Dating Tips For Inexperienced Guys, Advice For Introverts, Increasing Intimacy & More | Q&A

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[johnnyf]

After I was in a horrible relationship that ended at the beginning of the year I’ve watched your content religiously and it did a worlds of help to me being ok with myself while still working on myself.
Thank you for everything!

[GoDawgs]

Hey Courtney, this is just the video for me. I’m almost 20, never had a gf. I’ve had plenty of girls ask me out but I could never say yes because I didn’t have a phone (strict parents). I’ve also dealt with depression the last few years but I’m finally getting out of it. I’m starting college soon so I hope to meet a nice lady to spend my life with and finally get a gf 😂

[lukepascal]

Not married, but ive been in a long term relationship. I’ve found so much value in your channel Courtney. It has really made me a better partner and has helped me to better understand myself and my values. Thank you!

[JohnSmith-qqjp]

Best relationship advice from a couple that had been married for almost 60 years: understand your partners faults and deal with them. What does this mean? Understand what your partners faults, quirks, habits, etc. are and if none of them are deal-breakers, you understand that you will not change any of them or make them go away; so in other words, you deal with them.

And for those of you that think you don't have any of those, you are wrong; you have some...everyone does. My wife and I have been very happily married for over 30 years...

[Noodur]

I’m a 37 year old father of two young kids and I’m recently divorced. I have 20 years of relationship experience, but only with 1 woman. Helpful video today, thanks.

Would love more thoughts on dating in your 30s or dating as a single father.

[Cannabian]

I'm just turning 39 next month, after my last relationship in my late 20s ending horribly I decided I needed to work on me. That's what I've done for the last decade. Recently started dating. I do worry about the mistakes I WILL make but it will be more about who I am and my ability to self correct. I don't believe many women who learn about me would hold it against me. To many guys haven't gone back and examined there life as a story and figuring out how to explain it without sounding pathetic. That's the problem, you're more ashamed of the lack of work, you won't be able to explain why you were single not that you were single.

[AllyPenguin]

Yes, as a lady I would love relationship advice for women!

I stumbled upon your channel when I was single. I'm now in a loving relationship and I think your videos definitely contributed to the journey here. I would love to hear more focused on women as well. Thank you! 😊

Edited to add: My boyfriend slid into my DMs from a ski group on facebook. Never had any success with dating apps. So it was a bit of a mix of hobbies and online. It's crazy how well we have worked together even though I knew nothing about him before our first date. 😂

[lutzmokoena]

Thank you so much for this. As an introverted man who has no dating experinece, it's nice to feel validated. May the New Year be kind to you!

[ajtaylor]

This has been a great year for watching your content, and I'm appreciative of all your great videos. Here's to more greatness in 2024, Courtney! 🥂

[huhhuhhuh]

Courtney, you’re a breath of fresh air in the current toxic dating scene. I think you’re helping a lot of decent men.

[ABoyCalledThomas]

Courtney, after my 6 years relationship ended, I took a year off dating. Now I'm putting myself out there again. Even though I have some experience, your videos help me so much! You have no idea how many men you are helping. Thank you for your time and effort!

[alexandersmith]

I've never had a girlfriend myself. I'm 30, and honestly after being single for so long, I'm growing more and more fond of being single. Yes I have days when I don't want to be, but after hearing so many stories and tips on dating and marriage, I think it's been a good thing I've been single for so long. As an introverted autistic 30 year old man, it's difficult for someone like me. Even at churches, soup kitchens, clubs, libraries, and other places I go to. Each woman is different so trying a new approach with each woman is always a roll of the dice and never really worked for me. I've gotten a few numbers but nothing came from them. On top of that, it's hard for me as it is navigating through daily life and never having broad knowledge about reading people.

So yeah, I think it's good I'm single, yeah it sucks at times but with each passing year I remain a bachelor, I becoming more indifferent to relationships. It's just too much for a man like me to do it anyway. I'm just not really compatible with anyone. Now you're probably saying "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" and yes I understand that and I don't really care if a woman wants me at this point.

[britishsouth]

I've been married 12 years and I've found many of your videos to be balanced, actionable, and effective in a committed relationship. Of course, It takes a willingness from both parties to be curious, to put advice into action, and wake up every day willing to marry your partner all over again. Best wishes for you and your husband!

[jesusariasjr.]

Courtney, Happy New Year 2024 to you! This year in 2023 was my first year tuning into your channel and I have really enjoyed it! You have a very positive, supportive and upbeat delivery style with great insight for. keep up the great work!

[retro_crasher]

Happy new year! Thanks for the content. Love the fact I discovered this channel this year! After some self improvement and getting through school, I think with your help I can really start having the confidence to go out some time in the future. You are a good role model and have lots of good insights for a guy like me. Eye opening content to some degree and really hopeful/ confidence boosting as well. Thank you so much for the content you put out for us, and I hope you have a relaxing holiday!

[lawrence]

Many thanks for all the content you have made in 2023, Courtney! We are all looking forward to the content you will make in 2024. Happy New Year!

[lebuzuh]

This channel helped me so much in my dating life. Don't have a gf...yet but helped me see results I never expected not only in the dating world and in my personal life. Keep your head up kings!

[Ux_change]

Courtney, I have to say that is a bless to hear you speaking online, I like your tone and your logical approach to these topics and the way to present and breakdown your points of dialogue. congrats keep it that way.

[masterofthenothing]

Thank you Courtney! Been following your channels for around a year now. Even though i'm in a building phase and choosing to stay single, your videos all help!

[BEATmyguest]

Music, film, working out, studying, 9-10 hours a day running my business, hanging with friends, camping/ hiking / snowboard trips, beach, my 2 dogs. I just don’t think there’s any time for games/ heartless manipulation — IM BOOKED! 🤷‍♂️