How to Catch a Narcissist in a Lie Every Time (No-Fail Method!)

How to Catch a Narcissist in a Lie Every Time (No-Fail Method!) - Plus How to Tell a Narcissist is Lying and Lies People Tell You About Narcissists - Everything You Need to Know About Catching Narcissists in Lies.

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[AngieAtkinson]

Hi SPANily! Here are a few more videos you might find helpful if you're dealing with a narcissist who lies to you:

[JessicaMarieRamirez]

He would look me dead in the eye, cry and be lying. He couldn't ever be honest

[timothygenaw]

Just assume anything they say could be a lie. Quietly analyze everything until it makes sense. Once someone lies, all their truths will be questioned.

[rogerrimka]

When they laugh at something horrible that another person goes through

[redsquirrel]

If a narcissist opens their mouth they are lying.

[pamcrowder]

They get really defensive when caught lying

[laurabarber]

Narcissist tend to say I don't know and I don't remember a lot. Especially when the facts are right in front of them they very conveniently don't know or don't remember. Sound familiar?

[Imnotyourdoormat]

they'll tell a lie where the truth would work

[MisinfoTainmentX]

I love the way u deliver your content, your personality comes through, so bubbly and lovely

[escherichanja]

Narcissists often compliment, before they manipulate. Example: "What a brilliant way of putting it which of course includes telling us how to be in order not to be fake all the way from what to where and when down to what gender we should be instead according to them too."

[krystalMtn]

I played it this same way for decades. I learned during the first 5yrs not to show my hand or always call the narc out because he would change his behaviors at that point. Gradually I learned his "tells", like a poker player and 9.9 times out of 10 I knew for fact when he was lying without having visible proof. I had to teach myself to hold back, observe, and test my question/theory over time. This showed me that what I suspected was happening, was happening.

[Dirogo]

You really summed it up great. And no, therapists dont understand the severity of NPD; unless you experience it, its too difficult to grasp the severity of the disorder.

[catsaberhagen]

My narc lies about everything, pathological and for no reason

[saratemp]

A sociopath is someone who gets pleasure in expending other people in their pursuit of individual glory.

[anothervanwinkle]

The degree by which she was "off" in whichever way, be it witholding information, misrepresenting, blame shifting, was directly reflected in the magnitude of narcissistic rage when I confronted her. She definitely must have a sense for her wrongdoings. The fact that I was able to sustain this for 5 years shows me, how strong I am/was; but sadly, ultimately the stress inflicted by that permanent state of war takes its toll...

[saratemp]

A narc is someone who believes other people are expendable in their pursuit of societal esteem.

[FaithAndForensics]

Wow! Brilliant analogy:
Narcissists love their kids like they love their cell phones.

[kamhart]

I was told in a confrontation once about lying about his where he had been & after A few exchanges he looks at me, with a snide look & tells me...” well it’s NOT A LIE, If I don’t tell you anything!” ..think he had used that all his life? ...I use to think I could read him like a book. What I didn’t realize was I had figured out his patterns & body language & he gave himself away because he was so habitual in his lying. He progressed to believing & living his lies. And when caught, he would become like a child caught stealing candy or cookies! It was like dealing with a 5 yr old! And then of course I always ended being at fault somehow ..That’s where the button pushing came in... as soon as he hit the right button with me, I’d loose it, he’d smile & go off & do what he wanted ..believing it was all my fault. Not reacting is my biggest challenge! He is truly a pathological liar!

[leekovach]

My narc would keep talking about the lie he was trying to convince me of for long periods of time. I knew he was telling me what didn't happen by the length of time he talked about it.

[saratemp]

Angie, I was thinking about something you might be interested in. I was thinking you all (therapists, sociologists, etc.) need to add another stage in the narc relationship arc. I call it the "training stage". So first, would be the love bombing stage, then comes the new "TRAINING stage", and then comes the devalue and discard phase. I thought about this, because it reflects what I went thru with my narc. With my narc, the first 6 months were of course wonderful with the love bombing stage. Then around 6 months, it all turned. Then he started bringing up wild ideas, and was furious at me if I did not agree 100%. Then he started fibbing, and was furious at me if I called him out on his fibs in any way. So in other words, he started "training" me on how he wanted me to be ... subservient. Of course, he would not see it that way, he would call it agreeable or loving I guess. But since I would not be subservient enough for him, now he was 'disappointed' in me. He thought, well, he tried to teach me and help me, but she just would not listen, it was 'her fault'. So that gave him his excuse to start devaluing me. But you need that 'training stage' for this to all make sense.