What To Do When You Find Out Your Ex Is Dating Someone Else

What To Do When You Find Out Your Ex Is Dating Someone Else

Clay Andrews discusses what to do when you find out your ex is dating someone else.

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If your ex is dating someone new and you're not sure how to deal with it, you might feel frustrated and confused about what to do.

In this video, we'll be discussing how to handle your ex dating someone else.

The important thing to remember is that you want to keep your attention away from the rebound, even though you'll have every instinct and urge to focus all your energy and effort on analyzing the rebound.

Instead you want to keep your focus on the most important thing when it comes to saving your relationship.

What is this most important thing?

Let's talk about that in this video.

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[georgieswlrd]

To be honest there’s nothing you can do about it, my advice would be to stay out the way and love yourself

[KH-fvvq]

All I wanna do is let go and move on. I'm tired and I need a rest.

[Mr.Meme]

If your ex is dating someone else, apparently, they don't want you. It's a waste of energy.

[victorrdz]

I just feel so disrespected and lied to. She told me right before we broke up she wasn’t ready for a relationship. Then I find out she’s seeing someone else

[toeknee]

Clay thanks dude. My situation was almost exactly like yours. She told me she needs to think about her feelings for me and her feelings for other guy. Really one of the worst things to hear but, I’m trying my best to be at my best! Wish that everybody in the same situation will find peace!

[carljacobs]

I found the right channel! I like that you don’t push the no contact rule as the end all be all. Not to give excuses to cave into weakness, but no contact can just lead nowhere in some breakup situations. I so agree emotional connection overrides almost everything. With the right very carful approach and energy, sometimes you can contact and improve and rehumanize the connection

[John-eedh]

I found out yesterday and when I saw them i let out a big laugh

[juliagoolia]

My ex came to me after sleeping with me and asked me for advice on how to get HER back. Talk about a mind f***

[couldstrife]

Ex was dating someone new, they broke up two days ago and she’s heart broken, it hurt me that’s she’s feeling this way and she’s been reaching out to tell me about it. I’ve tried being supportive but also told her how she’s feeling now is how I’ve been since she left me

[skincare]

Not possible when you’re married and have children !

[iamthebeast]

Hey Clay, I think my ex is on the rebound. I’ve been following your videos on what to do. Haven’t finished this one yet but I did want your advice on something. Before this possible rebound popped up, I attempted to flirt with my ex and she turned it down pretty quickly. Obviously I’m not doing that again for a good while especially considering I started radio silence. I occasionally respond to her if she texts & reach out if she seems sad, but only because she felt neglected in the relationship & other coaches advised me to not totally freeze her out. But HOW do you even flirt with an ex? How does that work if they’re in a rebound? For reference we broke up almost a month ago and I started no contact a week or two ago. Again I’m not gonna do this for a while, but no other coaches seem to have any videos explaining exactly HOW to go about it, specially with a rebound partner in the picture.

[macsasmr]

My ex is now dating a pilot….I’m HR how exciting

[someguyontheinternet-]

How can I focus on connecting when I'm in no contact, and connecting at all is nonexistent even without the no contact rule?

[kimdurant-rev.]

Clay,
I hope you'll be able to address this perhaps-not-so-unusual problem. My ex-husband says that, even if I were perfect, he wouldn't come back to me because there were too many hurts (on both sides). This shows me that his heart and memories need healing, and that there is deep unforgiveness that he's not even aware of. I had trust issues, and partly for good reasons. I have healed and grown a lot in the 18 months since our divorce. He still loves me and sees me, yet goes from one rebound to another. How can I begin the healing process in him and start the ball rolling concerning him opening his heart to me again?

Kim.

[karimart]

This situations happened to me today, I just found out, amd you just posted a video about it

[macbookbackup]

Hi clay can you do one on the crazy making behavior if they talk to you things seem to go well then they jump on a dating site and chat? I don’t get it but it’s happened a couple times . We are either end of riding the dragon possibly crisis point . The rebound is GONE. Why now after all we went through. I don’t get it, I want to give up. I thought we had cleared a lot of blocks and could slowly build anew . They admitted they still have feelings they didn’t know what to do with just like I do . Did not see this coming as the next step .Thanks

[thomaswilliams]

I just found out that my ex is on the same datingsite as me, and am still on no contact what should I do coach?

[honeybugASMR]

İ literally became a letter which they thought was for me but when i read it i knew it was for someone else. It still hurts so much.. everything he wrote for her..

[Guxna]

My ex is in a rebound relationship and she reacts with emojis and sends them to me one day then another day she will just look. It gets to me being left on seen on ig and sometimes it’s hard to focus bc she said to let things play out but we broke up 1 month ago and she jumped right into another relationship. Idk what to do here. She always looks at my story first and she said the day after we broke up she and the rebound argue alot but that was a month ago and she said to let things play out but sometimes it feels like she’s happy. Idk

[Shadez]

problem is I never got the chance to build the connection. she never let me. she had the walls up