10 Things 'Nice Guys' Always Do WRONG

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Do nice guys finish last? Hmmm - tough one. There are many things nice guys always do wrong that they don’t understand. If you want to stop being the nice guy in life and stop having people take advantage of you, you must stop making these mistakes. Enjoy the video!

Sources:
Why Nice Guys and Gals Finish Last

The Dangers of Being Nice

Can You Ever Be Too nice?

5 Ways Being Too Nice Can Hurt You

Thanks to Tristan Reed (writing), Troy W. Hudson (VO), HowlingCreations for helping to create this video!

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“Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you're a good person is like expecting a bull not to attack you because you're a vegetarian.” ― Dennis Wholey.

skinnygumbo

These only work if you have value to someone else. If you don’t have value to another person, these principals won’t matter. You are only as valuable as what you have to offer the person in the moment

Dman

Number 1: Everything. That’s it. List over.

CrimsonCitadel

I am like that person what you telling about, my gf told me to love yourself,
I actually thought what she saying but now I think of my self.
This video really wonderful for me bcz it tells me about my self.
Thanks a lot for this video, I might not understand my self.

gurjantsafetyofficer

I respect ur point of view, but why not trying to keep being nice keep caring about others without expectations!
Just keep being nice and act stupidity in most of the situations sooner or after people will never forget how a great person you are.
Btw i just recognised that am a nice person thanks to ur videos 💙😂

Edited : i also advice to read Dale Carnegie how to win friends and influence people/ i read the arabic version trust me worth every minute life changing book!

alikamal

"They can't stop saying 'sorry' for every little thing". That must mean that Canada is a whole nation of "Nice Guys" XD

ZakkuTakku

Bro this video is the best video I ever saw in YouTube.. . All are true fact.. . I can connect.. .. Thanku

sabisabi

I was a nice guy once, then I changed forever.

alaistarcook

*I don't want to be a part of a world, where being kind is a weakness .
-Keanu Reeves

christiancabalhin

Its crazy how being a good person gets you in bad situations in this world. Smh

Iamsandivo

Being a good person and caring about people makes others take advantage of you for your kindness. What a world we live in smh

danielarruda

01. Reciprocal Investment (0:15)
02. Immediate Forgiveness (1:30)
03. The Paradox of Availability (3:51)
04. Creating Skepticism (5:11)
05. Overflowing Resentment (5:48)
06. Constantly Apologizing (6:43)
07. Shallow Bonds (7:39)
08. Ignoring Yourself (8:19)
09. Rapid Burnout (8:52)
10. Fear of saying "no" (9:54)

vokeios

My whole lifes story in 10 minute 50 seconds 🤫

Lizzzzman

Summary:-
1. Reciprocal investment- They just give.
2. Immediate forgiveness- They forgive always
3. The paradoxical availability- They are always available
4. Creating skepticism- people will think you have some hidden agenda.
5. Overflowing resentment- they become agressive from passive because frustration you get because needs are constantly ignored by other.
6. Constantly apologizing- That makes you look weak.
7. Shallow bonds- they have trouble making deeper connection with people. Tell your thoughts and feeling to your friends that will develop bonds.
8. Ignoring yourself- They don't prioritise themselves. They give away their time to other people. Your need should be your first priority.
9. Rapid burnout- they take all the load of relationship to themselves.
10. Fear of saying no

Like this, if this has helped you. Thank you.

harsh

The price of being nice:
1. Your wife/ girlfriend walks all over you and may cheat on you
2. Your friends take you for granted
3. Your employees lose respect for you
4. Your customers won't pay (on time)
5. You are perceived as weak by your boss so you are overlooked for any promotion.
Your whole life, being inauthentic, is doomed.

salannymhlanga