Why Men Are Scared To Approach Women Today

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[lessonzlrnd]

My office is cold. The men just chill and work comfortably together. The women hate each other. It's nuts but expected.

[KayMac]

Even many above average men feel uncomfortable to do this now. Not just an average man problem

[GeoCrusherGaming]

I feel safer around wild animals than women

[toddr]

I'm so glad I'm 45 .. I couldnt imagine being a young 5'7" guy in today's dating scene. F that. I'm saving to get that passport..

[Hearty]

They made it a crime to be socially awkward or even talk to a women if she doesn't like you. And it's not all girls, but there have been enough examples made that it freaks guys out. That's really all it takes sadly. A few rotten apples spoil the barrel

[DeanMartinson-cilk]

I know two guys in my hometown that cold approach hard, to the point where cops been over to there houses to tell them to stay away from a certain female.

[lawlessx]

And women respond with " just do the right thing"...so be attractive or go to jail?😂

[paulallen]

Because women can be the cruelest most heartless people to somebody just trying...

[corpax]

No one is scared. The effort is just not worth the reward

[lucienberl]

I will never approach a women. I used to but no way.

[optimusDrawing]

Me approaching a woman: hi
Me in jail: damnit

[AtomicDenson]

Let’s be honest, even if say a guy is somehow lucky to not get called a creep or anything else. How long before his luck runs out and he’s accused of some BS? At this point men should only be professional around women and not try to flirt, date, cohabitate or marry any western women. Keep all interactions work related and don’t get too “buddy” buddy with them.

[caitsiph]

We aren't scared to approach. We just don't want women pissing and moaning at us on a night out that's supposed to be fun.

[buoydix]

It's why I haven't tried in years. But I also realize, now, that there is no point to trying it until I'm confident in who I am. I've only just begun my self reflection. It started very small a few years ago but I feel it getting stronger and stronger now. Some days it hits me like a train about the things I've done wrong and have taken the steps to prevent that from happening again. It's a slow process. But I'm confident I'll get through it, someday.
Stay strong, lads. Struggling is part of the process to healing

[ivanag]

I’m a good looking and fit man in my late 30s. In my day to day life, the best place for me to approach women is the gym I frequent regularly.

Even though I am clearly in the top 5-10% of the men in the gym in physique and looks, I do NOT approach a woman other than 1) just to ask if she’s using a machine, how many sets she has left or 2) clearly she has made some non-verbal cues (smiling, continuing to glance over with a smile) that tell me she is okay with it.

I have enough things to worry about in my life to end up in some gym creep video or worse, some sexual harassment issue over approaching a woman to make conversation.

[Pete]

I never approach women. Never. It is a golden rule I live by. I do not want a criminal record, be known as creepy, a stalker etc. It’s double standards for women. And they wonder where all the good men have gone lol!

[tricktap]

Women can’t handle rejection but expect men to still play that bullsh*t and on top now you can get accused for just saying “hi” 🤦‍♂️

[superdarklink]

Ive said this before. It's not the rejection itself that gets under my skin. It's the dressing down that comes afterwards. It's completely unnecessary.

[ednaoldebeken]

I'm a woman. I wouldn't approach women either. I know me, I can be cruel and bitchy.

[kristijan]

Online dating doesn't work, cold approach doesn't work... So what works?