'Bad Boy' Traits That Women Find Attractive | Courtney Ryan

You’ve probably heard so many times “bad boys win and nice guys always finish last” or something along those lines. I think this terminology often leaves guys feeling confused (and rightfully so) so in this video I break down the things guys do that make them successful with women. I hope this video makes things a bit more clear!

CONTACT/ FOLLOW ME:
Instagram: @courtneycristineryan

[GarandNewbie]

It’s simple:
1. Women are easily bored
2. The looks and behaviors of bad boys delay women from becoming bored
3. Bad boys leave before a woman becomes bored with them

[justsomebird]

1) Be independent
2) Sense of humor
3) Confidence
4) Being direct
5) Body Language and Social Skills

These are traits bad boys possess, not traits that make a bad boy. It’s often the fact that “nice guys” don’t have these traits or don’t show them that makes them finish last. These are all positive traits you can have without coming off as or being a douche, a bad boy, a jerk or asshole. Be direct with what you want, have good social skills to express what you want to compliment your words and be confident when expressing what you want. Have your own life, take what you do and want seriously be lighthearted and easy to approach and talk to when you talk to others, not just when approaching women. If you have a problem doing this when approaching women in particular, consider that maybe you’re overthinking how women work. Women and Men are still more similar than they are different. Two sides of the same coin, but still on the same coin.

[annatar]

“Nice guys finish in divorce court. Bad boys finish on her face” - Darius M

[MrCanadiansingh]

Wishing you all very happy new year may it bring health, wealth, prosperity in your life. 🌹
Things to avoid this year -
1. Trying to please everyone
2. Fearing change
3. Living in the past
4. Overthinking
5. Being afraid to be different
6. Sacrificing happiness for others
7. Thinking you're not good enough
8.thinking you not have purpose in life

[GEORGIOARCADE]

Ohh man not this haha 😆. I think guys should stop worrying about trying to be what women want in terms of this bad boy stuff and just focus on being the best version of themselves. One thing I've learned from talking to different women; is they all like different things in guys. You just gotta be confident in your good qualities and put yourself out there for women who like those things. Plus nothing wrong with being a good guy. I rather people say "Georgio was a good man who always looked out for people" when my time on this earth is done. That is how we should think. Anyways happy New Year everyone and thanks Courtney for your kindness and great content my friend 🙌🏽♥️🥂

[Faulkner]

As someone who made it out of the friendzone last year, im not a bad boy.I just matured and realized that you just need to appeal to the mental attraction, stop being thirsty, and realize if she don't like you find another woman that does💯 And keep your options open

[romeomsfg]

You are surounding the real issue here. Confidence, sense of humor, etc. Those are good guy atributes. Unfaithful, rude, violent, abusive... That's a "bad boy". Why are they irresistible to many women? Because some people just like problems and drama to feel alive. They think that's what they deserve.

[danieldpa]

1.) prioritise yourself as a man and don’t spend energy to think about what she wants or feels
2.) don’t forget rule one
3.) You can lose all your money by chasing women, you will never lose women by chasing money
4.) it’s not the good of your heart but the size of your wallet that makes you stand out
5.) For men, intimacy is always transactional - one way or another you pay-for-play. Chose the right playground and look for quality, not quantity.
6.) She is never yours, it’s just your turn
7.) She has a backup guy - you should have a backup plan too
8.) Never tolerate drama or shit tests - keep her in check
9.) Be confident when others flirt with your girl, if she flirts back, leave her immediately.
10.) lift weights 5 days a week, no matter your age

[LinkinVoider]

1) Be independant - you can work on that and learn.
2) Sense of humor - I would say you can also work on that if you are a chill person that is happy with their own life.
3) Confidence - Going to the Gym, feeling great about yourself I would say is the Key.
4) Being direct - Honesty is important too.
5) Body language - I think this one is the hardest because there is way too many shy people that just can't do this at all without feeling unconfortable.

[kman]

There was a girl who broke up with a guy early into dating because she thought he was too into her when he wasn't. What he did was normal dating actions where you date the woman.

What she didn't realize was he was sought after by many women. His new girlfriend was beautiful and she started coming back around. But it didn't matter because he was no longer interested.

She was probably more comfortable being treated badly or indifferent. These women exist.

[mikeg]

I was a nice guy in my teens until other guys told me to knock it off. I started being a bad boy, rude, dismissive, jerky, and girls chased me and competed to be with me. HOWEVER: I did not like the person I was, and I noticed that the older you get, the less the girls want you to be like that. But the biggest enemy of females is: they depend on guys to handle the fact that they are constantly bored and don't know what to do with themselves. They should have a life, and prefer nice/kind guys. If "guys are your life", then you'll end up with a guy with a rap sheet who might commit domestic abuse, leave you with a baby, etc.

[mediasawdust]

According to the FBI - Crossing your arms is one of most misunderstood body poses. It is not a defensive, or angry posture like so many think it is.

[thehouseofhoops]

So many guys falsely equate being a bad boy with being rude to and ignoring women. That will only make women give up and dislike them.

[ricardohunte]

Hi Ms. Ryan - I do all the five things you suggested. I do them naturally when speaking to ladies, I don't consider myself a "bad boy" I see myself as a guy who likes ladies company and I have a lot of fun as in laughs and good times with women, yes I look after myself and I don't dress or smell like all the other guys in the room or club. Maybe that's why I get noticed. What I will say is this - guys all you have to do is stop with the naughty thoughts and speak to women with respect and treat them I'm a manner you wish to be treated myself. Also no dirty jokes - big no, no, . Oh the number one rule is - if you walk up to a lady say "Hi" And she is not interested. Then just walk away, don't say anything as it will make zero difference. And be cool about it. This bit will sound a tad odd - if you do right, sometimes a lady will be impressed by the way you handled yourself with the rejection and then she may come over to you and start speaking or she will be close to you in order for you to speak to her. However, always play it save - if she's near you. Then again walk away without saying a word. That way you're being safe. Another cool thing is to go out with some of your lady friends as that always makes other ladies look at you. There's a certain mystic involved when women see a guy with ladies around him they become very interested in who he is and what he does. But the golden rule is always be modest and listen to what the lady is saying and reply accordingly. Yes say something to make her smile. But no dirty jokes. And eye contact is king.

[bolt]

You just described Danny Devito. There wasn't a single comment about what causes AROUSAL. Nothing about about the man's physicality, or the sense of anxiety THAT LEADS TO AROUSAL that a Bad boy creates in a girl that makes her want to have sex upon first meeting. Either because of a complete lack of sense awareness of what triggered your arousal when you did meet those men and it did lead to sex, or you've honestly forgot, or you're unaware that you're talking about what makes a man ATTRACTIVE for long term, AFTER you've already been Aroused by him. Or you're virtue signally.

meanwhile the same girl at the Club: (thinking) " I want to get with that new DJ (status) I've never spoken to, with the great arse, big guns (Physicality), who all the other girls are also drooling over! (Preselection and Competition Anxiety)"

[erics]

All guys are confident we just show it more in other areas. Like I show my confidence by working and building things just because I have a hard time talking to ppl doesn't mean I'm not confident . People need to under stand that about guys

[MKF]

When Courtney said "At the end of the day Most women would prefer to be approached by you instead of having to do it themselves" I immediately thought translation, they'd rather do the rejecting than having to worry about being rejected....lol 😆 Maybe I'm just pessimistic but I don't see the rules of the approach changing sadly, I do believe however a big part of "guy has to approach not the woman" is due to the fact that they don't want to be rejected either. Like a job, think about it. Is it easier for 10 companies to be interested in you with you having easy pickings or you going out there on interviews day in, day out hoping you get that job?

But anyway great vid and Happy New Year Courtney.🙂🎇🧨

[omarlerouge]

1/- be hot.
2/- avoid being unattractive.
3/- be successful (aka, have cash).

body language, social skills, confidence ? won't hurt.

[fawazalkhaldi]

A great video to start of the year with & it's true most of those traits are misunderstood to be "bad" but they aren't, it's basically just getting out of your comfort zone & being more confident in your life.

[TurfSurf]

It's absolutely true, and I learned my lesson the hard way when I was a simp. I have also learned you can be good and bad at the same time, all women I mean all women either consciously or subconsciously like bad guys. You have to know how to ignore them from time to time and treat them the way they wanted to be treated, be a jerk. Most women when they look for guys usually based on 2 things. First is the look when she's under 30, she will drive 100 miles to sleep with you if you look like an Armani model. Then money when she is older than 30, she will drive 200 miles to sleep with you if you are rich. Accept these 2 facts, you will never get disappointed in life, and your life will be a lot simpler and happier. Years ago, I read a book called "The Code" after I got heartbroken, one of the best books I have ever read! Society has changed dramatically in the past 20 years, but some of the codes are still working, because human nature doesn't change, chics are still chics.