When to Chase Women and When to Pull Back (Chased by Chaste Women :D

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Women are taught from an early age that it’s the man’s job to do the chasing. This is only half-true. When a man seduces a woman, he chases her, makes his move, and pushes through the woman’s initial resistance to become physically intimate with her. It’s at this point that the woman transitions from being passive (allowing the man to chase her) to being proactive (where she actively chases the man).

A successful seduction requires you to let go and stop chasing. You must let a woman come to you and express her interest in you by allowing her to chase you. If you fail to allow this transition to take place, don’t be surprised if the woman loses attraction for you and pulls away.

The moment you focus on the relationship is the moment a woman starts to lose attraction. It’s tempting to tell a woman how you feel about her as though this will somehow soften her emotions and make her easier to seduce. When a man is focused on the relationship, he derails the seduction process.

The woman used to dream of the day when a man would come along and sweep her off her feet. But when that day finally arrives something inside the woman tells her that love shouldn’t be this way, and she’s right, it shouldn’t.

One of the problems we face as men is a natural discomfort at the speed with which women respond to messages, want to see us, and are willing to progress the relationship. All this can leave a man feeling uncomfortable and uncertain about where he stands and where the relationship is headed. A woman knows when you’re chasing her out of desire as opposed to chasing her out of insecurity. This insecurity often leads men to take action in an attempt to gain clarity and calm their nerves, but instead of feeling calm, the man inadvertently pushes the woman further away from him.

Given a choice between freedom and commitment, you must always choose freedom. An attractive man is a man with options. Why would you want to sacrifice your options for the sake of one woman? Instead, if a woman chases you, she can only draw one conclusion: you must be high-value otherwise she wouldn’t be chasing you. Still, women continue to churn out the usual clichés: “If a man likes me, he should chase me” and “Women don’t chase, that’s a man’s job.” If you buy into this way of thinking, you become just another weak, beta male in hot pursuit. Your strength as a man lies in your ability to remain indifferent to a woman’s behavior, whether she’s chasing you or not.

If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, right from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, then I highly recommend you get a copy of my book Atomic Attraction.

Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she's pulled away from you or left you.

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Trust yourself and trust the process,

Chris Canwell
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"Your strenght as a man lies in the ability to remain indiferent to a womans behavior".

rpgamerx
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Everything a woman says she wants in a man, don't take her words at face value. What she wants is the total opposite.

DNice-vgbc
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I treated a girl like a Princess and she backed away, then I became indifferent and treated her like scum and she came back. Basically I'm a nice guy and treating her like dirt goes against my character but whatever gets the girl is fine with me.

tonyfox
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If you cannot attract them with your charms then just repel them with your attitude

janigujjarvideos
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Last line.. Whether she's chasing you or not. Amen to that

sunnyboy
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Just keep living your life guys. Work out, hang out with friends, spend time with family, take up a hobby, travel, and experience life to the fullest. That way you won't care how a woman acts towards you. That's the best way to remain indifferent to her.

ruwailali
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Heres my advice. Never chase. Chase the date only. You wouldnt chase your mom. Or sister. You chase when to meet them. Apply same logic. Youre welcome

SCGSHOW
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Yes. The internet has changed many things and not always for the better.
Including Relationships!
Another great video Chris!

gazza
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Wonderful and quick explanation, it sucks that I had to learn this the hard way, but never again!

rockboy
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You work works! Girl I’m dating is telling me she loves me. Amazing. Thank you! Bought your book off Amazon so I can keep my head straight.

JamesGreenier
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Chris i just have to say it you are a hell of a coach you are the only one who tells the truth and who is so cultivated about woman psychology

faresssa
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This guy is way too good. His tips are actually working, thanks man! I think this is an eye opener.

herolin
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Alright, I’m buying this bloody book!

ohjetty
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That’s it, I got your book and it’s impressive! Thank you for that knowledge! Priceless !

petotis
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Chris I read your book on atomic attraction and I absolutely loved it ... How about releasing a book on women behavior ? Just a suggestion

colintheodore
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Chris....you are advices are the best. These really work. Great work.

isaacjacob
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Exactly what i needed on the right moment. Times hard with my crush, She seems to be so interested that when i ask her if shes down to hangout and she says yes. But then she never talks about me when we’re not together to her mutual friend(her close friend)

Wafaduck
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I like how he uses cartoons, self explanatory 😍♥️love them

THELIGHTER
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This is good but how will you have her if you won't chase her. Girls don't reply to texts, calls or play hard to get to see how much a guy likes them

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The juice ain't worth the squeeze

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