Why women love Bad Boys over Nice Guys

Why Do Women Sometimes Choose Bad Boys Over Nice Guys?

It’s a question that often puzzles many: why do some women seem to gravitate toward “bad boys” instead of the “nice guys”? Here are some factors that contribute to this phenomenon:

The Thrill of Adventure: Bad boys often exude a sense of excitement and spontaneity. Their adventurous nature can be alluring, offering a sense of unpredictability that some women find thrilling compared to more stable relationships.

Confidence and Charisma: Many bad boys display high levels of confidence and charisma. This self-assured demeanor can be very attractive, as it often translates to a strong presence that draws people in.

Rebellion Against Norms: Choosing a bad boy can sometimes represent a form of rebellion against societal expectations or traditional norms. This allure can be especially strong in younger women exploring their identities.

Desire for Change: Some women may feel they can change or "fix" a bad boy, seeing the potential for growth and transformation. This nurturing instinct can lead them to pursue relationships that challenge them.

Cultural Influences: Media portrayals of bad boys often romanticize their lifestyle, creating a narrative that associates them with passion and excitement. This can influence perceptions and choices in real life.

Emotional Intensity: Relationships with bad boys can often be intense and passionate, creating strong emotional connections. Some women may find this emotional rollercoaster more compelling than the steadiness of a nice guy.

Fear of Vulnerability: Engaging with a nice guy often requires emotional openness and vulnerability. Some women might subconsciously avoid this by choosing partners who are less emotionally available.

Conclusion:

While there are many reasons why some women may be drawn to bad boys, it's important to remember that individual preferences vary widely. Ultimately, every woman has her unique reasons for her relationship choices.

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[stevenjacks]

Women absolutely cannot handle rejection - a negative emotion - which men deal with regularly. So to claim that women handle negative emotion better is absolutely false.

[JessicaAnotii]

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

[shawnhendrix]

Silliest conversation I’ve heard on the topic.

[buicklincoln]

Women LOVE nice guys once they've reached age 30, had a divorce and 2 kids. That nice guy with the education and the job all of a sudden becomes very masculine. When I was a 21 year old college student and a minimum wage job, I had 30 something year old women who thought I was a treasure because of my potential after graduation.

[iammaximus]

… dressing well,
is a sign of good manners

[danielhamilton]

Women are more adept at handling negative emotions? Uh, no. Women wreck far too many marriages and relationships for this to be true

[doctordetroit]

Nice guy just means a guy floating around a girl...too afraid to make a move.

[ModernDatingMastery]

*The reason many women are drawn to bad boys is that they’re unpredictable, independent, and often take risks — traits that make them exciting. But it’s not about being a bad guy, it’s about embodying the confidence and freedom that come with it.*

[DeeJay]

This is absolute nonsense. If you are attractive - if you have self worth and respect for yourself - if you are moving forward - you can be as nice as you want. It is called being a good human being and a man of honour and integrity.

[JAG]

I don't understand and never will understand why being a nice guy for women is seen by most women as bad

I will also never understand why women say they want a nice guy but then reject the thing they say they want

Nice guys never change for a woman and let the women who don't want you go because your nice

Nice guys stand up for who you are

Nice guys let the women who want a bad boy alone and do not try to help them

Nice guys stay true to yourself always because it better to be hated for being nice then not

Nice guys do not lower your standard ever

[StuTheDude]

3:12 beauty and the beast fantasy for every single woman it's all about what plays in their head

[macthe-qyip]

As a bloke, I disrespect emotions. They're no basis for making any decision, including marriage.

[messii]

Don’t be a nice guy and don’t be a bad boy, be a man set boundaries and goals and don’t take yourself too seriously, have humor don’t let it fade away and have fun at times but also have strong mentality act like you don’t need anybody but yourself, be that 1%, be that gentlemen that what many respect, treat people good be nice but don’t be a fool or you will be used and that’s where the line is crossed and treat all people like people

[macthe-qyip]

"Nice" is nowadays a debased word - it nowadays means a simp.

[macthe-qyip]

Working out and dressing well - 100% agree

[Killtrobal]

1 minute and she is already talking tons of bullshit

[joachimAl]

Sadia is giving some Women too much Credit, but I see so many Single Mother's & Older Mature Women desperate for a Good Man.

[jessemiller]

"Women care more about people than things." She says that like guys don't

Yea, we could love a girl even if she's homeless and has nothing to her name, but we're the ones that care more about "things."

L take

[OsagiEvans]

We no longer chase liabilities. We chase investments.

[EricGarrett-ss]

The reason why women in their early teens and 20's be getting involved with jerks and bad boys because they are move like they have other options with being assertive and direct than some good men and nice guys that don't set boundaries when being in relationships with women. Another reason is women think they can fix and change them as well making excuses and playing victim after getting older and average. The good men and nice guys aren't the blame women have been abused manipulated with assaulted by the jerks players and bad boys that are foolish and manipulative. Even when men do majority of the right things in relationships and marriage women will make a foolish decision to leave . By the way nice guys don't finish last how can they if they never started? The nice guys that don't set boundaries with not being direct with their opinions and women that are baby momma's by the jerks and bad boys looking for stepfather's to fit the bill for another man's kids. On another show a older average modern women told her story about the nice guy she rejected in high school when she saw his after his bike ride and the park she apologized to him for being a foolish shallow girl when she was younger also he was one of the few men that cared as well respecting her. Like many people say you are what you attract this goes for both men and women building relationships into marriage takes maturity honestly and communication.