9 WAYS TO NOT BE AN INTIMACY STALKER | THE WRONG WAY TO INTIMACY | Psychotherapy Crash Course

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Stalkers are interesting individuals with a lot of different characteristics. It's always easier to label someone else a stalker. But when the stalker is you, what do you do?

Stalkers waste a lot of time trying to figure out how to get to the object of their desire or to manipulate, overcome, and control their victim. Stalkers may also stalk to get revenge on someone who has ended a relationship with them. Or stalkers may stalk to be a nuisance to someone they feel owes them something.

Whatever the case, it SHOULD NOT happen!

In this video, I tackle the viewer requested video of how to understand stalking behaviors you may actually exhibit in your own life.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
Intro 0:00
Unplug 5:30
Move over and away
Childhood trauma 5:54
Unravel your fantasy 6:41
Learn the thoughts-Feelings-Behaviors connection 8:00
Stalking pushes them away 8:40
Medication for impulse control 9:03
Legal side 10:43
Help that is specific to you 11:08

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[brianmitchell]

This eye opening on so many levels, I can completely relate to this. This has happened to me on a couple occasions, especially when someone is hot and cold with me, showing interest then pulling back. Although seemingly harmless I realize that watching their social media or rereading texts to get a different perspective is stalking. I struggle with rejection starting with my parents so this strikes a cord. So I have to take control and cut off communication for my own peace of mind and sanity.

[trysmarter]

I love that you're putting out information that's not behind a paywall, to help people. It's super cool, thanks.

[TherapistTamaraHill]

If you have questions prior to this premier let me know below in the comments section!
Share your stories too (that is, if you are comfortable).

[JaiShanese]

Thank you so much for this video. I use to be a stalker and all it takes is that one person to break you. I had to find my triggers and a good therapist.

[TheDish]

How about a video on
GANG STALKING.
HOW DO I TALK TO YOU PERSONAL?
PSYCO LINCHING

[BarbNBarb]

Misread the title, but glad I watched. Looking forward to the rest of your series! ☺️
Thank you.

[beatrix-ecxf]

Im actually happy I subbed long ago and you made this video now....There was someone I was very briefly "dating" and they were not seeking commitment. long story short we stopped communicating and seeing eachother based off that and him lying about having a son. ugh its been months and i still find myself stalking his instagram to see what hes doing or if hes out with another girl even though i know its is wrong with me? :(

[CokeysCasino]

Can you do a video on girl on girl stalkers like envy that turns to stalking

[theksheedz]

LOL people shouldn’t do it but the laws for stalking are weak. Similar to restraining orders. Crazy people don’t care about what’s right but what will get them caught and in trouble. What I suggest to everyone - Fix the laws. Till then nothing will really change.

[T.dT.]

I would love to try that style of therapy and never heard of it until this. Existential?

[Lily-eie]

Is this also linked to some mental illness ?!

[truthutoda]

My sister was like this. She was needy. Very needy