She Says She Has A Boyfriend, What Does She Really Mean?

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Here's the scenario: You're at the bar, and you think you just caught that cute blonde checking you out. You make your way over to her and introduce yourself and everything's going well, until she drops the bomb -- "I have a boyfriend." It's a classic line, and you might interpret it in many different ways, but which way is the right way?

First things first, it's time to forget about this girl. She might have different reasons to tell you she's not single, but none of them mean you're getting lucky. This isn't a test to see how hard she wants you to work to get her, it just means she's not interested in a romantic encounter.

She's either trying to subtly tell you to get on your way, or indicating that she's just looking for a friend. If that's OK with you, patience might pay off. If you stay polite and confident, she just might want to introduce you to one of her single friends. Otherwise, be nice, wish her a nice evening, and be on your way.

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If you're a self respecting man then you know you shouldn't waste your time when women say this.

NITESHADOWshouske
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Women or girls who have boyfriends need to stop having that flirtatious feeling for dudes who don't have girlfriends. It totally gives off the wrong vibe

DomsBlading
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If a woman says she has a boyfriend, end it right there and move on. As a man, why would I want to waste time on a woman who makes it clear she is attached. If she is lying, then she is not interested and therefore not worth my time. If she is honest, then points for being honest but again since I wanted to get to know her on a romantic level, why stick around just to be friend zoned. Not good for my self-esteem and pointless since it does nothing but to feed her own ego.

Gauntlet
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*This just happened to me today in class and I am not very happy about this.*
*But you know what? I didn't react. I didn't even ask her out or do anything obvious to show I like her. She just brought it up randomly in conversation. I am not sticking around to be treated as the "gay friend" because I am a high valued man, I am assertive, kind, sweet/caring, helpful, unapologetic, and bold. I am not insecure, nor a pushover.*

kinglouenleoncoeurofbreton
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The advice is not really helping, , ,  so according to the video, when a girl says that she has a boy friend, she ... ... 
1. Has a boy friend.
2. Does not have a boy friend
3. Just wants to be friends
4. She wants me to stay away.
I think these covers everything that can possibly happen..

RyanKim
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I never waste time, money, or energy - I let them know right off the bat, I am lazy, only slightly interested if she's truly single, and independent BUT I like to have fun, travel, and try new places around the world.

sharkwhisperer
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This is a tuff one. I can tell you right now that the lady on this video is about 100% totally wrong. This is just her perspective. She doesn't speak for all women, I promise you. A girl telling a guy that she has a boyfriend could mean anything. I'll say this and this comes from personal experience. If she wants you, she will either never mention her boyfriend or she will "hardly" ever mention him, maybe once or twice just to see your response or reaction to it. Women will do this to test you to see if your as attracted to them as they are to you even if she has a boyfriend. It also could mean she's rationalizing. This means she has a boyfriend but still wants to sleep with you. However, after you've slept with her, she will have a reason to put the blame on you if she was to get caught. I had sex on the job with a ex co worker who told me she had a boyfriend. She only mentioned him 1 time in a conversation we had and then I never heard about the guy again after that. So, women in the video, explain my situation then? was she a hoe or what?

peacefulyou
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explained this to me I walked up to a girl and asked direction and she said "I have a boyfriend." And walked away shit fucked me up the entire day

jaypenn
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I was planning on asking this girl out and I have been told by her friends she is into me and I remembered her saying she had a boyfriend in response to some joke another dude made while laughing and didn't seem too serious. So when I asked her first question I asked was if she had a boyfriend. She said yeah with a delay and a quiet tone. Psychological knowledge helps me know that's not true but she still goes the extra mile to be around me and interact with me and showing obvious signs of interest. The 2 answers in this video aren't always true. Sometimes it's on the spot and they don't know where things are going. So they play it safe.

Trllz
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or she doesnt have a boyfriend and she was just really shy and put on the spot when you asked her, in reality she likes you.

stektirade
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I agree, I never take it personally, I just move on, with a smile.

steventheartist
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Woman are so effing complicated. You work up that courage to finally talk and ask for that number only for them to mention having a BF but at the same time they were willing and seemed genuine enough to take down your number and to possibly be friends. My intentions were to obviously start off as friends with this person but out of the blue they mentioned "Just letting you know that I'm not single" Umm okay so what's wrong with becoming friends?

Cringey_Swine
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Depends on situation and whole context. There are different kinds of "i have a bf" . My favourite: Talking to a girl i've just met, new coworker or something like that. Not interested in any way. Not even in the slightest. Close to zero or even below it. Just casual convo about some ordinary stuff. Somehow she manages to mention her bf after just few words, completely out of the blue. "oh my bf this or that", "me and my bf something". Explanation of this particular case: It's deep in their mind, and in their nature: The need for self-validation. They do this to show off and to convince themselves (and others) they're not some ugly, undesirable jokes of a women. And that's it. Nothing more to it. It's deep rooted in subconscious level..

kubawarzecha
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What if she walks up and flirts with you all the time and never tells you that she has a boyfriend but you know she does cause you over heard her friends talking about him ? Im confuzzled

chimkinNuggz
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After you expressed interest in someone, and they tell you that they're not available, asking them to introduce you to one of their friends shows that you're willing to date just about anyone. You're willing to get set up by someone you just met. Not exactly a very attractive quality. On the other hand, this is your opportunity to be really picky and ask her if she has any friends who have attractive qualities X Y Z like she does -- which is simultaneously a compliment and also shows you have standards. Who wants to introduce their friends to a guy they just met just because they are female and single? Come up with a reason together why it would be a good introduction. If you're going to stick around, have her show you her friends e.g. on facebook and discuss if you have common interests.

gregorymagarshak
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"What's yo man got to do with me?" I got a man 

LLMelvinL
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The best thing to do is to walk away. You do not need the drama or games. "You cannot expect to play with fire in between your legs, and not get burned."

jaythizzle
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This was the best answer to my query after searching online.

Unknownfromkashmir
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no one thinks that. When a woman says she has a boyfriend I respect that.

pansophon
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"Hopefully this device helps you the next time when you're out so thats you dont waste time, money or energy."

Actually this is the best tip you can give to us, because this is the way we see things.

dorfo