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[loloify]

I used to get so upset about the smears, the discrediting of my character but it's so pervasive and relentless with a narcissist and life is too short to waste with disproving their lies. I'm only recently taking the tack that if others want to believe nonsense, that's their choice. I can't stop someone from lying about me nor can I stop someone believing the lie. Letting the "narcissist show who they are" - and they will eventually - while you go "and live your best life" is some of the best advice out there. Do it! Thank you.

[janepoppet]

They bait you into becoming emotional and overexplaining, then they'll use your emotions and over explanation to accuse you of being confrontational. One of these personality types I've known would do this to me on the phone and hang up. I'd feel so guilty that I'd upset them and would go over the conversation in my head before calling them back to apologise. I wasn't as educated about narcissism back then. But I see them now. Resources like this are invaluable to people. 💗

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5:15 "A narcissist is going to be the victim in their life. Anything that doesn't work out how they want is somebody else's fault. Somebody else has done that to them. They don't see any form of their own behavior causing any issues within their life. They believe it's everybody else causing the issues."

6:15 "The narcissist has then gained control over their victim which in one sense helps the narcissist believe that they've gained control over their own emotions. However, because they don't have control of their emotions because they don't take responsibility for themselves and their own behavior it never lasts with a narcissist."

[lmvsslv]

She creates dramas every day so that she can be a victim and get my attention. It’s exhausting. She’s racked up thousands in debt and now we’re bankrupt all to get attention.

[aziafreeny]

I have a sister who is a narcissist and she will do so many jacked up things to me but when I gain the courage to say something she’ll attack me and block me without an explanation… it really sucks. You get no where with these kind of people.

[quantumqueef]

your videos help me so much. having dealt with a narcissistic father and past narcissistic friends, this gave me so much clarity and reassurance. thank you <3

[percystreet]

My wife has for two years weaponised her own “resentment” of my perceived behaviour (three years ago), but when I raise an issue she accuses me of being resentful and that she doesn’t need resentment in her life…….

[kathleenklein]

Very good description of my mother. Thank goodness, I am seeing a psychologist to try recognize her behavioral issues as hers.

[sfcsarah]

your content is so great - I love the examples you provide of how narcissistic people behave in various situations. So many of the words they say are exactly the same as I heard (you're too sensitive, overly dramatic) that it almost feels like narcissists use the same playbook!

[lmvsslv]

She cheated on me twice and blames me.

[jameslacroix]

Your videos help so many people .my ex was more on a side of sociopath

[jamiewilliams]

1 must sort their own issues out, its no one else's responsibility and that goes for their bad mood

[habibahmed]

The circular arguments, more often than not stemming from something she’d do whether this be a lie she’d not accept responsibility for, or me insisting on answers for why she’d started being secretive would keep going round till I’d give up because they’d wear me down so much or I become fearful of loosing her.
And lose her I did in the end anyway because when I began to stand up for myself she started cheating on me (which she of course denied till I caught him at her place at 3am one night). Everything was my fault, even me not telling her one evening that junction 38 on the M1 Barnsley where she lived was closed one evening, so she had to go another way. “Why didn’t you tell me?!”my natural response was “how the hell was I supposed to know where you’d get off when I didn’t know where you were?!” (By this time in the relationship I’d started answering back), which of course led to being discarded eventually. The psychological abuse these creature subject you to is harrowing.

[AmandainChrist]

This answered my prayers to a desired understanding.

[ladybird]

I decided to pull my energy back from the narcissist and they played victim and acted like none of their happened: they kept being passive aggressive, allowing people they know to disrespect me right in front of them, stonewalling me for hours during parties, making me chase them for sex and dates, insulting me calling when fat yet they were fat, lieing and saying I never gave money to the relationship, saying it was okay for our daughter to stand me on lunch date she asked to have, after using me to pay her bills and to drive my car for free for a month, blowing cold on the same days or the week and leaving without even a notice and not answering my calls knowing they have the only car and they are getting groceries and I may need to add some things on the list, knowing they were asking me for money to just go buy drinks for women in bars who they were entertaining, entertaining other women during our entire date while not speaking to me, the list goes on. Everything has to be his way and when I decided I wanted my way to suddenly he is the victim. Going in rooms and behind expensive things of mine though I never insulted them and just refused to be gaslighted. He tried to control my emotions, purposely trying to make me emotionally messy when I am dealing with their toxicity soft and quietly.

[lmvsslv]

She cheated on me twice (probably more) and then attacks me saying I fancy other women. I’m completely loyal to her. I think it’s just about controlling me.

[lmvsslv]

She baits me all the time. And then attacks me. It’s exhausted me completely.

[hoagiegal]

This video was very enlightening. It seems like she has had first hand experience with a narcissist in her life.

[anneyoung]

They will find a way to blame you for the dung they did to you! It's mind-blowingly twisted.
P.S. I will never "feel the way they feel, " so we're good on that one.