Confidence Hacks: 7 Ways to Instantly Boost Your Self-Esteem

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Wouldn't it be great if you could push a button and feel instantly more confident? If only it was that easy.

The word "hacks" been used so much lately that it's practically meaningless. The problem is, people now think "hacks" are just ways to get instant results without doing any real work.

These confidence hacks are different--they do require some effort. Each one is a highly targeted action you can take to get an almost immediate boost to your mood and self-esteem.

In this video, I share 7 ways you can legitimately increase your confidence when you need it most.

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[tazizahsan]

1. Exercise, power posing
2. Scents (make u feel more confident so u act more confident)
3. Acts of kindness (buy someone a coffee at Starbucks)- helper's high, similar to runner's high
4. Do sth socially risky (ask boss for raise, learn a new skill, confess to crush)
5. Play (anything that u see as play, where u just let loose and arent afraid of making a fool of yourself)
6. Self talk (affirmations dnt work, instead use "I am willing to" sentences. E.g- "I am willing to work hard to learn new dance moves so ladies love me" instead of "I'm awesome at the dancefloor"(when ur not).
7. Use an "Awesome Log". It can be on a notebook or electronic. Make a list of all the awesome things you accomplished and y ur awesome. Update it every day.

[mariamistretta]

Build confidence
Get out of your head and into your body. Work out fitness instead.
Change negative to postive.
Scent.
Act of kindness nutriting respectful responsible and loving compermise caring.
Get out of comfortable zone.
Try new things.
Reconnect with play.
Stay stressless postive.
Talk to yourself postive.
Set goals activities.
Ask for help when you need help.

[Ajax]

Talking to strangers and making eye contact helps me be more confident. It’s like a catch-22 but if you already have some momentum this helps. Also learning something new everyday and planning your day beforehand helps a lot too

[AlmostHomeRealEstateServices]

Another well-done video. I getting addicted to your content. I look forward to developing into the distilled man I can be.
Cheers, Chris

[haleyrose]

Love this. Especially the affirmations part. I tried for about a year and a half to repeat positive affirmations, this made me realize there is a disconnect and difference between our natural/ learned being and who we aspire to be. We can absolutely become who we aspire to be, we just have to be more willing to work for what we aspire to be, rather than believe we are that aspiration right off the bat and thinking it’ll click overnight. Takes work, effort, time, practice and we can be whoever we want to be.

[TheSailorTenjou]

Oh my gosh)))) That dance pep talk was hilarious! ))) Awesome video, sensible, reasonable advice.

[flibgonrtsheglis]

This seems more like an ad for scent bird.

[ashtyn]

Thank you for this video! I have been struggling with low self esteem, and this really helped!

[nestorwendo]

Thanks bro. This really helped me out alot

[pdbatuigas]

I love tip No. 3. Great insights. Thanks for this.

[rebeccafornaro]

I really like this video, this is very helpful, but it looked a lot more about advertising and stuff like that. That didn’t seem genuine. Such a shame.

[finnxsoup]

You have no clue how much this is going to help me, i really want to start a acting career because it has always been my dream job, but the problem was, i was never willing enough to stand up and take risks in my own class! Thank you, you might have just saved my career.

[sophiie]

No. Affirmations manifest into the universe what you want. The more you affirm, the more likely you are to believe it and make it a reality

[TODOMATIO]

Very well done!!! Enjoyed listening to you

[thanos]

I lost it at 9:13 xD

Love the effort you put into this one!
Great video, mate! Keep it up! Hard to believe you don't have millions of subs already after seeing the amount of professionalism shown in your work.

[georgiusasaba]

Great ideas. I really need to build my confidence and self esteem ☺

[abelrt]

what a nice voice and amazing video man thanks

[nurizzati]

Thanks for the video! I have been struggling with low self esteem, and this really helpful 👍

[hersheylearns]

Every single video of yours is awesome

[CharlyThePearllove]

Thanks so much. You are going on my gratefulness log. My suggestion is to take 7 of your boosters and plan one for each day of the week for one month until they become habits and then picking 7 more for the next month. Example: Sunday-Visit local coffee shop and just pick someone to buy a cup of coffee; thank them for the opportunity to extend kindness - do this for four Sundays. Monday - Write an inspirational post for social media, asking nothing in return- do this for four weeks. Tuesday-Take a walk in near your favorite water source, pond, lake, stream, river - regardless of the weather-four weeks of this will boost your mood; can't help it- that's what being in touch with nature does...you get the idea! Hey Distilled Man...thanks for allowing me to contribute to your excellent list of boosters. All the best!