How To Love A Man And Make Him Feel Special

How To Love A Man And Make Him Feel Special And Build A Healthy Relationship With Him

Ever wondered how to truly love a man?
It's a question that may seem odd at first.
I often hear comments like, "Who cares what men want, feel, or think?"
But think about this: what if understanding men better could make you a better daughter, sister, or wife?
Just like I strive to understand women psychology to strengthen my connections, learning about men can enhance your relationships too.

CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
00:47 How To Love A Man Tips 01
03:56 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
04:25 How To Love A Man Tips 02
05:46 How To Love A Man Tips 03
07:45 Conclusion

Chapter 01
Secure attachment is all about connection and lightness. Instead of an overwhelming grasp or intensity that can feel suffocating, imagine a slow, constant flow of enjoying each other’s presence without letting your ego get involved. Think of it like dancing with a man — focus on the music and the experience, not just his movements. Authentic love allows space and freedom, focusing on the bond you both share rather than what you’re receiving. Authentic love is about loving someone for who they are, honoring flaws, and taking responsibility for your own triggers rather than trying to change or control your partner.

Chapter 2
Many women describe love to me as intense chemistry and attraction, but it's crucial to remember these feelings are yours, not his. Attaching your happiness to a man and feeling miserable when he's not around means you're letting something external control your inner state. Imagine your favorite comedian making you laugh; when he leaves the stage, you don’t feel sad because you know how to find joy on your own. Similarly, in a relationship, love and happiness come from within. Cultivate your joy and bring a happy person into the relationship. When you're chasing a man, you're chasing the feeling he gives you, not the man himself.

Chapter 3
One essential step in building a secure relationship is choosing a secure man. No matter how secure you feel within yourself, an insecure partner can slowly consume you. Look for these key signs in a secure man - honest communication, healthy independence, respectful boundaries, supportive, encouraging behavior, and openness to growth. Secure men express their feelings honestly, maintain fulfilling lives outside the relationship, respect your need for space, cheer on your achievements, and continuously seek self-improvement. By identifying a secure man from the start, you increase your chances of building a loving, fulfilling relationship.

If you want to learn more about secure attachment, I recommend reading the book Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel S.F. Heller. Also, don’t hesitate to leave a comment below if you have any questions.

Ismael Gomez III
I'm a Cuban - American Relationship Coach, Author, and Speaker.

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[asil]

This man is correct about everything. Just binge watched him and as a woman in my 50's, can say he is bang on in everything he says.

[sheis]

How to change an insecure man into secure man😂 cause I don't wanna leave :)

[loveshorses]

Thank you so much, I needed this video because I didn't know the difference between ego love and authentic love.😊❤

[sarahrettell]

Another excellent piece of content! Thank you.
Great points to soak in.
Saving this one for future reminders ☺️
I have a new relationship budding and I want to make sure I go through this in tuned & conscious ~ this was great food for thought!

[EsraaEsraagaber]

Great i really love ur content!💗
Can you talk about relationships and the personalities that match each other and have chemistry and how the person feel that this is the one, idk how to say it properly actually but i hope u get it🙆🏻‍♀️

[RR-kvzj]

I love your suggestions, always right to the point

[loveshorses]

I figured out why I'm holding back on dating. My last 3 relationships were abusive so, I need figure out why I pick abusive men or why I seem to attract that kind of man.

[erkiesl]

Thank you so much ..wat an eye openner

[DrCath]

I loved this video so much. Such insightful and grounded content always. Thank you Ismael!

[shyperson]

Hii i love all ur content it helps alot in my life thankyou so much 😊☺️

[trueloveforever]

Great points to take into consideration and apply . Thank you kindly. 👌🧡

[tracyvalenzuela]

I ❤ your breaking down ego love v. authentic love! I've been married over 30 years and it's spot on.

[gudrunjames]

Thank you for your interesting perspective on men - women. Men will remain an enigma to me.

[faridalangoe]

Thank you so much.
i'm a native frensh speaker and i'm also using your videos to improve my english speaking skills😊

[drianak]

Lovely content and very informative, thank you!!! 😍😍✨✨
Please I would really really REALLY appreciate a video of a full extensive analysis + your personal take on the taxi cab light theory
Discussing the following: “what makes a man commit? Is it all about timing and proximity? Is it about the woman he meets? Is it entirely about him and his inner world/readiness? Is it peer pressure? And why would he waste years upon years in a relationship if he had no intention to marry, to only marry the next girl he meets within 6 months?”
I truly believe a lot of ladies would find clarity in this topic, thank you!! ❤️❤️❤️

[rs]

I always had ego love😢 then, now i understood

[DivyaSingh-mmpk]

Wonderful video ❤😊ismael
Even today's video presentation is great( by sub points) and different.
Thank you for your guidance dear 😊🥰❤️.

[blueskies]

Men and women think and love in SUCH drastically different ways. As I’m watching your channel and another channel by a spiritual father, I am learning that there are so many misunderstandings with men because many of us women think they think the same way we do. Women are about connection, emotional value, showing up and presence. Giving. We think if we do that, it means we will receive love. THATS NOT Completely different creatures than us. It’s wild.

[cherryblossom]

Ok. Unfortunately I have never seen a secure man ever! They are afraid of authentic women who are in their heart… I’m a therapist myself, men avoid healing yet women try to do everything they can to change dynamics and heal relationships. Hope we will all soon see this new species: “secure men”.