I’m Having an Affair (Should I Leave My Husband?)

I’m Having an Affair (Should I Leave My Husband?)

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[LaCantressa]

If her husband is so controlling and abusive, how does she manage to be hiding an affair? Does not add up.

[RJRussoVids]

She's not in love with two men. She's in love with one woman. Herself. 💁

[Mr_New_Vegas_]

Holding a recovering addict accountable isn’t abusive

[mjmanoni]

She's gaslighting herself into justifying her behavior. She's likely not being abused. She's a former addict who's been given a budget to work with and just asks to be informed of her whereabouts when she goes out. That's not abuse.

[thNYSV]

She can't go anywhere without telling her husband.
And she's having an affair that he doesn't know about.
Yeah... the math doesn't add up.
"Hey honey, I'm going to go to this hotel for the night all by myself. So yeah I'll be there all by myself, nobody there."
And Mr. Controlling is apparently cool with that?
Doesn't sound controlling at all!

And I just find an issue with how Deloney turned the guy who went through thick and thin with this addict, went to hell and back for her BY HER OWN DESCRIPTION, and turned him into a abusive and controlling husband.
He probably realized that and why he retracted everything he said.

[loranoodle]

Telling your partner where you are going is basic courtesy to your partner.

[MarkTrueblood]

The husband’s mistake was thinking he could fix a person who has committed to the spirit of chaos.

[nicklowe_]

“The other gentlemen does know I’m married”

Sounds like a keeper

[sisuguitar]

to call someone abusive without knowing the back story is insane. he might have done those things to protect her from going back into drugs and past life situations

[stephanied.k.]

Drug use > dopamine fix
Affair > dopamine fix
same thing

[larissaalcorn]

She's an addict who has simply swapped one addiction for another. She loves the thrill she's getting. She'll find that thrill in someone else once she's bored with the boyfriend.

[BrendaBaBoom]

Cheaters often LIE about their spouses!
She’s simply not coping with living a clean addiction-free life and being married to a straight arrow husband who she feels is cramping her style.

[Allthekingshorses]

I think calling her husband abusive is validating this woman’s terrible behaviour. Not only is she cheating on her husband but is now tainting his reputation by calling him abusive. I doubt that he is. This woman is manipulative.

[sallyspits]

She is 100% not going to tell her husband. She will continue until she's caught.

[enwhycpr]

She betrayed him but he’s the abusive one? Make that make sense. Let’s hear his side before we pass judgement on him.

[Mr_Mcgee_]

The reason she doesn’t have access to the finances and needs to tell her husband where goes is because she’s an *addict* and he doesn’t want her to *relapse* . For her to use that as an excuse to cheat on the man whose been by her side for 7 years through sickness and health, good times and bad, only to say “I only married him out of obligation” is just disgusting, this guy deserves way better. Praying for them both.

[gbear]

If her husband was actually abusively controlling, she probably wouldn't be getting away with the affair hahahaha

[vladturov]

An addict who almost died a couple times and ended up on a hospital bed several times because her addictions goes “He is just so controlling…watches every cent I spend…”

I wonder why??

[jonny]

Ramsey calls an allowance having a budget while Delony calls it an abusive relationship 😂😂😂

[truthseeker]

It’s scary how calmly she can talk about this. Narcissism at its finest