Don't Argue or Fight With a NARCISSIST - Do This Instead To WIN EVERY TIME | Lisa Romano

Don't argue with or fight with a narcissist. Instead, learn how to hold onto yourself so you don't lose your cool. Learn how to not argue with a narcissist, and you take the power out of their hands.

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[lisaaromano]

Did you recently stop arguing with a narcissist and if so, what tactic did you use to do so?

[spawncap]

You know you are with a narcissist when they only make you happy with their absence.

[ssweetthang]

You know you're with when a narcissist when they do absolutely NOTHING for you but want you to wait on them like you're a slave.

[carriestropeHVO]

Every time I watch, I am reminded of Alice Walker's poem, "Never offer your heart to someone who eats hearts"

[alexsinclaire]

Narcissist’s always accuse you of the horrible things they are doing to you.

[peacefulliving]

Fixing a Narcissist is like trying to catch the wind.

[fitforever]

It’s easier for adults to stay away from the narc but I feel for the children who are in these kinds of relationships. Going against a parent takes a lot of courage.

[tonihartman]

Offering your emotions/vulnerabilities to a narcissist is like casting your pearls before swine 🎯💯❣️

[farahcardenas]

Summary:
Have zero expectations.
Do not invest emotional energy.
You half way.
Detach.
Keep your tone cool and hold onto yourself.
Raise your awareness.
Do not cast your beautiful pearls.
Let go.
Use the word "we" to avoid drama.
They don't knpw how to take accountability.
Be in control of your own vibration.
Focus on the facts.
Don't tale the bait.
Redirect the question.
Do not appear nervous.
Remain in integrity.
Hold onto yourself .
They may trigger your abandonement wounds.
Develop skills to honor yourself.
Mantain your cool.
"And the deadline?"
Understand his/her agenda.
They will trig your abandonement.
They dangle validation.

[ssweetthang]

You know you're with a narcissist when they become hostile and call you a liar while lying to you.

[leeweldon]

A narc will also interrupt you when you’re trying to tell them your feelings or talk about an issue and continue to do so until you lose your cool and that keeps you from ever getting to get the message across. Very aggravating!

[Nokss]

Detach. Don't explain anything. Don't respond. Switch off your emotions when you're with them. It works like magic, they'll first try to get a reaction then they'll run off. 👌👌👌

[Chris-lzfs]

I found out sharing my feelings with a narc was a bad idea the hard way. I've since cut all ties with various people who are narcs. Life is a lot better without them.

[brendalogan]

They poisen your spirit and cage your soul..
Run for the hills... fixing a narcissist is a waste of energy and a total drain...

[MrsRad-dtok]

I went gray rock. I stopped talking about myself, my feelings, or even my daily plans. He didn’t know what to do with himself, it drove him crazy. He would take me out to eat order his food and take two bites while I enjoyed my meal. I knew he wanted me to notice but I completely ignored him because I knew he wanted me to say hey what’s wrong? Why didn’t you eat? It would’ve made the situation worse. So I would smile and say thank you for dinner it was delicious. Lol he couldn’t take it anymore that he couldn’t break me. No contact.

[desiree]

Once I stopped reacting he said “You’re not the same person I met, you changed” I began to note down every time he abused me. As of this past January, he was charged with 13 different counts of crimes against me. He is is serving 8 months in jail as of yesterday. CHECK MATE

[simonswamy]

No revenge
No contact
The best gift we can ever give them is surrender them to god
The more you pray for them the more you will see god blesses you
Slowly and surely those memories will fade and your heart is healed and your mind is renewed

[marlenaforbes-reidy]

Narcissist feed off your emotions, they’re like a vampire

[NarcSurvivor]

Don't battle with them, you will never get the validation you are look for. Validate yourself. Observe what they are saying, but don't react.

[vjh]

That strange cruel cycle of love bombing, then devaluation/silent treatment/projection. Being punished for something you don't even realise you have done. Horrendous broken human beings 👎