Things Women Need To Know About Men

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[PRdude]

I wouldn't introduce a woman as my girlfriend unless she actually IS my girlfriend.

[chinothepony]

Men want to know they are appreciated. Compliments are something that men don't hear as much as women. Men treasure the women they are with, and if they get validation and feedback that they are making a woman feel safe, secure, and treasured, the man knows he is doing the right thing.

[PspTomisi]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[iamhoracio]

I discovered Courtney’s channel when she had less than 70k subscribers. Now, her channel is going to hit 1M. Hard work does pay off.

[nextghost]

TV has taught us that "we need to talk" means that what's coming next is a breakup.

[sdfg-gjto]

Too many people conflate "standards" with "wishes." It's like they are saying you need to have a lambo instead of saying you need to have a safe, reliable, comfortable car. Yes you need to be attracted to your partner, feel safe, feel respected. You don't need someone who spoils you and treats you like a princess so you don't have to lift a finger.

[tommygunn]

My take....first off, if you're in a relationship and still acting like youre single, just stay fricken single. Its not that hard!
Secondly, this having a boner for a luxury lifestyle is BS "oh i can't date you cause you're not making 6 figures" those people need to know their role and shut their mouths!
Third, people need to stop overly complicating dating! It's a mindset! It's nuances! Stop figuring it out like trying to put cheat codes in a video game!
Four, if you have trouble communicating, take yourself out of the dating pool and work on it, so you don't waste people's time!
Thanks for coming to my TED talk!

[EricMoore]

Here is one: All we want is some kindness and we will do anything you want.

[alanlee]

Another entitled Tiktoker: it gets me whenever modern women on one hand say they don't need no men, and then on the other also say men are supposed to provide for them. The one and only woman on earth that I feel obliged to provide for is my elderly mom.

[willarmendariz]

This entire video is basically women assuming that we communicate like they do. Lost is a turbulent sea of emotions and alphabet soup, desperately trying find words that don't bring up negative emotions because they can't deal with difficult conversations. Instead of just taking what we say as what we mean, they have to run it through the filter of their emotions and complicate the ever living shit out of simple communications.

[ericoates]

"if your dog's not barking; it means he's being fed by someone else" where 'barking' means asking/begging for physical intimacy; why does he need to be the one asking and/or begging for this? By this same logic, the guy who is "not barking"; could be assuming that she has somebody else on the side.

[ratzo]

i never identify a girl as "Friend" I always just say her name "this is Kelly". Until the relationship has been defined, then its "this is mt girlfriend Kelly"

[jdhlstd]

Your videos are the best I ever see on YouTube. You are so well spoken and you clearly take the time needed to put together your message. It comes across so well articulated and easy to understand. Thank you for all the great advice! Keep it up!!

[dylancooper]

I don't feel insecure because of my low salary. If a woman judges me for it, that's on her, not me.

[karuns]

The arrogance of the women acting like she knows everything while putting on makeup like she's going to a movie premier speaks volumes about her. Not sure how anyone would want to take any advice from her at all.

[chinothepony]

OMG #10! She is so spot on! I don't know how many times the woman expected me to be a mind reader.

Think on this: Women are emotional creatures. They change their minds all the time. Consistency can be out the window when they take on different angles and perspectives of the same subject matter based on their mood.

How is a man expected to keep up with this without communication?

[TheWMBWLife]

Things women need to know about men....

1) It's not always about getting some "trim."

2) Guys have feelings too, and do care about more than sex.

3) Shouldn't necessarily be defined by what he has or what he can provide for her.

The list goes

[vampiro]

Don't ever sprinkle important subjects into an easy going conversation and expect us to listen intently and remember every little detail. Some men are good at that, a lot aren't. If it's something important, speak directly to us. Don't beat around the bush or try to add nuance, tell us exactly what the issue is. We'll recognize the gravity of something if you do it this way, and then do whatever needs to be done.

[nightknightlegion]

Most woman can't take what we men say seriously. When we say something, we literally mean it. There's no metaphor, or games, and idea behind what we're saying.

[airynod]

1) You are not always blame-free if your partner cheats. That depends on someone's history and relationship dynamic. I know a father who stayed in the relationship for his son but eventually cheated on her girl-boss wife. I am not endorsing cheating, but I understand why that might happen if I take the daily interaction with her wife into account.
2) The tone of "We need to talk" reminds me of my mother. The moment that I am in trouble(at least she thinks I am), it is probably a one-way conversation coming up.
I wouldn't want an intervention-like conversation that is one-sided.

Some of the others are really spot on too.