What makes a man fall in love?

[greyahmarie]

LEGS CLOSED, EYES OPENED, Standards high!

[haleycamille]

The best way to reach this place as a woman is to find your identity in Christ.

[Dr.Elaine]

“Men respect who and what respects themselves.” TG

[Aisha_babii]

Stay off yo back and let him get to know you

[MrsTruthTeller]

Decenter men. That's how you do it, ladies! Men seem to love me the most when I am booked and busy and barely available. When I'm flirty one day, and gone the next. But don't do this by playing a game. No, do it naturally by making everything else in your life a higher priority than men. The man who wants you for real will earn his way into being your highest priority. And he will earn it through consistency, persistency, reliability, emotional stability, integrity, etc. And you can very slowly make him a higher priority after he shows you that he's willing to do that for you. Men like boundaries, standards, and expectations and you don't always have to say what they are for him to know that they are there. Your actions can tell him everything he needs to know about you and what you will and will not tolerate.

[Bella_M]

Gems: A grown man will fall in love with a woman who is an accountability partner, not a doormat/nagger/enabler. A man will fall in love with a woman who loves herself, knows who she is, has boundaries, has standards, and is firm on what she will do/not do and give/not give.

Women: Be a strong loving woman. You must stand your ground (in love)! Give, love, sacrifice, support, do not reinforce toxic behavior, do not allow yourself to be mistreated or taken for granted, only compromise on things that do no effect your soul/ eternity, & always speak up for your needs. Be consistent! You cannot finesse a real man!

No husband benefits to a boyfriend!!

[Blessseddbb]

Well, I’m praying for the man that God has for me .. days get lonely, but I will not settle ❤

[Rossi.K]

Mannn it’s really rare for a man to appreciate this type of woman in this generation.. You’ll get placed in the “mothering” category even if you are just holding them accountable.. Then they chase after the “fun girls” and appreciate the good woman after they’ve been tossed to the side by them.

Grown men who can appreciate accountable women are very, very rare.

[tiffanyhall]

Nothing makes a man fall in love..but him falling in love..

[elizabethjackson]

You have a lot of men that are good men, you just have to take the time to find them, like my grandma use to say “If you wanna find gold, you don’t go digging in the trash!

[kirawong]

Oral everyday? Shes working overtime😂😂😂 ain’t no way

Tony said a man who needs it everyday and multiple times a day is sick, he needs therapy😂😂

[johannanoguez]

Long story short, do not be unequally yoked.

[queenkeesh]

A man that play games and don’t wanna be held accountable I don’t deal with when I did before it was miserable and I had to leave

[joekie]

Hi, T. Just to add to the conversation. Was almost 25 years married. Divorced because of infidelity. My x was hyper sexual, not even getting older changed it. He was always so proud of himself looking in the mirror, fully "e. ct". I thought it was normal because I was taught, you don't talk out of the bedroom. It took an affair, epileptic seizure to get to the issue. Triggered by the stress obviously. When the neurologist asked me if he was hyper, I was shocked. On his brain scan, he showed me damage areas of his brain. He was in motorcycle accident when he was sixteen, that did the damage to temporal lobes. All made sense and everything fell into place. He then told me, it will never stop and if I'm willing to keep my eye on him 24/7. The trauma and lies up until then, I couldn't. We divorced and we still can be "friends" for children. God helped me overcome it all, by grace and grace alone. Point of this story is, please ask if your guy or woman was in a accident or head injury. It can alter things forever and never ever overlook it!!! 🙏

[alifeofjoy]

"Men respect who and what respects themselves." - Tony G. this part

[nikkyshamz]

In order words, respect yourself. I've seen it with my own eye. Men dont know how to respect what they didn't earn, carry yourself with grace, dignity and self respect. Know youre loved and already chosen by God.

[j-tenn]

I knew from when I was very young that sex wasn’t supposed to be had without time, commitment, compatibility, and love. That wasn’t ingrained in me by anyone, it was almost innate knowledge. How come some adults don’t understand that concept?

[MomTheEbayer]

This message is so true. No… I’m not a man, but I’m so blessed to be married to a grown man!!! Everything that this guy described as a real man, my husband possess. I tell him every day that I’m so grateful to God for putting such a wonderful human being in my life!!

[lindae]

So many of our young women need to hear this talk.

[cuniqueness]

Fall in love with self & everything will be added🙏🏽