6 Signs Someone is Not Compatible

If you’ve been asking yourself “should I break up?” or wondering “is my relationship toxic?”, this video is for you. Whether you're spotting red flags in a relationship, dealing with mixed signals, or just feeling unsure about where things are heading, we’ll walk you through key signs of a bad relationship and help you decide when to leave a relationship—or at least when it’s time to pause and reevaluate. You deserve clarity, peace, and a connection that supports your mental well-being.

Writer: Max Cabrera
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Drew Baillie
Animator: PAULO (new animator)
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References Used:

Chapman, G. D. (2009). Everybody Wins: The Chapman Guide to Solving Conflicts Without Arguing. Jaico Publishing House.
Signs of a Controlling Relationship. Relationships Australia QLD (2020, May 1).

[LukasSchneider-vo]

1. No more wasting hours on Netflix & games
2. Built a routine and actually stuck to it
3. Stopped drinking & partying every weekend
4. Mastered my mind and emotions instead of reacting impulsively
5. Read a book called Ascendarium (explains real discipline)
6. Started taking care of my health—better food, better sleep
7. Became the guy who leads, not the one who follows
8. Realized that confidence is earned, not given
9. Stopped caring about opinions & focused on my own path
10. Built my own source of income instead of relying on a 9-5

[Rando_mIndividual]

0:29 #1: You spend more time trying to enjoy yourself than you actually are
1:19 #2: You aren’t attracted to them anymore
2:05 #3: Your relationship makes you feel bad about yourself
3:02 #4: You feel like your boundaries aren’t respected
3:36 #5: You just wish you could change so many things about them
4:13 #6: You aren’t in love with them anymore

A message I have to you out there: Do not feel bad for reevaluating your relationship! Your feelings of doubt are completely valid, and whether you feel the need to break up with them not is completely valid too. A relationship is a team, not a PVP. Please, don’t beat yourself up about this. Be honest and talk through everything since if they truly loved you too, they’d understand and let you go. You matter, so I beg you to give yourself some slack and dot over-criticize yourself. ❤

[DavidDimitrijevic-rm]

I never thought a book could help me make peace with my own stormy mind, but A Mind Made of Storms did exactly that. It helped me understand how to navigate my emotions without being overwhelmed. I’ve felt more in control and at peace, even when life feels chaotic. It’s a game changer!

[Beatrice.Lieberman]

You have such unique perspective! Love it! Honestly, I'm really struggling since he left. I cry myself to sleep every night, missing him so much. I poured my heart out to him in a message, but I haven't heard back. It's been really tough.

[NamelessDude-kg]

"You guys also know!? "
- A Person from 9 month ago

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). You spend more time trying to enjoy yourself than you actually are 0:28
2). You aren't attracted to them anymore 1:18
3). Your relationship makes you feel bad about yourself 2:04
4). You feel like your boundaries aren't respected 3:01
5). You just wish you could change so many things about them 3:34
6). You aren't in love with them anymore 4:15

Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day . Welcome back drew baillie. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[RussetfurTv]

How are there comments from 9 months ago??

[robbindabank]

Oh I get it. A time anomaly. A wormhole allowing time to flow between the seams. Though I was only able to witness the truth, I can never hope to reach it.

[Don]

Please don’t replace Amanda Silvera. I love Amanda’s voice 😊😊😊

[voice-of-reason]

The internet is undefeated! 😂 But very helpful video as always.

[paragonp]

1. Why are there comments from 9 months ago
2. Why do the captions change from English to Japanese halfway through

[Randomgameslol-jgry]

Youtube is getting a little to accurate 😭

[Raccoon-Animações]

My goal is to comment on all animation channels on YouTube (by the way, I'm Brazilian)

[crazyrainbowninja]

Thank you I’ll look for these things in my relationship so far it’s gone perfectly. Me and my boyfriend are both autistic so it’s a little harder for us to see these signs but I’ve been studying about dating so I definitely would see a bigger sign but I love him so much

[MadiieBrinkhurst]

This video really helped me re evaluate my toxic relationship thank you for this video

[JennyNobody]

This video was very helpful. Im in a very complicated place 😅

[Elte-kl]

Guess this is my first top comment because no1 else did

[youcantocan]

Welp, this makes things easier, still not gonna get married tho :/

[STLLR_YT]

Why was everyone here at 2 am…
WHY WAS THIS POSTED AT 2 AM???

[cinnamaricat]

3:02 i love the spongebob reference and that i know which episode that's from