Why Men are SCARED of Talking to Women - Approach Anxiety and Ego Deconstructed

Todd delivers the hard truth on WHY you have approach anxiety and HOW you can alleviate it.

📑Outline
00:00 - Intro
00:22 - Understand risk and reward
02:17 - This is why you’re scared
04:40 - Feeling perfect & bulletproof
06:03 - Handle your sh*t
08:15 - Do this with your self-image
9:45 - The truth and reality.

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[ToddVDating]

Ever wonder why you have approach anxiety when your game is intermediate or advanced... or even why it's WORSE than when you were a beginner? Well, here's your answer. P.S. Beginners can learn from this too...

[iunnor]

Confidence isn't walking into a room and thinking you're better than everyone, it's walking in and not having to compare yourself to anyone at all.

[lilrodd]

This video is perfectly targeted to my situation all these years. I was on fire years ago..fell off (relationship new family etc) now I shy away from approaches even with choosing signals because I want to maintain that previous image that has yet to be reaffirmed. But it's all ego and it's truly holding me back. Great video..it speaks to everything I've experienced this far for more than a year..only this channel can dissect a men and women's nature because of his repetitive dissection of social psychology and living in it.. that's why I'm always here! Thanks Bro.

[DrJams]

Guys with Approach Anxiety should approach girls standing next to the bar. This is because you need much less justification to stand close to her and it's much easier to start talking. Plus if she isn't very responsive it's less likely to seem awkward since your main purpose was to order a drink. Approaching some girl at a table or on the dance floor is harder because you are at more risk of her thinking: 'who's this guy?' or 'why is he standing here?'

[hammads]

This is EXACTLY what I needed at this moment. Todd man I appreciate you so much. Ego, it's damn ego.

[BrunoPadilhaOficial]

Todd is one of the most honest coaches out there, and also one of the most experienced. Powerful combo!

[MatthewFurman]

This is an amazing video and the reason why Todd is the best in the business. I have never seen anyone speak about approach anxiety like this. Todd is 100% honest and so on point. Ego gets in my way so often. When I let go, and don't care, I do so much better. Thank you Todd for this video 👌

[mhpivne]

That's some solid to the point stuff right there, Todd! Reminds me why I still follow you after about 5 years since learning about RSD and all the other coaches out there.

[jackics]

Best video on the topic EVER. Just having this realization can change everything. Todd the Goat. Please don't stop bringing us these jems, your hard work is so appreciated.

[richardw]

Your best vid on self- development. Our attachment to our egos and how we look is big, we need to transcend the ego even if we look bad temporarily, etc. The older we get the more we get set in our ways and fear looking bad so being willing to constantly try, improve and not get too attached to a certain image of how we think we should look is key and trusting we have worth either way. It can take time to build that trust/experience.

[cvalerio]

Thank you so much for all the free information you post Todd! This is gold.

[CDeeez]

Gotta say Todd, this is a very good video. You were very open and honest with yourself and what you said about ego and self-esteem was honestly very enlightening and inspiring. Thank you 🙏

[SseriousGgamer]

I love you Todd! It always goes back to play to win, and fuck it if you lose. Raise your self esteem as high as a kite, and fuck our egos.

[vnas]

This is by far one of the best videos Uncle Todd has ever made. Not only can you apply this in approaching and meeting women but you can also apply this in life. Let’s play to win fellas.

[israelortiz]

Todd. this advice has changed not only my game with women… but my game with LIFE!!! Thank you for sharing 🙏💯

[JuanyJuanes]

Excellent video Todd. I am gonna watch this every day till I get rid of my ego issues... I've never heard anyone say a big ego actually gets in the way of building self esteem.. Amazing. Thank you so much dude

[Fernando.Vivanco]

THAT ENDING. Mic drop 🎤 amazing advice Todd, I didn’t think I needed to watch this video and it was one of the best.

[requiemforaflower]

This reached me at exactly the right point. Thank you. Your Content is extremly helpful.

[dieseljagwar]

I started studying game in 2018 after being dumped by my then girl. The FIRST video I watched was from Todd V, and because of his most unique yet most clear way of explaining this subject to you, he'll always be the best dating coach on all of youtube!

[tedpenner]

You did a good job of putting this together Todd. I like many of the points that you have made. The topic of what women are attracted to is what keeps me from spending any time on them. It may be normal that women are looking for guys that meet certain criteria but those are not the type of people that I want in my life. I take issue with that and I tend to see value everywhere.