7 Ways To Make Yourself Instantly Feel More Attractive

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Contrary to popular belief, beauty is more than skin deep. In fact, current psychological research actually states that there are plenty of different behaviors, attitudes, and personal qualities that can make someone more attractive, not just physical appearance. Here are a few psychological tips on how to make yourself feel more attractive instantly.

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[khalilahd.]

I think these are tips to just make anyone a better person and with that it can also make you more attractive 💛

[yhkwoxl]

1. flash them a smile
2. improve your posture
3. wear clothes that you feel comfortable in
4. crack a few jokes
5. do something exciting
6. nourish your mind
7. love and accept yourself <3♡

[NathalieLazo]

This message is for someone who needs to hear this and will fully understand it... You are not define by your circumstance or your past. It’s not what happened to you that determines your success in life; it is how you deal with those circumstances that determines your success in life. You are strong, you are capable and practice forgiveness (Forgiveness is for you; forgive your parents or anyone whom we have chosen to hurt us, to begin the process of healing and freedom. Remember: Forgiveness is for you to be freed, healed and happy. It’s a RESET BUTTON) and practice gratitude everyday. This will change the course of your life forever. Love you always and I believe in you wholeheartedly no matter what ✨❤️ - Nat

[allynight]

1. 0:32 Flash them a smile 😁
2. 1:02 Improve your posture 👤💁🏼‍♀️
3. 1:20 Wear clothes that make you feel confident 😎
4. 1:56 Crack a few jokes —> Have a good sense of humor! 😂
5. 2:26 Do something exciting —> show off your passions ✨
6. 3:02 Nourish your mind 📚
7. 3:30 Love and accept yourself 💕

[luz]

1- flash them a smile
Because it makes people feel more at ease around you 0:32
2- improve your posture
Having better posture makes your best appearance come out 1:03
3- wear clothes that make you feel confident 1:21
4- crack a few jokes
People like to laugh :)1:57
5- do/find something exciting!
(Hobbies) and being open minded 2:27
6- have a good sense of mind try reading or researching on ur intelligence and learning new things 3:03
7- love and accept yourself <3 3:30

[just_stanley_official]

For the people who doesn't have time to watch the whole video:
1. Flash them a smile
2. Improve your posture
3. Wear clothes that make you feel confident
4. Crack a few jokes
5. Do something exciting
6. Nourish your mind
7. Love and accept yourself

[gonesol_aero]

“Fix your posture”
*immediately straightens back*

[amnesick]

I like to practice better self esteem and self-love by audibly saying positive things about myself to myself. Whether it be internal monologue or out loud it helps the entirety of myself to exude positivity. I'm a pessimist at heart but I'm still working to correct that.

[eoingaskin]

My personal issue with three is, I can't afford the things I want to wear, plate armour is expensive, and it gets so hot underneath.

All jokes aside, finding hobbies to keep yourself busy aren't only for improving your mindset, but are also a great way to test your social skills with people who share that hobby, even small talk can break the ice and get you talking about deeper stuff.

[marquendra]

I do all of these. That definitely explains quite a lot. These traits are powerful enough to make people approach me even while I’m carrying one of my giant snakes. It’s a very common occurrence, so I’ll definitely agree with this list!

[The_fuselage]

Funny story that might make your day up :

So I’ve just applied to work at a fancy restaurant in town as a waiter luckily I got accepted to work at night from 7pm to 12

On my first shift I was chilling in the first floor when a young man and an elderly couple ( possibly his parents ) came in I went to their table and asked them what’s their order was

They ordered a fair amount of food for 3 people and while they were speaking I noticed that they spoke in a russian accent and so I went to the kitchen and gave the order to the chef

I took the food to their table first after that the chef handed me a tray of 3 milkshakes

And while I was holding it I thought to myself “should I go to their table while doing the Kazotsky kick aka ( the russian dance ) ?

Yes I said to myself and the moment I got out of the kitchen I began doing it

All the 3 of them started clapping as well as other people around me but then I tripped on my back and the tray crashed on my face

I got up in cold and apologized to them, however they just burst out laughing and said that I just made their day up

When I got back to the kitchen to clean myself everything single human in there started laughing at me I grabbed a towel

And while I was cleaning myself my boss came barging in and he basically told me that I had to work over night

Thankfully one of my coworkers didn’t leave as well and so we where working together all night

[dambqi]

1. Flash them a smile!
2. Improve your posture.
3. Wear clothes that make you feel confident!
4. Crack a few jokes!
5. Do something exciting,
6. Nourish your mind.
7. Love yourself.

[luxmia]

I used to be the person who tried to please everyone but I'm not anymore cause I learned that I can't please everyone but I can learn how to love myself more cause these last few months it has been the opposite and it has been a journey cause I have learned that I don't have to be in shape in order to like myself and I have learned how to be happy and confident just the way I'm and I'm actually quite proud of myself I have gone through few downs in life but that's way life is and sometimes life can change you as a person and I have changed a lot

[justinseamanhealth]

Listen, if my bright yellow onesie is not attractive enough for the ladies then damn it I’ll die single

[SpinalWall]

What I learned from this video: Good luck with me ever finding myself or making myself more “attractive”. People to me is like two of the same sides of two magnets. I don’t attract people, I repel them.

[IKEMENOsakaman]

I feel so unattractive... I don't think it's a psychological thing.. Maybe it's how all my classmates treated me... 😢

[stayhappylittlemermaid]

Get rid of all doubts and just go for it.

[DaestrumManitz]

I Know that ones personality and having a great sense of humour are appealing qualities. But there is just something about seeing someone dressed their best. A visually stunning look is so important! 😎

[rmii]

Yes. That one one wearing clothes that make you feel comfortable is so true. That’s why I dress the way I do, increases the confidence.

[iamgoddessoflove]

In order to attract the love that you desire, you must take care of yourself first. When you love yourself, accept yourself and put yourself first, everything falls into place. The one thing that blocks you from manifesting a healthy relationship is when you put everyone else before you.
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