How Narcissistic Abuse Secretly Ages Your Body

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chapters
00:00 Intro
01:20 Weathering
03:07 Cognitive health declines
04:37 Where do I start healing the body?
05:45 Summary

[narcabusecoach]

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[MaiDove]

The Lord’s protection sent it back on the abuser. He looks very old now.

[msassy]

Correct. ❤ I agree. Yes. I have aged. No energy. Skin aged. Joints pain. Extremely tired. No matter how long I sleep. Weight problems also.

[lindamarcola]

I had chronic IBS with diarrhea for 18 years! Total water, no solids. Saw many gastr. Thru that time. After he told me he cheated and the fussing began. I blurted out from nowhere-i think I have this because of you! Must have been sub conscious. As I have said before my narc loved me well. I see some things now but didn't then. Never been exposed to such. The thorn in my side with him was he flirted and always wanted to be the center of attention. He told me January 2020-i filed for divorce and we were back and forth for a year. On April 30, 2022 was last time I ever had diarrhea and the pain in my abdomen. I felt God just healed me. Medical field could not explain it. So now I firmly believe that subconsciously my body was reacting to what I was living. Divorce final Nov 2022. Now going through trying to overcome trama bonding. This is the hardest thing I have ever faced in my life. 30 years of my life just gone. It's like cutting out over a quarter century of life, love, memories with no one to share it with. Craziest thing in the world. Now he hates me as much as he use to love me which I know now they are incapable of love. Good pretender. Was good as gold to me. Crazy!

[sanjmalik]

That's so true, I actually looked younger than my age before I married the narc and then years of abuse and all the narc bs I suddenly aged before my time. He looked great. Now since he turned 50 I saw some pictures of him.he looked weathered. The new supply is also a narc so it may be equally toxic both ways.

[mrdavisdance]

After my experience I lost a little over 20 pounds (I'm already skinny that wasn't good for me). My sleep was ruined for months. My hair began thinning. But as I began to move on and heal, my weight came back, my sleeping pattern is getting better, and my hair thickened back up. I looked like I aged ten years and then reverted back to my normal age a year later lol, it gets better folks. I promise

[khadijahoneybadger]

We flu to California to attend his Son’s Navy Graduation. At the hotel, the lights surrounding the mirror in the Bathroom were so bright. I looked in the mirror, I was shocked how much I aged, how many gray hair grew in my head. I didn’t recognize the person I saw in the mirror. My hand started exploring the wrinkles that surged in my fort head and around my eyes. My eyes started tearing. “I have more gray hair than my mom” I told myself. How can all this aging happened in just 2 years. I felt like I haven’t looked at myself in a mirror in 2 years.

[justjen]

I am 5 1/2 months NO CONTACT with the narcissist. I am dealing with a lot of health issues, I am having heart ♥ surgery in 2 days. I am working on just being able to be in the moment. My mind races and I am hypervigilant and still quite jumpy. I am slowly getting better, but I do resemble an old lady. I have been walking everyday and just passed my 13 mile ( last week) mark. I suffer from a traumatic brain injury and it has been slow to achieve this goal. I am happy I am away from the everyday abuse I have endured. I haven't worn makeup in 6 months. I no longer feel the pressure to be perfect. Thank you Danish for explaining these people (demons) I never knew existed. Thank you for your help in my recovery. You are saving lives. God bless you and Ben.

[TheForeverfree]

I was completely exhausted, overweight & now had bad arthritis!!! I could hardly walk I started taking high potency natural B vitamins which my blood test showed I needed. I am eating less but better. I am much better. Thank you!

[heyoldman]

i do feel it took a toll on my well being. lots of wrinkles i did not have three years ago and i feel weaker too . the worse is/ was the cronic depression.. but i am much better after learning all about Narcissistic abuse from you Danish.. you have helped me so much . 🙏🏼. thank you again 😎. ps . well in two months i will be 70 😮 but with all your information and the support of a lifelong friend i truly feel so much better. never give up my friends. we will get through this chapter of our lives and live to see better days ahead 😊

[emmyjoyful]

Once again you "hit the nail on the head". I was moaning to myself just this morning about how my body aches, mostly all over! I feel rusty, seized up, weak, foggy-brained and oh so slow and unmovtivated some days. Until I met and married him at the age of 60, I was strong, energetic and robust. Now, 11 years later (he's been out of the house 14 months now) I feel so very old. My diet is good, I sleep reasonably well, I get fresh air and sunshine but have no energy, Skin is dry, joints ache and so forth. He was a waste of 12 years of my life. I know I can't get them back; I wish for the vitality and grieve its loss.

[budogacha]

I recall having high blood pressure levels, aging rapidly in my earl 20's health rapid decline in my 30's.I attract many narcs, family, church ppl, work .the extended mental spritual battle broke me. I wnt into depression .No joke with evil ie.the moment u erect boundries they cancel you career, sanity, potential....

[ziggy]

OMG - I am only now starting to lose weight after NA. It's taken me 2yrs to get back to get some of spark back....but that is a work in progress LOL - this explains so much as to why the weight was hard to shift for so long am quite proud that I managed to do everything that you have spoken about to get through this nightmare, without knowing what I was truly dealing with. Great video Danesh. Strength to all going through this BS!!! Peace & Love

[sandbachmerrygold]

Thanks Danish. When I left my ex narcissistic husband I took a toll of 20years more.He always taunt me with my aging face which was due to abuse and him taking all my money.

[truthable]

Yes... weathering to a surprising degree! My body has been sucked dry... etc. I am slowly rising... and the issues being faced.
Intention and deliberate practice. Complex trauma... well worth the healing journey.❤

[lennie]

I am now crippled by osteoarthritis. I only work for him, but he controls everything about my life that matters. I wake up in dread and feel on high alert 24/7. Headaches, nausea and trembling fatigue. Seriously I would rather beg on the streets than face this. However I have sons who don't want me to do anything foolish. Making plans, always, to escape. Who knows? It could be very soon.

[happy_me]

Very true..!!I was very healthy nd with very good memory but after this relationship I got ovarian cyst, acne nd memory loss as well.. from extrovert I became an introvert lost my communication skills nd socialising abilities..!!

[luffypupperstien]

Oh my goodness hAir loss tired eyes and skin bags from crying and also Simply to exhausted dealing with them so you don't have the energy to bathe, run away to hide at night so no teeth brushed and the grinding of your teeth! I've lost six colors to grinding then that overall feeling of who cares?! I mean no ones kissing you, taking you out, you can look like scrap while treated like scrap

[Jackiewerkout]

My skin became so dry and aged, no luster whatsoever. I didn’t look like myself at all. I had zero self esteem by the end. 5 months later I feel like I’ve reverse aged, I’m feeling so healthy and confident. They just wring you out like a sponge don’t they?

[CharukesiArunraj]

Yesss I feel pain in my neck and hand!!! And diagnoesed with spondylitis !!! Bones are week at the age of 30 !!! 😢😢 having memory loss during my pms !!!