6 Habits That Make People Instantly Like You Less

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0:00 - #1: Bully banter
1:53 - #2: Mocking someone's mistakes
2:51 - #3: The negative Nancy
4:23 - #4: Disrespectful distractions
5:36 - #5: Repeatedly talking over someone
7:32 - #6: Inauthenticity

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[smarre]

That JRE clip is actually insane. Guest opens up about one of the most sensitive and personal things one can share and Joe gives his focus to the MMA clip in the background

[Ace_of_Empires]

Inauthenticity is the source of most problems socializing. People think people won’t like the real them, but unless you’re genuinely rude, people will appreciate what makes you unique.

[Josh_Stringer]

"I want to see what you just said written on paper." I know that's not something you say to a person, but my goodness, I love that.

[hightechredneck_]

1. Bully banter
2. Mocking others' mistakes
3. Being a negative nancy
4. Disrespectful distractions
5. Repeatedly talking over someone
6. Inauthenticity

[FullMoonHowl]

I really admire how careful you are to judge a specific behavior as helpful or less helpful, while asserting a given person is more than a clip or a conversation. That really keeps it classy, and it's very kind and gracious.

[anandgole]

I learnt how annoying i can be to other people. I'll definitely correct my mistakes and be a better person. Thank you fornthis great video!!

[Minder]

"It's not who you are underneath, but what you do that defines you."

That's the quote that went through my head as I watched this. Great episode!

[Bloody-Butterfly]

I am autistic and it is incredibly difficult for me to gauge how to friendly tease someone without hurting them.

[davidtoohey]

What a great call out at 5:10 by Andrew Schulz regarding someone looking at their phone during a conversation:

"What bothers you right now?"
"Nothing. You looking at your phone while we're doing this interview. And everyone seeming disinterested."
"What do you mean?"
"'Me taking time out of my day to do this and then feeling like I'm forcing you guys to do the podcast."

[rubenhinze]

I can't explain to you how much it hurts when ur trying to open up to someone and they keep getting distracted by something that just doesn't matter. And idk what's worse, if they do it on purpose or not.

[palaceofwisdom]

Neil DeGrasse Tyson really was accurately represented in the short clip, he believes that he's smarter than he is and that it gives him the right to talk over and down to others.

[FixItStig]

I think the power of not saying things is underrated, if you don’t put yourself up it allows others to do that in their own mind

[elsacouto]

I do agree that you can interrupt people when they are talking. But some people don't let you talk ever, they want to talk alone. So if you want to talk you have to interrupt them!

[NateO]

The negative Nancy tip is legit, and it applies as a general rule with social groups as well. You can absolutely vent to your social groups especially with good friends, but you shouldn’t dwell in that mindset for too long and especially let it become what you’re known for. I knew a guy in high school that always had this mindset, no matter what the situation was he was always unhappy about it, always complaining, and worst of all if he didn’t like something he would basically want everyone to feel the same way about it. Then he’d get upset and wonder why nobody invited him to things or wanted him around, and especially why he couldn’t get a girlfriend. People don’t want to be brought down, and even if they don’t dislike you as a person if they expect to feel that way around you they probably won’t be super anxious to have you along.

[henryibeleme]

Here I am learning about basic human etiquette as if I am an alien 👽

[EzekJohnson]

This is why I just love the Charisma on Command channel. Always dropping gold after gold. Amazing video. Powerful and useful lesson. God bless you.

[robertmartin]

Neil deGras Tyson explained it perfectly the last time he was on the JRE. He figured out early in his career that he needs to talk in sound bites. He practiced and practiced. I think Now it’s hard for him to have an actual conversation. He’s to concerned about trying to blow peoples minds with little facts that he doesn’t listen to what the other person is saying.

[charlesprovencher]

cutting people off when they're talking is probably one of my worst habits. And it is so hard to get rid of because it is just spontaneous, I will usually cut someone and realize what I did a second after and get mad at myself.

[kelvaris]

I feel the phone one so hard. I used to DM for my group. 12 years, 8 of it before everyone had phones. Once phones became ubiquitous, I would get so frustrated. I would spend hours planning an adventure and in the middle of the climatic moment, half the table is looking at their phones.

[kushkidish]

When I hear someone talking bad about another person it instantly triggers something in me that makes me dislike you and feel something that I should be cautious around you” not trust you”.