How To Let Go of a Guy Who Can't Value Your Worth

[sandragreen]

Love yourself.The guy for you will pursue you always.any guy you feel like you have to chase, he ain't the one for you.

[dhiafairusshofiafani]

Stop 🔥 all 🔥 contact
Ladies, don't let your kind heart make excuses for his lack. Yes, we thought he could be different but incongruent words and actions are red flags even if the guy seemed like "a good guy". Geez he knows what he's doing! Say bye bye 🔥❤

[sarahshipp]

I learned this, and left a relationship because I realized that I put up with shoddy behaviour, and lost self respect. I thought I was being a good girlfriend.. by taking anything that he offered, and not demanding more. I realized we both loved him, and neither one of us loved me. I didn't love myself enough to expect more.

[sandragreen]

I seriously offered my whole emotions to an emotionally unavailable man.

[sandragreen]

Just had my heart broken and it was my own fault. Falling for someone who didn't share the same feelings. I've been slowly detaching myself from him.🙌❤️🙏

[lolohalaman]

People who take steps such as this (making videos, sharing their knowledge and guidance) save lives and they don't even know. Thank you

[mabe-tz]

Thank you Bern, I let go of a guy like this a couple of months back. I’ve been feeling down and still think about him sometimes, but I always come back to the conclusion that it was for the best. While the odds seem to be against me currently, I believe I’ll eventually meet someone who treats me right and sees my value :)

[sandragreen]

Never cancel plans for a guy. I felt that.🙌❤️🙏

[mariaheart]

Thank you so much Bernardo for explaining to us the meaning of loving yourself, so many people talk about it but they don't explain what it means or give examples, I loved your video, I was in a relationship like with someone who didn't value me, women mistakenly sit and wait hoping for things to change, but once a guy puts you in the 'sex friend ' category, he will not change his mind, the only way to make him value you is to walk away, my ❤goes out to all women going through this, it's devastating to our self esteem 😢

[Rose_Charboneau]

I did everything for him, burning myself out. When I left I felt like the problem. Turns out he hadn't healed prior to our getting together. Feel as though I gave up on him, like I was the problem the whole time. Had even called him out on feeling as though he didn't love me for who I was but rather lover what I could do for him. Truly believe he lacks (or did at the time) emotional intelligence and maturity. Just wanted peace so felt leaving was the only option as communication was impossible. He's probably talking bad about me these days.

Please don't do situationships. They're not worth it. Unless it's something you're okay with, don't do it. Just easier to be alone. Be lonely at times yes.

[sandragreen]

Why do i have emotion for you when you don't have emotions for me?"

[paperjellyfish]

Bottom line, block the ghost, block, delete, period. I did that today, and I feel 100% better.

[StellaChilinharova]

He will love you by what you allow. Don’t allow less

[Micahsophia]

Great advice..ladies love yourself & dont back down on your standards for your life

[roseestrada]

Thank you for reminding me not to lose myself in his world again.I recently reconnected with my boyfriend of 6years and once again I let myself go into his world, and be his option…I need to Love myself madly again and let him be my option😡😡

[joancollins]

Currently going through a difficult time with an avoidant man. He needed space so I’ve stepped away and I’m currently doing my own thing. Hurts like hell but I know it will fade as time passes.
He can’t afford me anymore because I’m worth more than he can offer me in terms of emotional connection. I know this but I’d forgotten and I’m having a hard time believing it again.

[markwatson]

Bern you ALWAYS give solid, thought provoking advice and i want you know you are appreciated.

[SouthFloridaChica]

Omg you made me cry halfway through. Right when you said the word "punch". Fuck
Honestly all the points you made are so great and encouraging. I'm going to add something...with all do respect... this video has encouraged me to also start therapy finally. I can only help but to ask myself as you spoke "why do you allow yourself to be treated this way, what is the root cause?" This goes deeper. And I'm so so so grateful for you making this video. This cleared it up for me....I will never be haply with the man of my dreams or better yet MEET the man of my dreams because I'm not valuing myself enough and I'm allowing men to treat me less. Determined to end the subconscious self sabotage. 💪 thank you once again
Disclaimer: I witnessed my mother get beaten and controlled by a narcissist growing up. I thought I was better than her cause no man has ever had the opportunity to do it to me. But I have failed to see that just cause they dony hit me doesn't mean they are good enough for me. I need to require more.

[askew]

I do everything for the wrong men.
If I found the right man, they have no idea how much love, respect and spoiling they’d receive. I’ve been waiting a lifetime for him. 😢

[christinaoulundsen]

Okay ladies, I'm starting a petition to clone this man!!!...ur amazing Bern!!! Thank you!!!🙏❤