what I can do to begin to stepping out from this downward cycle.

Thank you Conor, I am so grateful!

[FairEnough-too]

So much wisdom condensed in that a four letter acronym.

[alikhalifa]

I was very pleased with my passing from here and listening to some of your videos that completely changed my way of thinking for many things and I think they will help me to avoid many mistakes that hindered me greatly in the past and caused many problems for me, and on the one hand to return some favors to you, I sincerely hope that you give yourself an opportunity that you deserve well and will benefit from it Benefits are endless, I want you to read even as much as one ponodora about the character of the Prophet Muhammad, may God bless him and grant him peace, and a simple translation of the Qur’an, and I will be very happy if I know that you did so thank you

[Food-Dharma]

Conor Neill, I consider you my life teacher because your lessons have helped me improve my life. I cannot thank you enough. Please keep sharing your wisdom and your learning with the world. Your work impact more people than you’ll ever realize.

[avirajsingh]

Hi Conor, your videos mean a lot to me. That's all I can say.
In world, I respect most to my parents and to my "real" teachers and you are like a real teacher to me. Thank you soo much for sharing your knowledge.

[cindyeyler]

Interesting the point of arrogance/entitlement equating to feeling worthy of having, better or more—- so many times I see clients experiencing worthiness issues and not feeling or believing they are good enough to have, better, none the less, worthy of more. I find this flip side you discuss an interesting contrast. I get the arrogance/entitlement aspect. The worthy portion has a bit of fine line... in other words to me it depends. Thanks for the video.

[Thing-vcqm]

Great video. As always the hardest part it to put the theory into practice, but realizing what holds you back is the first step toward taking care of it.

[UncommonSenz]

I'm thrilled by your sense of composure and articulation... I'm happy I chanced on your profile.. I just wish I did earlier..

[FolaOluwashade]

I'm so glad I came across you via Youtube suggested videos. I'm learning a lot from your videos. Thanks a million for sharing your wealth of experience and wisdom with us. I just thought I should let you know your videos are making tremendous positive impacts.

[marianalituana]

this is my first 'contact' with you, Conor, and this video is a kind of balsam, fresh rain on arid land when so many hard-sell talks and self=branding speeches just don't help. Thank you for you kind tone, inspiring words and realistic pieces of advice.

[ThatCologneGuy]

University professor as well and I love this list....I especially like that he doesn't use 'Fear' for 'F'....'Emotions' is so much stronger than just fear....It really stuck with me when he said that we shouldn't react to the world from emotions. I checked out Kilian Jornet and his outlook....cool stuff.

[chandanabasnayake]

I am watching this clip again and again whenever I feel distracted or sabotaging my success. Really help me to come out of the sabotaging behaviour.
Thank you.
From Sri Lanka

[BrandonLovoi]

This just blew my mind in a way that I haven’t had in awhile. Brilliant!

[johngaffigan]

You live an "other-centric" life in direct service to others. I strive to live similarly. Your videos are always thought provoking. Some, like this one, stand out as being particularly helpful. God bless on your valuable mission to challenge us to be our absolute best.