INTJ Fears

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[hitechj]

My fears as an INTJ
*Being a failure at life
*Dying before I accomplish my life goals.
*Having children who end up being failures and who undo all my hard work and make it pointless.

[zirwasiddique]

I really liked it when he said"INTJs are not fans of, what's the

We just have a very different definition of fun.

[PathosConsultingGroup]

Not liking fun is pretty spot on. There are a bunch of reasons for it. I'm not good at it. Most "fun" isn't fun. Work is incredibly fun.

[floranova]

INTJ's are stubborn and controlfreaks in a very specific way. Tell us to change or abandon our goal and we will resist. Show us there's a better way in the physical world to reach the goal and we will gladly go with the flow.

[PaleGhost]

My INTJ fear: This is the best that humans are capable of...

[luizp]

Me, an INTJ, having fun:
- Playing games: what's the best way to get all the achievements in the least amount of time? What's the general strategy? Can I improve it?
- Watching TV: what's the principle being discussed in this show? What is the connection between this series and other works? What the director took from the book? How is my backlog of movies? What will I watch next? What would be my score for this episode?
- Playing Sports: MUST IMPROVE. MUST HAVE BETTER TECHNIQUE.

[jahmd]

As an older INTJ, I can definitely say that I have lived my life future oriented. And, to a degree, I have achieved about 95% of my goals. But the cost and sacrifice was living in the present. I have to think hard about past life experiences because I wasn’t always present internally when they happened. I’m 48 now, but my 20 and 30’s are a blur with no distinct memories. There is something to be said for enjoying the journey, unfortunately I can barely remember the journey.

[Chronomatrix]

This is exactly what pisses me off the most about myself. I know what I want to do, but I recognize it's a lot of work to get there, then I ask myself if all that work is worth my time and since I can't answer that I end up doing nothing with my time, which ironically means wasting the time I could have been working on achieving that which I don't know is worth wasting my time on. It's an infinite loop of wasted potential!

[MrKillswitch]

Sum of all fears that almost no one mentions has to be the open space office where it is basically adult daycare for extroverts.

[Hari-kxer]

INTJs are not necessarily misanthropic, they are just not comfortable with the give and take of social relationships. They are not comfortable with sacrificing talking facts in favour of maintaining a relationship.

[Kwietitze]

Nathan, a lot of people probably say that here, but your thumbnails are really a piece of artwork. I love them!

[bddau]

As an INTJ, my greatest fear is reaching a point to where I cannot improve anymore.

[arcadianfox]

Small addition regarding Chaos vs Control.
INTJ don't necessarily seek to control people, but we do have high standards of others and may seek to improve their actions and thinking unsollicited.

A controlled environment merely breeds laziness. We truly strive in chaos, I had to learn this the hard way. Never get stuck, keep moving.
Can chaos be stressful? Sure.
Does it allow for progress? Yes.

[ninjaviragszal]

WE DO LIKE FUN!!!! It's just that our kind of fun is usually very different from the things most people consider fun! Reading, researching and working can be fun too! Occasional social games with our closest friends are fun too! I wish they wouldn't have stopped playing room escape games with me because I'm taking it way too seriously and I'm overly competitive about it though... 🤣🤣🤣

[multifandomcrackheaduwu]

There was no need to let the world know we have fears too sometimes pff

[fjufjufjfjf]

Interesting video. I can tell you from personal experience that many of these INTJ “fears” can make family life especially difficult. When an INTJ has a family to look after (spouse and children), they are often unable to focus on the future and are forced, sometimes quite uncomfortably, to live in the here and now. I struggle with this every day. Fortunately for me though, I do have a job that allows me to work by myself and a boss who despises micromanagement. Therefore, I do get a break from the daily struggle of home life and have an outlet for my need to plan and be productive.

[dexdalador]

Not knowing how to have fun is so relatable.. I always get that, apparently I'm robotic and don't know how to losen up.

[andreagreenwood]

INTJ "fun": One of the most fun nights of my life was when I first learned about string theory- the section of the book I was reading started talking about it, then I took a break to watch an episode of Through the Wormhole and COINCIDENTALLY it also ended up being about the same things. It was years ago but I still remember that night. Ahhh...

[crimson]

I hate boredom. It’s like I’m not doing anything worthwhile and I despise it.

[SusanDaIntrepid]

I appreciate the way you "spoke in INTJ" regarding the financial support on Patreon. If I didn't know I'm on the wrong career path thus my finances are endangered, I would truly support.
Let me get back to you when it is solved. - INTJ