How To MOVE ON From A NARCISSIST & Get Over The End Of A CRAZYMAKING RELATIONSHIP | Lisa A. Romano

When you end a relationship with a covert narcissist who uses crazymaking communication against you, you may be tempted to secretly want to win the narcissist back. You may secretly want the narcissist to choose you over the new source of narcissistic supply. If this sounds like you, it is time to wake up and know that being chosen by a narcissist is NOT a good thing!

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[libbyrosewellnesschannel]

You have to love yourself like you are your own child, marry the man you want your son to be, marry the woman you want your daughter to be ❤️

[brynnleapierce]

I made a conscious decision in recent weeks to “discard & go no contact with this individual”, now I place my focus on myself & how I can break free of these destructive patterns of co-dependency & not waste one more second of my time on “what he is doing or who he is with”, I do not want that type of person in my life anymore!

[mohammedidrees]

I still care, a lot, about the narc that discarded me. I also realize that it's a combination of my codependency, abandonment trauma, etc all pulling my emotions to those FEELINGS. I'm learning to work through this. It's hard, really hard but I know there's no other thing to do but the inner work to get through it.

[marybernhagen]

You can never be the chosen one because in the mind of the Narc, that position is reserved solely for them.

[clusterbfreekarynsmith]

HAD an IQ of 130 - over three decades ago. Memory loss, confusion, cognitive dissonance, sleep deprived. Before, spiraling down heard you explain the confusion & gaslighting. Binged on you for weeks. Thank God for you!

[TheAshMcG]

There are not any winners in a relationship with a narcissist, only losers by varying degrees. Count your losses and try to get out while you are sane.

[ishtarbabylon]

Feel like I'm going insane! I'm with a vulnerable narc..we have a toddler and I feel like I've aged 10 years..he's never accountable for any of his behaviours

[beckyhancock]

I spent 7 years with a grandiose and then went right into a covert narcissist relationship. 10 years gone but I’m out and have your videos

[jcp]

I'm staying off!!!! I used to think all people were good. Man how my mean ass family have changed me. Estrangement changes a person. If for the bad, I'm sorry. But I will never let myself be abused again in my life, even from estranging children that are under the ex hubbies spell. They are grown and know better. They know I was an excellent mother, as well as the ex step sister in law and ex mother in law. I'm done with this mean ass family. Done.

And you are exactly right, I did want the narcissist to "chose" me but guess what! I learned a great lesson and I'm stronger for it. Thank you for your wonderful insight. I appreciate you!

[yogawithSally]

It was only recently, when I finally met a kind loving man, that I realised that I had been settling for second best for three years with someone who would never be the man I wanted, and never wanted to be in a loving relationship. I had become accustomed to accepting a dysfunctional relationship as 'normal'. Now I can see it for what it was.

[lydial]

Nailed it!!! "The goal is to become the chosen one". I was about to email you and ask you about this, why do I still want him to choose me, even though my mind KNOWS he is no good for me. Or anyone, but ok. :) I mean, the guy is a pathological liar, cheater, bully... you name it! Why on earth am I still attracted to this person? Whenever I think about him and her, the pain is physical. I know it is the abandonment trauma being triggered. What can I do about it? You have been reading my mind, pretty much. Thank you for this video, from the bottom of my heart!

[ecfog]

I didn't even realize my ex was a narc until I stood up to him and he disappeared because he could no longer control me.
Funnily enough, all I was doing was what I felt was best for my son, and it turned out to be exactly what I needed! 😁

[brooke]

I'm in a "relationship" with a Narcissist. My boyfriend uses gaslighting to his advantage. I'm emotionally drained from him intentionally starting arguements, accusing me of taking his things, being passive aggressive towards me and treating me like as an object. When it's convenient for him and if it benefits him that's when he becomes lovie dovie. I have pulled away, ignored his behavior and avoided him but he just gets angry with me. He's only nice when he needs something from me. He always seems to draw me back in . The tug of war games begins with the hot/cold person he is. I can't handle this repeating cycle again. Being BORDERLINE, HAVING ANXIETY AND DEPRESSION is the perfect way to mess with my wellbeing since he can turn my moods off, having control of my emotions, thoughts and self awareness. I don't feel like myself anymore.

[TheRaven]

This is EXACTLY what we needed to hear. Detox from them is so hard

[themarro]

You are so right, I am holding onto the fake promises of life together, how we were going to get married on the beach, decorate the home together, grow old together.. Boy oh Boy did he fool me!
I was chasing the carrot 🥕 and missing the fake life we NEVER had.
This video was so timely! Thank you so much Lisa 🙏🏾❤️💝💓

[godzillamanstreb]

Everybody is WONderful, everybody is totally I’m quarantine hiding and HEALING 💯💯💯now 1 🚩🚩🚩 & they’re gone from my thank you enough Lisa💐

[lisaaromano]

Have you been stuck worrying about who the narcissist might be with you after you?

[phantomwatcher]

If somebody wins a narcissist over the jokes on them they can have that prize any day of the week your life is going to be better don’t ever look back and don’t ever call or answer or get sucked back into that dark abyss

[xXGiggsyyXx]

I feel like I’m under a spell. Or like this relationship or this man is a drug. Knowing it’s bad for me. I’m having withdrawals. I cut him off cold turkey. But hoping he’ll try to reach out. Hoping he’ll say he’s done with juggling me and his baby’s mother. One second I’m so confident. Next second I’m second guessing. On second I know he’s not to be trusted next second I’m like what if he really did love me and was afraid to lose his kids and idk. It’s crazy.

[summerbee]

I LOVE THIS VIDEO! Thank you for helping me to realize that getting away is the prize! Not the abusive bullying narcissist! He will never change!