How Much Does 'Confidence' Help in Attracting Women?

In this video, I discuss my thoughts on how much confidence helps in attracting women.

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[handsomeX]

Women get offended when guys below their looksmatch approach them. Hell, nowadays most of them think theyre 9s and 10s even if theyre a 4. They get upset at the guy for having the audacity to think that he has a shot with her. She sees it as insulting. It's brutal out here.

[SomeBlackDude]

"Have confidence" is the most irritating piece of dating advice.

1) If you're hot, you're already confident because people treat you well and assume the best intentions from you.

2) If you're hot and somehow have zero confidence, people still find you endearing and humble.

3) If you receive frequent, emphatic rejections, you are receiving direct empirical feedback that undermines the development of confidence. Being unconfident if you're normie or below is normal because you consistently achieve the lowest tier of outcomes. How would that possibly breed confidence?

[mrnolastname]

I like this channel because the creator is able to combine the reality of the blackpill with some sense of hope

[dorikin]

In my experience I’ve noticed that as a 5 dude, I have to be super smooth or have a bunch of social proof just to pull girls that are my looksmatch.

[josephcieplak]

Women wouldn't even bother taking the time to admire how brave you are if you approach to her because the very first thing that will go through her head is that you're stalking on her... by getting into her personal space without her authorization and to be honest that's very invasive. just keep in mind that women need to give the first step by giving you subtle signs of attraction toward you, sometimes these signs might not be that subtle but blatant if she finds you irresistible attractive otherwise it won't work.

[dedeborya]

Just be *CONFIDENT* but also be tall, rich, fit, famous, powerful and a bit of a thug - but mostly *TALL*

[crxde_]

Confidence certainly helps if you’re kinda mid in looks, I’m shy as hell but still every girl I’ve ever spoken to hasn’t had a problem with it cos they found me good looking anyways so they just made it work by leading the conversation and I eventually came out of my shell

[StopLyingBro]

I dubbed this saying myself. "What some call confidence can either be disillusion or the confirmation of what someone predetermined about you." And those out comes are based on looks.

[aslysa]

Just be Handsome bro that’s all it takes!!!!

[GuyFierisShirt]

TLDR, it's over and never began.

[Yeahbruh]

The answer is none. I could be shy and weird and still attracted my first gf because she thought I was good looking. If I was overly confident and charismatic with other girls I'm super into it wouldn't do anything. You hit the nail on the head here man. I'm short and unattractive, and it didn't matter how confident I was (which I was) I didn't get any girls I was attracted to. Most men just settle for whoever comes along. Here is a video idea for you, maybe you can answer this question. Do you think that most men just settle for whatever chick comes along (if you're ugly or unattractive)? This is the case for me for sure. Do you think those men could escape it without having money? Do you also think that men that settle are never really satisfied because they really want other hotter women? I've seen scenarios in my personal life where men don't really want to be with their gf and constantly look at other chicks because they can't get any better. Most men I think just get whatever girl, and wish they could be with others.

[whospeaks]

If you're handsome, you're confident and intelligent, a go-getter. If you're ugly, you're arrogant and a know-it-all, pushy. Doesn't matter how subtle you are, anytime you put yourself in a good light, even if its just a little, it will be perceived as arrogance not just by girls. The Blackpill steals another soul once again.

[DonDownloadAudio]

Would be interested in a video or videos about your successes with women after the glow up. In the middle of one myself and it would be cool to hear about the light at the end of the tunnel from a guy who has been on both ends of this

[GregoryTheGrster]

One detail to remember is that women have considerable variety in their preferences, turn-ons, and turnoffs. A woman can be a 7, and can be repulsed by a suave, confident guy who is a 4 just because his appearance is so lacking. However, another woman might also be a 7, and yet she might be delighted by the same guy's humor, personality, etc. The amount of weight a women will put on a man's confidence (or lack thereof) is quite variable--and it usually can be determined only by interacting with them. At least we can say that neither good looks nor confidence will hurt you.

[dariusthurman]

when you lost alot of weight did those female friends change the way the treat. Like you have a female friend thats just platonic but now she wants to get with you.

[masteryoda]

Confidence is only attractive to vvomen, IF, and only IF said vvoman finds you PHYSICALLY attractive to begin with, and you can only be as confident with a vvoman as she allows you to be.

Here's my definition of the word confidence and how to relates to attracting vvomen.

Confidence is a SELF ASSURED FEELING (free of self doubt), that one will achieve a positive or favourable outcome based on previous success, or previous performance accomplishment.

Look at the three critical words that define confidence (SELF ASSURED FEELING). This means that when you're interacting with a vvoman (that you have a romantic/intimate interest in), and she is giving you, negative, hostile, combative body language ie.dirty looks, the silent treatment, back turns, one word answers etc, your confidence (ie. that SELF ASSURED FEELING), will plummet, because you know you're being rejected.

On the other hand, if vvoman you're interacting with is giving you positive, warm inviting body language ie. she moves in your personal space, or allows you to move in on her personal space, she constantly touches and smiles at you, she enthusiastically engages in conversation with you, your confidence or that SELF ASSURED feeling, will increase, because you know there's good chance you're going to get lucky.

When vvomen say they are attracted to confidence, what they are really saying is, "us vvomen are attracted to tall, good looking men, who have the confidence to approach us, after we have them the green light to do so".

So telling an below average to ugly looking man to just have "confidence", is akin to pouring syrup on sh*.it, and calling it pancakes.

Confidence is the byproduct of success, it's not the cause of it.

[hammerotongo]

Jane Birkin said that she found Serge Gainsbourgh physically repulsive the first time he approached her, and I believe she is telling the truth.

I think what you are saying is ~generally~ true, but not always

[geekiepooh]

Good video.

This is like trying to purchase a vehicle that has good features and performance but, you cant get over how ugly it looks. Its such a downer that you cant overlook it.

[Trappyholmes]

U better hope the red pill avengers don’t see this 😂😂

[AgeofCraccadilliaassent]

Im average but 5'7 so never began