What’s it like Dating a Korean guy?

[치코리타-qy]

As a Korean guy who has been dumped several times for sending message rarely, this video means a lot to me 😅

[jalfredprufrock]

4 words: anxious avoidant relationship cycle

[PeriwinkleB]

All the guys I’ve spoken to were like that. It’s kind of creepy though, no one else does it but them. There’s people in the comments saying they want that but they don’t understand it’s a pro and con to clinging. Some people are OBSESSIVE-clingy….which is scary sometimes. I even once had a guy stalk me and even take pics of me when I was at work. I had no clue about any of it but then he started threatening to lock me up so I couldn’t go anywhere and escape him, that he was the only person for me. He said I wasn’t allowed to do anything unless I get his permission. You guys don’t want clingy, you want someone that’s passionate about you, not obsessed. Be careful what you wish for because you can’t take it back.

[minseokshin]

I’m a Korean who was raised and born in Korea, but I can’t agree more with her. This is the problem of dating Korean men and women. I have been living in Britain since I was 16, and there has been no Korean lady who agreed to date me because I wouldn’t text them back immediately.

For girls who are looking for dating a Korean man, if you find a man who is less clingy, that is a major win and he will fall into you for giving him freedom. So… yes I am fairly happy dating women who were not Koreans, and I still want to thank all my girlfriends in the past for being such nice ladies.

[brendsmejiarivera]

That's horrible.
I had a boyfriend like that he is not Korean, but it's really frustrating this kind of thing. Then they show you who they really are, they're toxic and that's not okay.
That's why I broke up with him.

You're not a thing that belongs to a person.
You're a person who has your own life and many things to do.


So. Don't accept some like this.

[taeriterry]

I used to be like that. But then I learnt that she has her own life. So, instead of bomering her, I choose to take that time to improve myself =)

[shinjid]

Im the opposite of clingy 😂😂😂 Im just too lazy to respond or im too busy at work or at home.😂😂😂

[random_asian_girl]

i love her confidence because she’s doing great job and not losing her hope and ofc her smile too 💜

[Burn]

I’d never want a person that is TOO clingy. That is a red flag for me.

[ellechua]

My friend recently just ended her relationship with this Korean guy. At first he was okay, a bit clingy but not too much, she thought he's sweet. Then he found out that she's a kpop fan then said wanna make Korean babies (which I find really weird) she just taught he was joking but no they did all the nasty lmao, she even got a pregnancy scare (thank God she got her period after 2 week, she was panicking lol)
But the the guy became too obsessive and keeps on saying she can't look at other guys, and he's stalking all of her sns accounts. Then one time she was at the gym, then she felt someone was following her, then she got a glimpse of him, it was a Korean guy somewhat similar to her bf, and she swore it was an Asian guy, and there's not really many asian people living in her town, then she texted him but he said she was at home and even send a pic (I'm sure he's lying) but the main reason why she broke up with him, is him being too controlling and obsessive and an over all a jerk.

[bakageyama]

No wonder ML’s in manhwas are so toxic (cuz they are written by Korean people living in Korea and it’s probably the norm there)
Some of Y’all be fawning over any man who is obsessive
There’s a clear line between obsessive and passionate

[Moodzquito]

I have dated 3 Koreans and had Korean love interests. It’s not worth it. They will taint and crush your view on love if you don’t set proper boundaries and see the red flags at the beginning. They know how to sell dreams perfectly. You will see their true nature when having an argument with them. Don’t say I didn’t warn ya :)

[CherryNovaGaming]

Y'all there's cute clingy and the obsessive stalking clingy

[Lalisa.]

She said clingy and I immediately thought of myself we’d get along fine 😭

[yesyes]

It’s a cultural thing. Korean society in general is very fast paced and very busy. So most of the time couples have hard time trying to find a time where they can hangout or have some meaningful time together. So a lot of the times whenever they have free time or time at all to contact each other, they tend to focus on their lovers. Also texting frequently is kind of a norm in Korea as well so if the reply takes some time they do tend to get anxious.

But again, let’a not try and make it seem like every Korean is the same, obviously everyone is different, but culture definitely has an impact on their behavior

[dungeonmasters]

This girl has been on my fyp multiple times now, and damn she is so pretty, and she seems so nice I- 🙏🏻

[Shania.Mc]

Honestly so true. 😂 they start questioning your loyalty and if your long distance then you have to be ready to change your daily pattern to message them more.

Usually great guys 😅

[sharonrubaszewski]

I can't go clingy. It would drive me nuts. I like my own time to do what I want and not with them. I'm very independent and like it.

[mooomoo]

it’s a matter of preference, personally i’d love someone who is clingy. i draw the line if their clingy-ness turns into anger or aggression (which happens a lot)

[MoDaKoi]

Dated a Korean guy for 5 years. This is all true except the texting part from my experience. He didn't respond that quickly but he would bombard me with 'what are you doing?' texts if I took a few hours to respond. But when we were together he was super clingy which made me a bit uncomfortable at first since this isn't something I usually did with previous partners.