10 Signs of Coercive Manipulation Tactics in Relationships

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[Coparentingwithanarcissist]

Yes, by the time you distance yourself from this toxicity you will fully understand that these people weren't just out to bend you but they wanted to break you.

[sorinapavel]

They make you believe they know you better than you do. So, if you do not know who you are, they got you.

[alimccreery]

We need to push for a law to make coercion control and bullying be made a felony 👍👍👍👍👍

[GodsChosenMekAmoR]

This is so good. I wish judges, doctors, social workers, and police officers could recognize such.

[teresafraser]

My exhusband did this to me for 13 years until finally one day I woke up to this realization fully and packed my bags and left! Never ever looking back! I saved myself from this abusive situation. The only regret was I wished I had left sooner!

[shawnawallace]

Ladies, 4 months ago I realized that all the negative voice left in my head from the Narcissist is all lies. Then I decided that I am someone that is lovable. When I looked up the definition of love I realized that I am love!! I decided to show up as myself each and every day. Even when I get anxious, scared, or fearful. I decided that I am enough and I am worthy. November will be my 3rd year on this journey. Ladies, make a list of all your fears, insecurities, strengths and weaknesses and work through them. That has helped me alot. Put a plan in place for all these areas so that you can respond and not react.

[martin]

"You have the right to your own perspective..your own feelings..even if they're wrong". Thank you Michele. This is such an important point that hits home because this notion is an effective way to short circuit the brainwashing telling oneself that "my partner is right..I'm wrong...there's something wrong with my perspective/emotions" EVEN if the narc successfully has aligned your inner critic against you it is important to know that you ALWAYS have a right to your own opinion. This is the right way to defeat your inner critic. Another good way is to start working cognitively with your inner critic. Find out where it originated and why

[shawnkillian]

This video literally saved me from a potentially dangerous relationship so thank you.

[ThePossumone]

My husband broke me but God put me back together again. - feel brand new now ❤

[warrencardwell]

My narc ex-wife always hated it when I tried to speak up, and tried to use abusive behavior when I did. Thanks for a great video Michele.

[mariaalaniz]

💯 on point he teases me all the time put if I do to him he asks me “why are you always attacking me?” I just don’t understand how he can dish it out but if I tease him it’s an attack. I’m learning to walk away and not respond.

[diannadiguardi]

I lived this life for 18 years, and when I finally stood up to him, he lost interest, cheated on me, put me down to his girlfriend, decided to work things out, then he left me a year later, this was a year and a half ago, I am now finally climbing up out of that dark hole he left me in. Thank you so much for what you do, these videos REALLY helped me when I needed them the most.

[andreamagyar]

It is crazy making . They do it on a purpose, consciously.

[bonksxoxo]

I am the poster chick for this abuse. Currently, I am restrained from my legal residence by an order of the court for elder abuse against my grandparents.
I am disabled and at their mercy.
I had a house but my aunt stole it and as soon as the ink was dry on the title she blocked my calls. I haven't been paid a dime. She is holding my storage hostage for refusing to sign the affidavit stating I was paid. She was going to pay me $166, 000 at $400.00 a month! It would take 36 years! I am 45 and was expecting a fix/flip but now this! Homeless, broke and the one that's playing the victim. It's worse than a broken bone! I want to start a business, get dental work and start my mid life!! I heard this the other day,
"The only people who get upset when you set boundaries, are the same people who benefited when there wasn't any. "
Take Care.

[nubianqueen]

Hi, It took my ex 9 years to break me completely I nearly lost my mind. I did not recognise myself at all I was doing things Completely out of my character and I thought it was me. He told me constantly that I did not know what I was doing. That I would mess things up all the time. He used to say to me that every action had a consequence and he would punish me in various ways. I felt like someone was choking all the time even if he wasn’t around I thought he could see me or he know what I was doing . He also used my religion to validate what he was doing to me. Coercive control completely destroys you.

[lynbeasant]

I felt like my soul was dying. Thank god I’m free now.

[teresafraser]

For those of you that are in this toxic abusive relationship I urge you to please choose to love and STOP betraying yourself by stay one min longer🙏 Choose to love yourself unconditionally. Stop playing the victim roll it's time to empower and leave this character that you have far exceeded to maintain because of fear. Fear cripples you, fear is a prison cell that ONLY YOU have placed yourself in so dig into your pocket and pull out the key that will set yourself free!🤗

[Salm]

Thank you!! That's my life everyday for the last 25 years.

[redsquirrel]

My ex narc didn't like me having an opinion. I'm strongly empathic so I picked up on that vibe pretty early on. Of course it got to the stage where I didn't dare state an opinion anymore. It's only now that I see how I was being manipulated and controlled.

[semasariyildiz]

Why are these things never explained when happening to the child? Some parents do this to their children for decades How the he'll is the child going to get rid of this damage?