Robert Greene - How To Seduce Anyone With Psychology

Seduction is a game of psychology, not beauty, and it is within the grasp of any person to become a master at the game.

A seducer does not turn the power off and on—every social and personal interaction is seen as a potential seduction. There is never a moment to waste.

Seducers are never self-absorbed. Their gaze is directed outward, not inward. Pleasure is a feeling of being taken past our limits, of being overwhelmed—by another person, by an experience.
Finally, seducers are completely amoral in their approach to life.

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🎓 ABOUT ROBERT GREENE:

Robert Greene is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, and The 50th Law. His highly anticipated fifth book, Mastery, examines the lives of great historical figures such as Charles Darwin, Mozart, Paul Graham and Henry Ford and distills the traits and universal ingredients that made them masters.

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[aishamalan]

- KEY---> Get them to talk about their childhood
- Something that excites them take note and come back to it later
- Say something a little bit disturbing or strong to get them to think about you when they get back home...the art of planting seed in someones mind

[simranbansal]

I've been doing this since 2 years and it opens people up faster than you can crack a walnut. Warning: use this superpower wisely because once people talk to you about their childhood and they like it, they're gonna want to do it again and again and suddenly you're the unpaid therapist.
Another tip: a way to mirror people is to ask them what they just said but rephrase it a little. It shows you're listening, and repeating their own words back to them makes them fall in love with you.

[Teamshmo]

Just letting people talk and mirroring them alone works well. Ask them a question and repeat part of their answer. They will be excited you asked and are listening and will like you much more

[infallibl]

It's quite spooky when you've just realised you almost do most of this naturally..

[krimsonkush]

Just be careful. Trying to get someone's interest is one thing, trying to control them is another. Some people pick up on these things and will not tolerate manipulation. You just might push away someone who could have played an important role in your life.

[flippinjimmy]

The person who designed the thumbnail deserves a raise

[DUKEHadToDoItToEm]

This literally just happens naturally when you're someone who hates pointless "small talk"

[mhoop]

Learning how to engage and socialize is a very powerful tool. Being socially advanced is often more powerful than even physical power. When you can psychologically control a situation, you can control any person on the planet.

[theprincelyx]

I read Art of Seduction and practiced it most of my teen age. I turned 24 and was just consumed with work and life outside the University and became susceptible to someone who used one of Greene's technique (isolation) to manipulate me so badly that it derailed my career for a minute. Looking back, I saw how harmless, flirtatious, persuasive, Seduction can be very damaging to the recipient.

It's a tough, vicious, unrelenting cycle.

[crissieroserose]

Peoples favourite subject is themselves ..’getting people to actually listen to you is hard

[rickyrick]

This video perfectly describes how I talk to everyone in my life for the most part and it’s one of the most useful skills you could have because your able to have multiple people trust you and believe in you on a more deep and personal level which you could use to your advantage in a way but the trick to keeping this up is to never doing that person dirty or making them feel bad because thats what causes them to trust you less and it takes a a step backwards in that deep trusting relationship you want to have with them and if you never insult or judge that person they’ll stick and trust you forever knowing that nothing negative will ever come out of you or towards them(i don’t really know if that made sense I’m just ranting and putting my thoughts down but it’s a skill especially people my age lack that is very advantageous in life in general and people will only ever associate you with being a trustworthy genuine person which people are just attracted to in general)

[ROCKNROLLFAN]

This is exactly why I'm getting out of explaining myself to people and telling them all of my personal buisness like I did in the past because it usually resulted in them using what I told them against me and to size me up.

[yourdude]

Just realized I’ve been subconsciously doing this when I was still dating my ex especially when we get into deep wholesome conversations. No wonder we really clicked naturally. And when I try seeing new people it just does not work because I try too hard.


EDIT: I’ve reflected upon what my friends and I usually talk about. I kind of feel a stronger and deeper connection to my college friends whom I’ve just recently met compared to some people I’ve known for a long time but only on a surface level

[erickcr]

I feel like natural seduction, meaning, if there is chemistry and a connection, is one thing. And knowing exactly what to say, how to say it, saying to yourself things like “if they think about me when they get home then I’ve implanted myself in their mind…” sound manipulative and somewhat psychotic. In other words the fact that the seduction is calculated instead of it being organic is weird.

[dr.js]

Stay positive, work hard, make it happen.

[shadowspire]

I have been mirroring people for a long time. I always get along with everyone, people always seem to open up to me, there’s a lot of rivalry where I work and it’s always us vs. them and once you’re in a group you don’t leave. However I always am able to go back and forth and I always am welcomed whereas that’s not the case with the others, there’s always animosity towards them. It’s helped me climb the ranks in our company fairly quickly.

[HalosOpulence]

The only thing that is flawed about this is that person won’t treat you the same. You might end up in a relationship, however, they’ll never know you like you know them. It takes an irrefutable concern to get to know your partner or anyone really.

[maheshnanavare]

00.43 Giving attention, listening to people make them like you.
1.34 Find what exicites them❤🧡
2.00 Having similar in your life or atleast fake it, connects you with them
3.41❤🧡
4.32 Very important to not do any wrong ❤🧡❤❤ 1) Talk less. 2) Don't judge or be harsh on anyone about anything even if they deserve t. Be always gentle with warth & praise on people 3) Listen carefully, attend it.

[anyutka]

I don’t know. I’ve been doing this for as long as I remember and I end up becoming peoples unpaid therapist. It’s actually emotionally draining

[khuziplays]

So in short be curious and communicate, so many words for such a simple idea