How Can I Regain My Husband's Trust After My Affair?

How Can I Regain My Husband's Trust After My Affair?

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[brendanc]

"I wasn't deleting the messages fast enough, they popped up on my watch" ... so basically she is sorry she got caught.

[MarieLve]

“Regain his trust after cheating.” You don’t. You simply won’t. Your husband will never be able to look at you the same.

[backhandsauce]

hopefully this "husband or whatever" files for divorce or whatever

[Btone]

Typical for cheaters to hurt someone then get upset that the other doesn’t trust them anymore. 🤦🏽‍♂️

[David-woun]

While recounting the story she says “blah, blah, blah”; that speaks volumes as to her lack of responsibility.

[mw]

Wow! She is taking zero responsibility at all. She has no empathy for her husband's feelings. She literally thinks he should just move on because she says she's being honest.

[benny]

When she used words like “blah, blah, blah” and “like whatever” you know she’s completely devoid of shame, regret, and repentance.

[freebein]

One thing I've learned about cheaters is that they don't learn to stop. They learn to get better at lying and hiding it.

[Hiker]

As nice as John is to his callers, he also isn't afraid to call out BS. This woman has a history of lying to her husband and I don't get the sense that she feels very remorseful.

[Candace-M-]

A lot of people call in with this "I kind of did something wrong or whatever" story asking for advice, but it can really just come off sounding like a child who got in trouble and doesn't want to take responsibility for their actions. There's definitely a lot more to this so I hope she can get to the root of the problem to help her make better choices.

[larissagonzales]

This is what makes me feel great being single, not putting up with BS and liars.

[ZGADOW]

Her dismissive attitude towards this situation is infuriating. She is acting like a high schooler about the most serious relationship in her life.

[Calgarysrealtor]

Here’s a tip, usually when your spouse asks you a serious questions they often know the answer and are relying on you to tell the truth.

[abeveridge]

"She's for the streets"

[annaelisavettavonnedozza]

Oh…my…God…It’s like pulling teeth getting her to talk.

Dr. D HAS THE PATIENCE OF A SAINT

[brojiden]

Simple two word answer: "You can't."

This is the problem with modern people. We are told we can have it all. We can't. You have to choose what is important to you, and sacrifice for that. We can't have our cakes and eat them too.

[ominous]

She doesn't sound like she cares. "Or whatever" doesn't sound promising

My soon to be ex-husband sounds EXACTLY like this woman and had an “emotional” affair as well with his co-worker. Let’s swap partners lol This woman’s husband deserves better just like me. We both deserve more than what we received.

[AstroMedia]

As soon as I found out about my now-ex's affair, I divorced her. There would never have been trust again and she wasn't remorseful about it at all. And it wasn't just emotional, either. According to her, it started off as physical and became emotional after months of them sleeping together. Good riddance.

[brookemoore]

This lady is a lost cause. She is deceitful and can’t take accountability for her mistakes and has no empathy for her husband and why he has trust issues now. It’s going to takes years to mend this marriage, and she acts like she doesn’t have the time. He needs to leave. He deserves better.