I Stopped Caring What People Think & This Happened...

90% of people care too much about what other people think... This is the story of how overcame this as fast as possible!

Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.

Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!

His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!

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I Stopped Caring What People Think & This Happened...

How to learn social skills and how to improve your social skills!

How to be confident in any situation! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals how to stop caring about what others think about you... This will allow you to feel confident and be confident in any social situation!

Discover how to be confident in any social situation, how to be confident around people and how to be grounded during social interactions!

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[JulienHimself]

Comment your top takeaway from this video here below! I personally read through EVERY SINGLE COMMENT!!!


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[staypositivenomatterwhat]

The problems isnt accepting yourself. It is that society rewards certain personality types. This leads to positive reinforcement for the people who naturally have those traits and crippling insecurity for the people who arent like that naturally.

[bonesmoney]

Biggest takeaway: question your "insecurities and downfalls". Tap into you and own it all

[Mr.Honest]

This guys confidence is the real deal. I could absolutely tell.

[nocapnobs]

This is called self inquiry, just a disclaimer, the deeper you go the more that baloney hurts. I'm talking your body hurting and going into termers at it releases trauma. Good luck guys and just fyi, this is the BIGGEST fight of your life, it is also a marathon not a sprint.

[larrymannino]

Y'know, I put on that first coat because it protected me. That felt good. But it got colder, so I put on another coat. That worked...for awhile. But then I read that a a storm was coming. So I put on another coat. The storm came, but my coats protected me. Plus, the new people I met in the storm liked my coat. They didn't know there were more coats underneath. But then those people, over time, lost interest in the coat that they could see. I didn't want to be lonely, I wanted to be accepted. So, even though I had to pay for every new coat, I put on yet another coat. Winter passed. Spring was coming. The coats were heavy. It was getting warmer. I knew that I didn't need the burden of all of these coats to keep we warm anymore, but was afraid that if I took off all of these coats, the people I now knew wouldn't recognize me anymore. So I kept a stiff upper lip and smiled through the discomfort. And every time I added a new coat, those new people complimented me. But it was becoming difficult to simply stand, much less move in the way I wanted. But loneliness was worse than discomfort. So I kept putting on those coats...until I collapsed.

And when I did, those people that liked me for my coats didn't help me up.

Lesson learned.

Nice vid, btw ;)

[petermanning]

If you don’t see your self as valuable, you won’t expect others to see you as valuable either. If you serve others and be kind without seeking attention you will start to believe that you are valuable

[JimmyJaxJellyStax]

Love how people are actually pretty open to being put on the spot, painstakingly, but honestly interested

[Cuspofrevolution]

Biggest hurdle....actually truly wanting to change....knowing what i am changing bpd makes is very difficult personally not to delve into the negativity of what people are saying about me because when im triggered mainly if someone is angered at me or criticizing me or if ive done something wrong i believe the hurtful hateful words more than any positive ones because i believe that of myself and spiral. Looking at bpd treatment and management but yes emotions for me can overtake badly and sometimes i cant identify what emotion it depression, sadness, despair, emptiness, disgust....the whole lot. Still finding the source but it has to do with my father and the fear i still carry with me as though im that scared child still.

[spikyblackblur]

This is amazing. Looking back on your old videos even from just 2016 I can notice the difference in authenticity there. This work is real and definitely not just luck.

[mpipod]

Wow this hit me like a slap to the face!( in a good way we all need) This is amazing! and thanks for taking time to coach the youtube crowd and put your stuff in order for us to understand better! Great!

[TonyCatch]

Dude, your passion is over the roof! The flow of your speech is mesmerizing. Very quality content !

[danieldandrade]

Looking for other people's approval is a sign that you don't know who you are. Therefore, you become terrified of showing the real you! Instead, you put on a front that you think is acceptable and protect yourself from being and knowing who you really are.

[EmskiBloodreid]

I have been struggling mentally really badly lately which I don’t need to blurt out details here but listening to u is really refreshing and different to anyone else I’ve seen. Thank you truly julien

[celinajanssen]

“Simba, remember who you are”

I feel that many people, when trying to connect with their inner child, actually reach their inner teenager instead - the teenager that is just as conditioned as your adult self.

“Go further back, Simba”

[larabardot]

I really resonated with everything you said in this video, thank you for doing what you do ❤

[sethcaro]

When I was a child I had two uncles that made me feel (and explicitly said so) that I was dumb, that I couldn’t do anything. Not always but I remember. One of them would ask me to do something I never did before and expected me to do it first time and quickly. Not too difficult stuff, like opening the rear door of a truck. But I never did before nor anyone taught how. I know I’m smart, If he would have taught me i could have done it.

[rubin-healmysocialanxiety]

Great work Julien, "never say no, stay open.." miracles are trying to find a way in🙌

[courtneycasey]

My top takeaway was: Never say I don’t know bc you do, otherwise you wouldn’t feel the things you’re feeling. That resonates with me bc I tend to downplay my emotions

[Caseycali]

Soo good Julien. You are the best at explaining these concepts in such a down-to-earth, funny way. Big fan!