7 MISTAKES That Make Others Dislike You Immediately

Have you ever wondered why people seem to dislike you right away? In this video, we’ll uncover the 7 mistakes that make others dislike you immediately. These common behaviors can damage your relationships and friendships, but the good news is that they can be changed.

Understanding these mistakes can help you improve your interactions and make people like you more. By recognizing and breaking these bad habits, you can enhance your self-improvement journey and build stronger, more positive relationships.

#relationship #friendship

Writer: Chloe Avenasa & Kelly Soong
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Animator: Seyoung
Youtube Manager: Cindy Cheong

[DaestrumManitz]

Two major issues, learn to listen and don’t be rude.

[MinutesExplainer]

Here are some more habits:
1. Constantly interrupting others while they speak.
2. Talking only about oneself without showing interest in others.
3. Frequently being late or canceling plans last minute.
4. Not listening when others are speaking.
5. Being overly critical or judgmental.
6. Failing to follow through on promises.
7. Bragging or boasting about personal achievements.
8. Spreading gossip or rumors.
9. Dominating conversations and not letting others participate.
10. Being overly negative or pessimistic.

[botimerLance]

1. Not recognizing how feelings can spread
2. The Spotlight Effect
3. Vulnerability Dropping
4. Unconscious Micro aggressions
5. Thinking people can read your mind
6. Always taking, never giving
7. Giving, but expecting something in return

[nal]

The fact I don't have any of this but still people don't like me and misbehave with me is BRUTUAL-
I just want some appreciation and love from people that's it😭

[Vartulkumar]

I was bullied for being kind in you be kind to everyone then you become a topic of joke everyone teases you for your kindness and often bully you😢

[NightOwleram]

My main problem is 'forgetting', and it always makes me feel guilty that later on I would start reflecting what I did or said few minutes earlier that can potentially hurt or offended someone. Even though my friends would understand that most of the time I can be airheaded and slow and sometimes I'm unknowledgeable most of the normal stuff from my people of my age.

[SP-qkvd]

00:03 Recognize and fix habits that hinder forming connections
01:06 Being mindful of the emotional tone while speaking to others is important
02:06 Being self-centered can lead to others disliking you
03:06 Express vulnerability with empathy
04:04 Microaggressions can make others feel unfairly treated
05:05 Not communicating openly can lead to misunderstanding and arguments.
06:09 Giving without expectation leads to stronger relationships.
07:11 Building genuine connections through trust and generosity

[fakiriayoub]

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[Bitter_Beauty_Music]

I think it's also super important to remember that nobody follows all these social rules perfectly. We're all going to say dumb and insensitive stuff occasionally, but that doesn't mean we are unworthy of love. Your friends will annoy you and you will annoy them, but you can forgive them and vice versa because that's what real friends do. Make sure to apologize and take responsibility when you say something truly hurtful and if people still don't like you, that's their problem.

[JustDilasX]

I once knew someone that kept talking strangely and kept walking like a robot. Not everyone liked him..

[SM-bful]

It really is amazing how you can spread happiness just by looking happy.

[Erakko-]

"My negativity" depends on how you define "negativity."

[TrendSetterAvenue]

*I learned these 5 lessons in life:*
*1. READ THE ROOM BEFORE YOU ACT*
*2. BE YOUR TRUE SELF*
*3. DON’T TAKE THINGS WAY TOO SERIOUSLY*
*4. LIVE IN THE PRESENT*
*5. ALWAYS TELL THE TRUTH, EVEN IF IT CAN BE A HEARTBREAKER*

[AngusNielsen]

Just want to warn people that this channel isn't necessarily correct half the time, always find something else and check your sources. Oh and go ahead, leave negative comments, i don't care. It's a heads up warning, not an argument.

[sonic]

MOST IMPORTANT MISTAKE: DO NOT CALL THEM A SLUR. THAT WILL ALMOST ALWAYS HAVE HORRIBLE CONSEQUENCES.

[ckydn]

I was always scared to speak up about my life, because it might ruin the mood of my friends' conversations

[kenrickbautista]

Wow! I guess some of those signs is one of the main reasons why I'm still friendless and single to this day. Problem is: sometimes, I'm not around people all that much. But I am trying to work on it.

[SurnaturalM]

Taking the time to introduce yourself, not trying to be too close, don't over share, people don't need to know everything about you in the first hour, take the time to listen and reading the room.

It's ok to talk about you, but telling what you like instead of what you dislike will make you more likeable in a group.

Those are my thoughts. In my 49 years of life I've never had troubles making friends. Taking your place is important, just don't take all the place, let others talk.

And it's ok if you're not in the mood to listen to someone who only see the negatives.

Tell them as politely as possible that you're not in the mood for this now. You're not everyone psychiatrist. It's not arrogant to do so. It's called respecting your boundaries.

[cardinalfox]

A lot of these issues come from personality disorders. So if people act like this around you, it is very likley they dont do it on purpose, but just dont realize its negative

[silent_day]

It's interesting, I am reading some comments that are saying they don't do any of these things and they still don't have friends. Sometimes we can have the best of intentions when talking to others, but it might not come across that way. Just remember that people's perception of you is different than how you perceive yourself. Also, if you're still in school and you're struggling to make friends, you'll graduate and find people! Keep an open mind and continue to be social with people that share your interests