What is Projection? - Narcissistic Traits

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#narcissist #narcissism #npd #npdabuse #npdsurvivor #abuse

Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.

Also I try to help people with or abused by narcissism. Please reach out to me if you are a: Victim of Narcissistic Abuse -Helping provide closure, reduce guilt and break free from the trauma bond that toxic people imprison you in. Narcissist -I understand you better than you probably understand yourself because I have been there, I am there and I am fighting daily for a better life. You can do that too.

If you are interested in talking with me one on one grab a time with the link below.

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[soeumsoeun]

He called me a schizophrenic, a bipolar and also narcissist person. Because of your video and the awareness, I've learned to set myself free. I've learned to accept that they will never chage. I have accepted that my marriage was fake and that the loving was not real. Went through some depression up-and-down sadness but letting myself walk outhis toxic relationship has healed me And has give me back who I am. It's not worth it. Leave them and go no contact.

[iamgoddessoflove]

One way to know that you're dealing with a narcissist is when they take, and take, leaving you feeling depleted. Whereas, you'll receive less, and less or nothing in return. 💙YouTuber That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[classystyle]

This episode hit home soooo much, and will rank in my top videos of "yep, that happened...yep, that did too". Videos like this are such continued validation that my expectations for our relationship weren't unrealistic, and that I wasn't being needy, but that he found so many ways to avoid accountability.

[rebeccaroman]

Wow. That's all I got. Thank you.

[JW-pomb]

Wow! 🤯 This video explains a whole lot. I am beginning to understand what has been happening to me for these past years. I couldn't understand why I was being labeled a certain way. I had accepted and believed what was told to me even though I couldn't see it. I was so confused. Thank you so much for this video. This really explains a whole lot. I feel a calmness now. I'm so relieved. 🙏🏾

[cindyallen]

OMG! I had to rewind the part about "planting evidence, just to test us". Years ago, my husband asked me to go into his email (to get a code or something), KNOWING FULL WELL I was going to see emails from other women. And, yes, it started a huge fight. I always wondered why he'd be so dumb, or, if he did it intentionally. Now I know he did. Years later, he discarded me and I'm at peace now.

[Hopper]

The real torture has been being gaslit, shut down and un invalidated, and then projected upon, I am bad. I am horrible. I am failing. This was very, very, very painful until I figured it all out. Thank you so much for enlightening us.

[AlwaysHope]

Yes
He would Always say when he was acting mean…
You created me …, so deal with it .
I never understood that

[cherrybacon]

My Ex used to say to me "Have you got something to watchno your phone because I don't want you being bored while i watch football". I was never bored watching a film. Maybe he was trying to tell me it was HIM that was bored with ME. 🍒

[lasher]

Why does no one talk about female narcissist, or lazy, narcissist that won't work, or help with house stuff ect?

[robertataylor]

The only thing I could do was get real quiet and live parallel with him in the situation when I realized what a u* situation it is I just got very quiet. Sometimes he would get very raging when I would just go to the door to leave and go across the street to my shed. I would quietly pretend like nothing happened and respond with nothing while I was preparing to leave. now I'm in my little life pod Van and I'm trying to recreate my life
In a weird way karma dropped me right back where I had been right before I met the narcissist I realized though, that it is easy to blame him for all my problems but Some of these problems existed before I met him so it will be harder to quant backup and fix all of the problems. true he did a lot of damage but I am responsible for my life Now that is not me minimizing his abuse I have just decided that I am responsible to take care of my life I am not starting another relationship I am working on all my problems and I know in a couple of years when I'm on the way up I will meet a really nice person to have a partnership with and I will Make sure any person in my life has empathy and that they have a Is real heart And if anybody ever treats me the way he did ...one and done...
1 and done!