Learning How to Listen Is a Skill That Is Absolutely Unbeatable

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[Mnvrs]

The majority of people, and I include myself in this unfortunately, hear to respond rather than to listen. It is something I really want to change about myself, because it is truly an invaluable skill as Mr P states. I feel everyone would progress much further in life being able to do this, even more so if one wants to be a leader of sorts.

[OdintheGermanShepherd]

I’ve noticed so many people not only do not “listen” but they actively hijack the conversation…

[Kay-yuzd]

I got better at listening to people over a span of five years (around the time I started watching Jordan P.).
It was really rough, other people reflected my own insufficiencies back at me. It was hard not to swipe at them, I habitually acted out "an eye for an eye".
I didn't even realize I was doing it.. that's fascinating.
Jordan, you helped me orient myself in ways I can't even begin to comprehend right now. I am eternally grateful for your work.

[hebertjerome]

truly listening means really removing the ego.

[dervakommtvonhinten]

the line "you can be absolutely dead, but there is only so happy you can be" is quite profound

[Milestonemonger]

"If the envious part of you isn't jealous of the revelation of the goodness of the person" 💥 damn 💯

[maytheforcebewithyou]

I did this with a relationship I had, and it seemed to improve immediately! The change was measurable. Never thought it would help so fast!

[nadeemamode]

In business, i always appreciate it when colleagues write down whats being said.

Sometimes its not listening thats the issue but comprehension.

[Cinderella]

Sometimes I find the need to improve my listening skills. Thank you Jordan. ✝️❤️

[talmadhoun]

Thank you from the bottom of my heart Dr. Peterson ❤️

[cx]

This is one of my biggest issue of public education. They want to learn, but do not (generally) give the skills to learn such as listening, taking notes, ...

[talmadhoun]

I’m definitely going to carefully listen to this one!

Not only listen but listen, learn and apply.

[shield-uf]

This is my favourite video of Peterson.
Love from Germany!

[spmoran]

Listening is respecting . There are few people that actually know how to listen properly at present . People talk, but few listen to each other .
It is respectful to listen to the other persons point of view, even if it cannot be agreed with . It is frustrating to say something, and know it wasnt listened too
In any relationship with parents, partners, children, friends and foes . The art of listening is essential
It is lacking in in all walks of life . And thus we have conflict .

[davidevans]

Acknowledgement of what you learn is priceless, with financial benefit.

[leejones]

I tell my kids there is a difference between hearing something and listening to something. The sooner they can tell the difference the better.

[hunterharris]

I really appreciate you Mr. Peterson, thank you for your passion 🙏 and attention to detail.

[UrSoLovedByGod]

Wow. This is the same kind of encouragement given in a book called "Transforming The Difficult Child: A Nurtured Heart Approach, " which is very useful for parents dealing with oppositional defiance disorder and such like behavioral difficulties in kids. You try everything in vain, and the day you start to consistently show them that you saw the good they did, and not so much the bad, there's a shift in behavior.

[harrison]

JP is the man. Fantastic segment. I was hoping this would be techniques on how to become a better listener, but rather it details the benefits of being s good listener.

[clarencejbos]

Good job, Jordan. I consider this a "top up" of the teaching I received in the Psychology undergraduate course in the mid 80s at another Ontario university. Glad to learn more about Skinner.