8 SIGNS YOU HAVE CONTROLLING ISSUES + HELPFUL TIPS

Today, we are talking about control! We all like to be in control sometimes. However, some of depend on it. Some of us have to control every situation. In this video, I talk about 8 signs that you may struggle with being a control freak or have control issues. I did not leave you hanging, I also gave you guys some tips for working on your controlling behaviors!

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[chazitybontempo]

I think it’s a misconception that “control freaks” think they do things better than everyone, or that they are never wrong, narcissists, etc. when I’m reality it’s like we KNOW we don’t do things better than everyone, we just want it done OUR way so that we know what to expect. I believe controlling people at one point were the most laid back, until something happened to us that made us realize that we do need to be aware and in control of situations so we don’t get hurt.

[hollyehr]

Man I'm realizing right now that my anxiety is fueled by control issues

[gracebazar]

i became a control freak out of nowhere. i used to be just okay with everything but now everything sets me off. trying to get better. thank you for the video & tips💗

[pamcarper]

I thought I just had anxiety but now I see... I'm a control freak too. I only realized of years of someone telling me, but only acknowledged it recently.. How do we fix this?? The control makes me feel like my head is going to EXPLODE if I don't fix it.

[SaintTrinianz]

Help me understand THIS dynamic; a person accuses you of being controlling yet blames you for their problems...

[MarkWadeWilliamson]

Holy shit I’m a major control freak and I’m realizing it’s caused so many issues with my relationships in my love life and work

[jfm]

I'm a 100% match!!! This current situation i have felt so heavy until I watched your video. It was truth served on a funny platter... something that I realized was very palatable for me when served this way. Needed your vibes! Thank you, I feel like I can take the steps I need to take to feel and do better

[biankareynolds]

This is me on a couple levels. Working progress for sure! Thanks Rashawnda

[AyoMink]

Described me to a T. I’m trying to work on myself so I don’t loose my partner. I can definitely say my controlling issues came from childhood trauma with my mom. If it wasn’t right in her eyes I wasn’t good enough so I always tried to fix myself so I can be what she wanted if I didn’t she would ignore me, belittle me and call me names. I’m really trying to change and this helped a lot. I’ll be watching your second video.

[KatiTheButcher]

#3, yep thats me. I expect everyone I work with to perform at my level at a minimum. I've tried my best to help but I rarely see results. Thats a huge reason I've been an alcoholic for the last 10 years. No amount of therapy has helped, I've spent so much time just waiting for death. Now it is time to create something worth living for. Good luck to everyone with similar struggles.

[Cok]

I recognize that I am too controlling, because it recently starting to affect my friendship with a male friend.

[paulastella]

My way is the right way that’s why I live alone

[lashon]

Lord you are talking to me🥺 I was lead to this video trying to deal with my control issues 😢

[tinagonzalez_williams_lenz]

Do you think people who are like this are this way because they have been hurt so much in their life that they feel the need to control everything so that they don't, or are less likely to get hurt? I thought about that when you said something about processing emotions? Maybe they try to control everything so they don't have to deal with any uncomfortable emotions that might happen.

[healthgurl_taca]

My mouth was open wide the whole video..I am no longer in denial.

[daydream]

I have anxiety issues, and codependency issues, and also control issues 😅. My control stems from several fears:

1. If I don’t do it it won’t be done right and I’ll get in trouble and punished for it (which has happened)

2. I am terrified of getting used to help because I am afraid of being abandoned so I want to be as “independent” as possible.

3. Also it hurts my pride accepting any kind of help because I am used to doing everything myself. So help to me is like I just lost the game.

So I take on too many tasks and I push people away that want to help me. It’s like I am addicted to it at this point and it’s an impulse . My best friend and I just had a chat because I had a bad anxiety attack at work stemming from these core issues.

She told me people want to help me but they think I don’t need them and I push everyone away. And she said I have to learn to work as a team instead of the mindset that everything and everybody rests in my shoulders. Because she hates seeing my mental health take a nose dive.

I am now slowly working on this issue as well as the other two mentioned. I have come a long way but I know I have a ways to go to.

[TheLaaauuureeen]

I was this many years old (29) when I learned I am a control freak..

[RuthDoingVoices]

I love your energy. Yep, this is me... Oh, no. Thanks for this video!!!

[TOBEYTOO]

I am 64. I recently walked out on a new job I had started. There were some issues with the training but instead of bringing it to someone I just made plans not to return the next day. That first day away felt good then I realized I did wrong by up and quitting. Only shot myself in the foot. I partially did not go talk with any supervisors because I was afraid they would talk me into staying and I guess I had already determined I wasn't going to. Thus keeping things in my control I'm guessing. I need to look into this further. This didn't happen at my last job of 7 years but it's not the first job throughout my years of working where I up and quit. I have to move on from here and forgive myself but I most definitely need to speak with someone professionally as well. David

[Chalantlife]

I only relate to one or two of these, but thank god I'm self-aware enough to know that yes I am in fact a control freak. I'm working on it actually, and I think I'm kinda getting better (hopefully?) I think the whole root of the problem with me is that I kinda have that fear that if I don't do this or that, then nobody will, and if I don't make sure everything goes according to planned, then I'll be the one to take the blame. Part of me believes that my strict control freak behaviour actually saved me from a lot of situations, but the other part (the major part) knows and truly believes that it's not right to be this way. I really hope I can overcome this problem one day because it's already screwing me up.