4 Stages of an Affair

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[ww]

There is never an excuse to cheat NEVER ☹️

[johnwalsh]

The Bible is very clear on this. know one can serve two masters one person will always lose out.

[jensbornagain]

I am so confused my husbands affair lasted heavy for 6 months. I found the texts. Very nasty and sexual. He had pet names for her etc. but he says they was no flirting etc before she just sent these nasty texts. He says there was no sex but texts say yes He says he had no feelings for her but it has to be something for it to last that long etc. still hurting and he will not give me any answers. Btw. I suspected he was cheating. He was so vicious and vile to me for no reason and he was manscaping. I just don’t get it.

[annabanzon]

Thank you for sharing!
I come from long line of adulterers, so I purpose myself to NOT repeat my family's mistakes and sins.

[alive]

It’s scary to think, in my two marriages (I am still in the second) that, unbeknown to me, there was a third party who was remotely directing, controlling and influencing my marriage. These men were “advising” my wife while I was busting my butt for our home, our family, and our future. Such was their advice that my first wife ultimately ended up indigent and on the street, finally passing away from alcoholism and untreated diabetes, and my current wife was left with an unwanted pregnancy and an STI.

[johnwalsh]

There is only one action for me, you cheat your gone I don't care what the excuse is I don't even want to know and your not coming back anywhere near me. Those are my standards and what ever someone else tries to tell me I will not listen. Anything you hide from your partner is cheating in this situation and a marriage ending as far as I am concerned. Also once a woman has taken another mans DNA I wouldn't ever allow her back in my life ever.

[youngodyssey]

8:47 in I pray that the current partner leave .. don’t let them get on their feet while dogging you out.. they want uncertainties (find out where they will sleep at night), excitement( I’ll remove myself and resources, they will see how much that other person really care ), passion (I will come and go as I please and treat them how they are suppose to be treated )

[maryjimenez]

I went through all 4 stages. 52 years of marriage my husband had an affair. He broke it off and said he was sorry but I couldn't forgive him. Now we are divorce I can't go through that again. Am I wrong?

[kanairogamers]

am in the honeymoon phase and i feel like its over and about to enter a new phase...advise me how to manouver the next stage

[derekouma]

I have experienced all the stages with my partner and i have adjusted to talk about it with her and put our wants, frustrations and needs on the table for discussion and we are working through it hopefully we'll build something awesome we believe we hope we took the right path and thank you Shazmeen you are truly a blessing in courtship, relationships and marriage be blessed.

[kasheem]

She bought a nice smelling hair lotion and brushes her hair extra hard to pull the eyes back to look younger because the co worker was a younger man she eventually lost that job now her new job their is no hair lotion no extra time on the hair and not so ready to go to work she also got defensive one night when I caught her about to text someone and I just happened to turn around and caught her but she didn’t get a chance to write anything

[thomaswilliams]

I think was an affair, she later monkey branch me and move on, am on a no contact since April 4 th 2022, and now she is on the same datingsite as me still no contact.

[PowerHouseChronicles]

Glad to be part of this amazing community where Learning and growth is the norm. Keep giving us more Shazmeen.

[Random-rtec]

Rule 1: Never marry. There is no reason for any man to marry today, rare is the long term happily married man. Common is the divorced guy sleeping in his car after getting financially raped in the anti-male divorce court system. Rule 2: If you made the mistake of getting married then: Never let your wife feel comfortable use "DREAD" on her as needed. Date them & enjoy them women are awesome as long as they know they have competition.

[kasheem]

So she cheated with him on me to give him the better version of her once we were over with?

[stam]

So what about the third person?.. no one cares about them. Can a affair be real and lead to an relationship?

[libbyschannel]

Wow but at times do we fully trust them after reaching stage 4 and how do we gain back that trust fully koz to be honest am unable completely

[thuwebaomar]

So there's a difference between cheating and affair, and there are stages of an affair that are different from the stages of a relationship. Mmmh, thanks ma.

[shala]

Wow... Well I'm prob in stage 3ish...lol 2 years post d day the child they now have is almost 2. I'm struggling on a level I can't describe. We had 10 years together..before this

[Keyona-tewjgemini]

I’m going through it we haven’t had sex in months went to Texas to see new grandbaby for a week came home still nothing the whole time I was in Texas he barely wanted to stay on the phone now I have a new towel in my house don’t know where it came from he said I had it