6 Charming Habits To Make People Feel Special Around You

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Hugh Jackman is one of the most charming people in Hollywood. The best part about his style of charisma is that once you get it down, it’s effortless. Specifically, Hugh has 6 habits that make him charming to almost anyone he meets.  After you learn a few of these habits, you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll find it’s easy to make people smile, laugh, and love being around you.

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0:00 - Intro.
0:40 - #1: Reframe the situations that make you nervous.
2:04 - #2: Be contagiously positive.
4:10 - #3: Give yourself permission to admit to emotions beyond happiness.
5:03 - #4: Own your flaws and don't be afraid to talk about them.
6:37 - #5: Tell sticky stories.
7:47 - #6: Make the people around you feel special.

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[XIANC]

Whenever I watch their videos, I feel like I'm studying how to act like a human being lmao

[QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“Talk to someone about themselves and they'll listen for hours.”
― Dale Carnegie

[darkmadhavsharma]

1) Reframe the situation: Instead of you wanting the thing/opportunity/person, consider thinking how that thing is suitable for you, ask questions which'll make you calm and confident.
2) Be positive: Big smile, open gestures, give compliments and laugh a lot
3) Admit Emotions: Being positive and happy is all important but life includes many other emotions like nervousness, anxiety, sadness. And you must be open to share emotions which is attractive because other people can relate to you and consider you as their own.
4) Own your flaws: Related to the 3rd point. Owning your flaws shows others that you are also not perfect and have the courage to own your flaws/mistakes, which is a really attractive quality.
5) Tell sticky stories: Consider the hook and grab strategy. Start your story with something that draws the attention of others and then continue the story.
6) Make others feel special: Give genuine and honest compliments. Hold strong eyes contact. Smile. Open gestures.

Have a great day!

[HoodieProduction]

To summarize every charismatic person ever, they use their social proficiency to elevate everyone around them instead of themselves. The key to charming others is to let them charm you.

[MisterPol]

No one is born confident. We all learn how to get more confident. If you have social anxiety, don't let that stop you. Focus one step at a time and eventually you'll become confident. ❤️

[josueh]

As a reptilian working for the US government, this video really helped me out! Thank you!

[zzanatos]

As a teacher, I've been doing many of these automatically just by speaking from the heart, being open and honest, actually taking an interest in other people, and not being too afraid to look silly. These things help you connect with others. If you try too hard to be formal and look perfect, you come across as cold and robotic - then people will think you are weird or evasive.

During my last job interview I was sharing a very emotional story about how I connected with a disabled student and helped her to create a wonderful project. While I was telling the story, my voice cracked a couple times and I had to fight back tears. They hired me on the spot. In fact, they almost begged me to please take the job.

[JoeySutch]

Being contagiously positive...I think we all know these people and it’s dope. Encourage others!

[laurenconrad]

Many stage actors have noted that it’s easier to nail an audition if they’re already in the middle of a current job. Having one job already makes seeking the next job feel lower stakes and therefore gives them a confidence which is critical to nailing an acting audition. This definetly applies to other types of situations. Feeling like you can get through it even if you don’t get this job because you have other potential offers or money saved can be huge.

[QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“You never know how strong you are, until being strong is your only choice.”
― Bob Marley

[arindam]

Lessons I learnt from this video -


*1. Reframe those situations that make you nervous*
_If you feel pressured to perform and impress in a situation, make sure to ask some questions to know if you like them too. Like, you'd have notice how confident the interviewer is while interviewing. But when with your friends, you feel confident. Because you know your friends like you and you like them. This will reframe your mindset in that situation._

*2. Don't make plans solely to impress others. Make plan that'll be also interesting to you, giving you the opportunity to give your best(85%) in that situation.*

*3. Be contagiously positive*
_Just think about that, how you feel with a person who is highly positive and composed in __-roughest-__ toughest of situations_

*4. Give yourself permission to admit to emotion beyond happiness. People would find it easier to connect with you at deeper level.*

*5. Own your flaw. Don't hesitate to talk about that.*
_Just laugh when you mess up or make a mistake_

*6. Be a good Storyteller.*

*7. Make the people around you special.*
_Do not give compliment to act as a nice person. Just give what you genuinely mean._
_The best compliment can be what the other person really love, or what he/she's not so much complimented to but is good at_

*∞. Maintain Eye Contact while listening. But don't break it while talking.*
_Having the full focus of the people you like feels more than amazing_

[mayankmalviya]

Imagine the same insanely genuine person, extremely humble, played Logan. This shows how good of an actor he is.

[irmo]

my friend is introducing me to her friend group tomorrow, watching this to not be awkward :|

Update: It went pretty well, we had fun and talked a lot! This video really helped, thanks!!!

[marshwiggle]

2 rules to charm anyone:
1. Be Hugh Jackman
2. Follow rule 1

[amritas]

Hugh was a teacher before he became an actor. His old students can tell their kids that they were trained by Wolverine.

[NarangaravZorigt]

*Be interested in others, **_then_** you will be the most interesting person.*

[ethancostello]

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[davidlucey]

Regarding being contagiously positive. That one really resonates with me. I have had so many people in my life who are incredibly negative and won’t be content until they share it with everyone. I don’t know if projecting an attitude of being positive will help you all the time, but it beats the hell out of being negative.

[Coolidentidy]

I’ve worked directly for Hugh Jackman and his family, and I can personally attest he is a great guy. He always has an encouraging word to say and makes everyone feel included.

[coacht]

Before YOU can be charming and impressing to people, first YOU must be charming and impressive to YOURSELF
Become the person that YOUR yesterday-self is proud of - Coach T