Should I Marry the previously Married. Divorced or Widowed.

101 thoughts go through our head when we find out someone who is looking to get married was previously married...

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[sirzee]

Subhan Allah, my wife was a widow with 5 kids. Allhumdulilah we have been married 12 years now and have 2 children of our own now and 2 grandchildren.

[TheOrganics]

Divorcees and widows have the softest hearts, sweetest love, greatest patience and if they have ilm, they're great teachers and best home and secret keepers.

[zoyb]

“Religion comes before the culture, always remember that!” This should be memorised!!!

[suzie]

Yes that so true. I was a divorced.. single mother when i met my husband. I didn't know what was Islam.mashallah we have a very good relationship even with his family.. I convert to Islam 13yr ago and Subhanallah. 14 yrs my marriage is still on.. Inshallah will stay together til the deaths
Allahu Akbar

[wysteriaherr]

I am a divorced woman. I think that I learned so much from my first marriage, that I would really like to try being married again. I would very much like to find a man with children, I love children so much, but have none of my own.

[lemonzef]

Honestly, non-Muslims can learn a lot from your teachings.
(I am non-religious but enjoy learning and Mufti's teachings.)

[infinitynetwork]

I love a girl who is divorced at very young age, she faced domestic violence from her ex husband and I love her please pray that Allah Talah accept our pure relationship and make us partners for life so I can fill her life so much happiness that she would have never imagined

[azj]

I have been divorced for 6 1/2 yrs, but I am patient and grateful for what Allah decrees. Allah decrees what is best. Alhamdulilah

[azeemkudla]

Alhumdulillah I married to a widow women 3 year back . And Alhumdulillah this year we are blessed by baby boy with the blessings of Allah so far life is good

[Midi]

first i dont think much about divorced person because almost none on my family got divorced (only one).. now i experienced myself, how divorced woman sometimes being looked down by men..like we are less worth than single woman.. but then i also realized how great Rasulullah S.A.W, he marry widowed to raise honor and dignity of themselves.. more importantly he knows how hard to be single parent to take care kids on their own.. n all he does just to help in the sake of Allah S.W.T.. how glorius Rasulullah S.A.W.. Masya Allah🥺🥺

[happybird]

Some men marry divorcees then tell her after he has married her to get rid of her children because "Islamically" they should be with the Father and then she chooses to divorce. You can't tear a Mother away from her children.

[unknowngirl]

Purity of Nafs is what matters, not virginity.

[__rabiyah.s]

So beautifully explained 😭 I literally cried ❤️

[ziaulla]

Smile on Mufti Menk`s face and shine/glow Masha Allah....May Allah guide us all to the right path

[olivetorrecampo]

SalamAlaykum!
I am in the middle of great confusion in the past days Mufti Menk, for loving a divorced man from a different culture and out of the blue I saw this video, uploaded just one day ago. Every single day of my confusion I am seeking for Allah's swt guidance, may he guide me, bless my heart and mind and pray He would make it easy for me. I was in tears while reading the vlog title. And literally crying while listening to you. Subhanallah! Allah swt has always answer on everything. Thank you so much. May Allah swt bless us always.

[malikshqair]

May Allah protect you from every kind of harm ❤️❤️

[aribmrn]

Assalamualaikum, I love a person who is previously married. But I love her & respect her from the bottom of my heart.
Pray for us, may Allah bless us🥰

[fatiyussif]

I have divorce and have kids. I so so much still believe in marriage 😊, bcos I have a lot inside me as a woman that I wasn't given an opportunity to showcase. So want to share and show in my next marriage Insha Allah 🙏. May Allah grant us goodness.

[pearls]

Thank you for highlighting this important topic brother . Their are so many of us in this situation either divorced or widowed. May Allah make it easy for us all to marry righteous spouses Ameen.

[MrDaluti]

I don't usually comment, but Sheikh this one really touched me, I wish I had seen this lecture a long time ago. I once loved a woman who was divorced. She was a good woman, but because of our "culture" I was very confused about what to do. If it was right or not to marry her. And in the end she left, because of my way of thinking, I wasn't fair to her and it still hurts me today. Don't make the same mistake as me. May Allah make it easier for all of us, beloved brothers and sisters. May Allah swt bless you all, and you Sheikh.
We say Allah knows best and carry on.