Men Must Chase In The Beginning Stages Of Dating

I'm sure you have heard me, or other dating coaches, that men should not chase women. This is true; however, in order to kick start the courtship & to get the ball rolling, men MUST chase women in the beginning stages of dating. If you, as a man, do not chase women in the beginning she will simply feel that you don't care, or that you're only interested in sex.

In this Coaching Video a viewer of my channel writes in after a girl whom he had been dating for a couple months more or less disappeared for a few weeks. When she finally reached out to him she told him that if he's interested in her he needs to begin chasing her a bit. I go through his email & recommend where he can tighten up his game a bit.
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I'm Erik Peterson, a men's relationship & dating coach, and at Skill of Attraction I provide dating tips & relationship advice, mainly for men, to help facilitate growing & maintaining attraction in their romantic life to where it's fun, loving & relatively effortless.

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[nasdaqqqq]

Good stuff Erik. It seems like it’s almost always me chasing in the beginning, but once the initial connection is realized, to let the spark simmer & not over-chase. Being patient, not seeming too eager, & always keeping emotions in check. You’ve helped a lot!

[Graenelolz]

It is ridiculous how accurate your videos are to my life right now. I‘m dating this girl who never initiates texting and it’s always me who starts and then asks for dates (obviously). I‘m glad I didn‘t overanalyze it thinking she doesn‘t care, because everytime we go out, we have an amazing time.

[TacticalxRecon]

This is right on point coach! In the beginning these women will sometimes cancel dates on you to see how you react. If she says "can we meet another day?" then ask her when she is free or suggest her a date by saying "Let's meet on saturday at this place at this time". She wants to know if you are going to get pissed because of this and to know if you really like her.

[xfaroutzx]

My advise: Get her on the phone. Be frank and to the point. Tell her straight out that you're interested in her (and not just for sex) and would like to continue to get to know her but you're not going to play chasing games. Tell her you're a busy man and when you agree to catch up, you're setting aside valuable time for her which you won't continue to do if she continues to flake out. Tell her that you're leaving it up to her, if she's genuinely interested to let you know and you can both make plans to see each other otherwise you're happy to let it go.
This shows confidence and self respect. You are clearly showing her you don't take crap while making your intentions clear.

[GizmoFts]

We dont chase we pursue! Dont get it twisted yall!

[laolumacaulay]

Thanks for the videos Eric!

And to those watching who are unsure or lack confidence, Eric is mostly right.

Watching his videos really helped get me back on track. Sure I still messed up a couple of things in the beginning but you'll learn. Trust the process.

[johannreva]

You have to draw the line regarding the exclusive dating thing. You don't treat the girls you're just "checking out" or getting to know the same way you would treat the one you want to pursue. You have to set boundaries and be transparent. You don't text them everyday or give them all your time until they earn your trust and affection. Eric is correct, live your life's purpose. But take note that dating multiple women might require you to quit your job because of the time constraints. Always bite off what you can chew. So I disagree at that point. Even if I'm just getting to know one person, I still have an abundance mindset.

[mr.k]

I'm currently talking to a girl who has flaked on me and became a bit distant. Initially, I made contact had good convos and everything was good. She initiated a date and is flaking on it. I started becoming a bit desperate and texted her a lot then pulled away from her. She reached out but the conversations are a bit boring. I'm thinking of pursuing and not over pursuing regardless of the insecurity I'm feeling. She said that everything is the same and it's just in my head. For now I'm thinking to pursue without overdoing it, focusing on myself and keeping my options available. What do you think about this?

[captngravity]

Hey Eric, this is a good video. Thanks for sharing. Ive been practicing these skills for over a year now, via texting and video chat (not ideal i know) but it does work. I have always been a needy guy and l'm getting alot better at not being desperate. The woman im talking to now i start to miss her after a week or so of not hearing from her. After over a year of talking with her, i want to ask about a relationship but ive learned this is bad. About a month ago she did bring up kids and marriage on her own. Anyway as hard as its been to keep quiet, i havent said anything. She does like me. But i dont think she wants to go farther than friends right now. Its so hard to not say anything but its the right thing to do. Thanks for these videos they are great. Btw, 2 years ago, i would have ruined it with her within 3 weeks of meeting her. Oh yeah i was that desperate.

[whatastud]

You got game Son! You are definitely an alpha. Get those ladies on the ol' CC.

[rositareyes]

I’ve never paid on a date Sir. Lol ever in my life. I am not picky and I don’t ask for anything. I will accept eating tacos or a burger. I appreciate wherever I am taken by my date. But till this day a man has never let me pay.

[Ohkeh]

It’s funny because a guy I liked didn’t openly desire me yet he knew and would say women want to feel desired lol
He was just mean

[novamaster]

This girl I was talking to was nice when I was flirting with her but after I got her number and asked her out she got and attitude for some reason. Even canceled our first date. Like why? What happened? Did she just want attention? Was she really not that interested?

[raiserjs]

Coach, I need your help. She doesnt responds to my chats, last convo we had is I said goodnight early coz I am sleepy. The next morning she is not responding, and we dont even argue before this happens. I didnt do anything wrong and I dont if I should call her, I dont to make a wrong move. Thanks and God bless

[npoqxnt]

Hello Mr Erik!
Whenever I meet with my girlfriend of 8 months, who has a child, face to face she can't stop touching me and kissing me. But when it comes to texts, she doesn't initiate it. And when I initiate one text or two once every two days, she loves it. Is that okay and healthy? Shall I continue it this way?

[gabe]

You sound like you literally took Corey Wayne's videos and rearranged the words and changed them up a bit. Lol

[topflightproperty]

I usually no matter if it's my girlfriend or someone I just met. I send a text and then if I notice they're giving kind of a lame response or if I ask them to do something and they don't. I just stop contact and I might wait a week or 2 and then throw another text out and then after that if it's the same I really never contact them again unless they contact me.

[nehachalluru]

I say follow the person you love everywhere become freirnds then you both fall in love 😍🥰🥰😍🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️

[dzhonnikihirin]

Playas don't chase that's what simps do