The Empty Feeling Is A Goldmine - Kyle Cease

A lot of magical revelations arise in this incredible episode of “Hot Seat” where we discover why empaths lose themselves when others are around.

In the process of listening deeper, we see again that we haven’t allowed ourselves to be heard in order to not cause drama with others.

This is a fun one on one that opens so many new doors for so many new possibilities.

Transcend guilt, awaken your soul, and see so much in you. Become a better friend, partner, or parent as you learn how to hear what everyone including yourself is feeling simultaneously.

It would be impossible to not grow after watching this.
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[NichtNochEinGluecksguru]

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Omg, your comments are incredible! We all are really one, we struggle the same way, we feel the same way… appreciate all of you! Thank you so so so much!! Much love to all of you!!!💕💕💕

Thank you so so much Kyle for your open heart and hearing me and my inner child at the hot seat! It has opened a new world for me! Sending so much love and appreciation ❤

[lovingliberation]

I remember the phrase 'shut up or I'm going to give you something to cry about'

[sandrabrown]

Wow…72 years old and I was so moved .Bahar you have opened and seen my little child…I love you!🇨🇦

[dianahartley]

This so me. I am thrilled that I am not the only one. Attachment is exhausting, not love. Love is different. Never heard this before. Wow

[yogawithoutagenda]

This is why normal talk therapy doesn't work so well. I was saying the same stuff as Bahar and the therapist sits pretty much silently for the hour, I pay and around we go next week. It isn't enough to say it, you need the metaphors, the explanations!! Thanks Kyle and Bahar❤❤

[enough]

I just called my sister to congratulate her on the announcement of her very special and long vaca to Japan. As always within a few minutes the conversation switched to her rage about being the legal guardian to her very handicapped adult son, my favorite nephew.
I am the only one who talks to him every week, conversations are extremely challenging, for us both…but will never miss them.
Anyway, for the first time I cut her off. I had to tell her I am hanging up now….3 TIMES….then I did. Of course I already have 5 long text. Not reading them!
I am LEARNING….THANKS TO YOU Kyle!
Blessings and much love and gratitude!

[KekeLight]

This is how we heal the world I believe

[Flowergirl]

Both of my parents are narcissists and I had this pattern my whole life. I made connection with my inner child and learned how to love her. Sometimes a mild version of that pattern still surfaces but its nothing like it was. You will get there beautiful soul. Keep seeking love 🤍

[lisaduhrssen]

I grew up thinking I was a dissapointment to my parents, and I never wanted my daughter to be dissapointed!Allow the feelings if sadness ti be ok

[Olovoll]

My heart broke into a million pieces for her, and then felt great peace and joy for Bahar at the end. Just two beautiful souls healing….this is a good world and worth living in!

[funcereal]

I struggle with this completely! It's so hard to remain in my own sense self around others, and all of it is exhausting.

[trueidentitytimeshine]

Thank you guys!
I had 2 narcissistic parents.
I never had a voice.
They walked in ego and were easily offended.
I am going through this session with you honey!
U r so brave!
Thx Kyle!
Love u both!

[woodspriteful]

As a single mother and single provider, I understand this mother completely. It's difficult being a mother in an individualistic society no matter what. I approached motherhood wanting to be conscious and attached, but I've felt those runaway feelings. A concept that has helped me is "mutually-arising." It reminds me that "either-or" is not my chosen path. Mutually arising as a mother-daughter was an attempt to heal the lack of bond between myself and my mother, not because she was a narcissist but because she was emotionally exhausted, physically and emotionally unavailable, and hadn't done her healing.

It's really important for kids to see their mothers enjoying themselves, such as dancing or creating without necessarily directly interacting with them. Libraries, community dances, and parks have been helpful because the kids can be engaged while you do your thing, alongside but not directly involved. Mothers need that time. My daughter knows when the dance is my dance and when I can dance with her. Balance.

I've also benefitted from my parents taking my daughter for 3 months twice in her first 8 years. It shows you that the you you think you are without your child doesn't really exist anymore. A mother can never undo being a mother, can never return to not being a mother. We're on call forever. A separation can really help reestablish the healthy bond.

The relationship changes as they get older too. It's not as emotionally demanding.

[allwellandgood]

Wow this was incredible! I just felt like 4 decades of confusion have clicked in to place for me watching this, I have never been able to make sense of it but you helped me so much sharing this. I feel a freedom and permission to just be. I wish I had felt this when my children were young. I'm so grateful for you and happy for you and your daughter. Thank you🙏❤

[deborahhelming]

You are me! OMG! I have German parents in USA and Phew! Still having issues with my victim Mom full of whoa and anger and all I want is to be happy!

[lindaolsen]

Thank you so much! Im so moved and greatful for you to hold this safe space for yourself and for me as I'm listening to this even 8month after you recorded this. I healed through your healing as I resonate with so much of what you went through in the call. I cried so many times in the call as i felt my own inner child needed attention and I could give her that 🙏❤ Thank you Kyle for holding this safe loving healing space for so many people 🙏❤

[KasiaWeszczak]

I grew up in communist Poland until I was 18 years old. I am so familiar with repressed emotions, control, manipulation, be strong, don’t cry, be a good girl - freaking show pony! … and the list goes on. I am feeling freedom to Swap out ( Dr. Kim D’Eramo’s process) the anger that is there. My little one inside has felt her whole life like she couldn’t be herself with people … not really knowing what her TRUE self is really like. Not feeling safe. I loved this call! Thank you both ❤

[weegizmi]

Beautiful, profound, overwhelming. Thank you Kyle & Bahar. I'm no longer afraid to feel the pain or the fear. I know they will lead me to salvation. After 40 years of trying, I finally know what to do. Grateful beyond words. Thank you xxx

[TheWebRaven]

Thank you for showing us how to be open, vulnerable, communicate, and make peace with our inner child. You are beautiful and you are an excellent mother!!!

[edalong]

Oh wow, Bahar, Thank you so much. I am 77 and you so described the rage and anger, rebellion of my inner chi;ld that I had never given space to just to feel okay having all that anger. I love and forgave my parents long before they died and am grateful I recognized them fully for all they were and went thru. However, all the work i have done on myself for the last 40 years did not ever give my inner child space to just be okay in the painful emotions. I have loved and cherished, rescued my inner child and done a lot to heal. Yet, this session touched deeper and more honestly and authentically than other work has done. I am new to hot seat and am clearing and healing so much going thru these journeys. Thank you with all my heart. This is huge for me and I may have to sit for many days before I can go do another hot seat episode!!! Thank you Kyle for your incredible gifts and gentle, knowing and supporting heart. This work is incredible beyond words. Oceans of gratitude and love, blessings and joy~ Eda