How A Guy Knows You're The One

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Get Him To Commit Before Sleeping Together (The Dating Vow)

Have you ever heard the saying: Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of commitment?

The "Dating VOW" Before Sleeping Together

I ___________________ agree to explore the process of getting to know you with the intent to declare something serious in the next 3 to 6 months.

I ___________________ agree to be monogamous sexually while we have regular sex together.

I ___________________ agree to not actively seek to meet/date others while we are in this dating process (including taking down dating profiles)

I ___________________ agree to speak up if this isn't working for me vs. pulling back, ghosting, or disappearing.

I ___________________ agree to invest regular time in this process of getting to know you, which looks like this _______________

90% of men will bail on this because thousands of women will have sex without any commitment/agreement whatsoever. If all women are banned together (from now on), this will change how men treat/view sex, but in the meantime, if he does agree, you have a better chance of commitment than without it. (btw, this is merely an opinion)

[n.v.]

Oh yes Jonathan love is so much better when you have done the inner work and love yourself. I’m 52 divorced 14 yrs. and have done the inner work and with the help of a therapist learned to love myself. Life is amazing! 🥰💃🏻🙏🏼⭐️✨

[annieoakley]

Our was a love at first sight..he asked me to move in one week after meeting…we are so in love with each other. I am 63 years old and was ready to give up on love but I’m so happy I gave it one more try. I have never been so happy!

[ohdear]

I love the feeling of being safe in the relationship in which you can genuinely be your authentic self. I've been in "walking on eggshells" relationship so, too. I'm in a new relationship now in which we both are. It's so important. I'm hopeful for the future.

[annabellacrewe]

Found him, again, but long talk about everything, share the same interests, have this important "same line", humor and s.o....We have 2 situations; he has to realise a downsizing of his business(work way to much) and I am looking for a new place to live for severaæ reasons, but one is to be in the vicinty, so we can meet on a regular basis...None of us wish to live together...., but the main thing is to be very conscious about talking things over and sharing whatever we can by the help of internet....Moreover, to be accepting each others freedom to love and do what we like is cruzial to any relationship ! Thank you, Jonathan, also for having done spiritual work, it has helped me a lot in order to be conscious and patient !❤😊 20:15

[shanncarr]

1:11 pm eastern time. We learn from past mistakes. And the positive to being in 40’s and 50’s is maturity. Most of the time anyway. It’s draining to be with someone that you cannot be yourself with. And I don’t have the energy to waste for that anymore. You are so real and so honest with your own feelings.
And it’s so easy to see.
I feel grateful for finding you on u tube. Bc I am not a fan of social media in general.
You enlighten and encourage me to be a better version of who we ought to be- ourselves.. no matter who sees.

[claudiapurcell]

You're so genuine and you're so right, Jonathan!
Thank you for taking care of so many hurt women ☺️
God 🙏 you and your loved One! 🙏

[sylviareisman]

Re: Common Interests.
If people are basing their long term relationship potential solely on common interests, no wonder the divorce rate is so high.
I agree that you need to have some common interests, but the bottom line is that you MUST SHARE MUTUAL VALUES.
Otherwise, your "relationship" is headed for failure.
I challenge you to focus on an episode discussing how people with a chronic illness can find their soulmate.
Everyone focuses on having fun, but eventually someone is going to get sick.
What then? Will you love and support your better half...or leave to find another fun adventure?
Food for thought?

[amandahatcher]

Thank you for your videos. I am 55, been married twice and recently ended a casual situationship that I mistakenly treated as a relationship. Hard lesson to learn they didn’t feel the same way. I feel better equipped now to find a healthy relationship and will be talking first about if we are looking for the same kind of connection. I am grateful for that information that I learned here from you. Thank you.

[bonnerust]

Be yourself, yes. We are basically just potted plants with complex emotions:-). Thanks Jonathan. You are an inspiration.

[cynthiajalcott]

Yes. So helpful. Give yourself 2 bear hugs!

[emp]

I did experience love at first sight. It wasn't based on lust, just intuition and observation. Sure enough they were exactly what I'd thought. We were star-crossed, but we were best of friends for many years :) But it is rare for sure. The other two I loved/love grew over time as I got to know them.

[emp]

Hearing about your relationship gives me hope it could work :) But yes there must be progression or it's nothing at all!

[margaretcampbell]

I had an experience that was a type of affinity something that about the self. It is so important to be your real self with this person. The man I really feel strongly towards knows my background and doesn’t retreat from it. He accepts me. I never feel embarrassed about my metabolic disorder (weight issues) with this man but with other men I do.

[kimgordon]

The compatibility factors are what creates the spark! Great segment Jonathon. Happy Sunday to You 2

[thesocaltrojan]

Can you do more videos on long distance relationships? How should you communicate until you get to see each other and how often do you need to travel to make it work. Thanks!

[catherineedge]

Know that I am the one... Stand in my own sovereignty... Wow, thank you for such words of wisdom ❤️

[glamazn]

OK I've fallen in love with myself, but what if the feelings are not reciprocal?😂😂

[lindacoleman]

Great content. Jonathon I am so happy for you and your new Prime Mate!! You give us ladies hope and assurance that having a genuine relationship is still possible. It is raining good men! Really enjoy your content and especially this one as well’ Best and blessings to you and your Honey🙏🏾

[lindamartinez]

Thank you… I knew… it went from one extreme to another… every 2-3 months, it changed from one level to another… He was emotionally sharing mid way, after going downhill… he wanted to restore and restart… then drop!
Business go in the way… really really…work…he worked on my house 🤦🏻‍♀️ His business partner made a mess… he didn’t stand up for me…we don’t spend enough time together, we are long distance but met each other fully masked…connected with each other at a completely covered and masked in a blizzard…weird

[lindahastings]

I have had love at first sight after 10 years of not connecting with anyone . But he is a broken man, no money after being married 26 years . No vehicle, no career, 61 years old . I am 72, I lived with him for a year and a half, but now I just want to see him every 3 days ? What happened ? I’m exhausted there is much more … speeding tickets, a felony . Before me . …I still love him, where did I go wrong? I guess I was lonely ?