Can A Type 2 or Type 4 Be Extroverted? | Carol Tuttle

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We each move through the world in a unique way that's expressed through one of 4 Energy Types. Your Energy Type is the underlying deep movement that is in your being and comes out through your personality. It shows up in your behavior tendencies, in your thoughts and feelings, and in the characteristics and tendencies on how you approach the world.

Type 2s have an emotional connection to the world and take a little longer to process their thoughts and feelings before expressing themselves or responding. This often results in a pause in their conversations which is the expression of their introvert, inward, subdued energy. Their Energy can be described as:

* Soft, subtle, relaxed, and calm
* Flows downward
* Subtle quality in expression
* Ability to calm things down

Type 4s have an intellectual connection to the world. There is a thinking process they go through in most situations and conversations. They like to see the big picture and line up their thoughts. Their Energy can be described as:

* Linear movement
* Bold and striking
* Precise, structured, high contrast
* Their own authority

While Type 2s and Type 4s typically express an inward moving energy, they both have the ability to express outward moving energy often described as being extroverted. This usually happens when they have chosen to play a role that requires this type of outward connection to others. Type 2s make that connection emotionally whereas Type 4s make the connection intellectually.

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This is part 2 of a 2-part series. Make sure you've watched the first video before watching this as I provide background info on what an introvert and extrovert mean in the world of Energy Profiling.

CarolTuttleVideos
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I would just add, as a 2/4, that I can be very outgoing when I'm feeling comfortable. Discomfort of any sort, can really make me shut down and keep to myself

chanibanny
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i’m a type 4 and i totally relate to the aspect of deciding when to be social. i was surprised to find out that i am type 4 because i have been told i’m pretty outgoing and friendly, but it’s a very intellectual process for me. if i decide that the people around me are people i want to take time to talk to and connect with intellectually, i will decide to be more outgoing in that moment. if i am in a room, i take my pause to scan the room and, if i decide that i don’t like the people enough to want to take the energy to talk to them, i just won’t and i’ll stay inward. i feel like that sounds mean, but i’m just very selectively social! as a child, i always preferred talking to adults because the conversations would be more mature.

saraknox
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I'm a Type 2 and work in a job that requires me to be a bit more extroverted at time so I really relate to turning it on and off. It's been difficult during the pandemic to adjust to having to be "on" a bit more, I've noticed my energy level and my health have suffered at times. I'm making changes now to honor the "flow" I need so I can live a healthy, connected, and joy filled life.

mbbee
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That helps me recognise how in many situations I am an extrovert, but don’t like unplanned in the spot light surprises. Thank you Carol. X

angelauren
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Every time I go back a review these videos I get more and more clarity. Just amazing how your ability to teach and reveal never wanes.

laurenlosson
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Some of my experiences go right along with this.

In theater, when wearing a costume, or if I was choosing to sing/play the piano for a performance, then I was ok with all eyes on me. I was prepared. I hate the compliments after and if it was unexpected calling up to the front to receive a reward, that was very uncomfortable. When I was teaching the little 18 mo to 3-year-olds at church, they sang happy birthday to me. I was uncomfortable and there were only 2 adults and a group of little kids, so logically it was weird, but it was my truth.

I can talk to people at the store but I think it is because I expect that because of how my mom was. A huge difference between us was I am hyper-aware of the other person's energy. I don't talk to the people I can tell will be uncomfortable or irritated, although sometimes I'll talk to a type 2 because I recognized them to desire connection but with reservedness. My mom, she'd talk to anyone even the people that didn't want to be talked to. I sometimes would get so embarrassed.

If I am going to a family reunion or party, I know I will be more social because I plan it and prepare myself, although I am still super reserved when I don't know the people. When my neighbor said, "Hey, do you want to hang out, " when we had never met just chatted over zoom church, I was in a panic. She, in a t1 way, didn't plan and I panicked at the last-minute idea. I needed more than an hour to prepare for hanging out with a stranger.

When I am in a group that I know well, I can appear to be outgoing. I am not outgoing, as I don't lead OUT but I am quite social when I am comfortable. I, 2/1 can actually last longer than my 1/2 daughter at a social event. Our sensitivity to energy is different and she gets peopled out faster than me, although we are both empaths. She's more tangible in her sensing of energy and I hear and just know more than feel tangible energy. It's interesting to see our differences and similarities and how we lead with different energies.

Sorry for the book comment. When I am questioning my type, I pay attention to my long comments and chuckle.

SoulShineLiveMichele
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Yes! Describes my type 2 personality perfectly! We like to camp and my husband will chat up the whole campground. He will come back to our camper and tell me so and so was in the service. So and so 5 campers over is from Florida…. I love to walk, so as I walk around I will give a friendly nod and say hello, but I keep moving. I don’t need to become BFF’s with everyone. But, hubby is doing his thing, I do mine and we are both happy campers!

joettasmith
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I have found that this is true. People think of me (as a 2/1) as outgoing and I enjoy engaging people when I am with them alone and in a group. However, I do feel best with reflection and alone time. I don't require activity with people to be happy. Thank you!

hollyeggert
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The pausing... this explains sooo My husband has done this for the last 30 years and as a T4 I would just start talking and be told "I am not done yet."
Thank you for this!!!
(I am a T4... I have believed that my hubby is a 2/4 or 4/2 combo... I wish he was interested in LYT)

danireeves
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Hahah as a T4/2: I love wearing my mask and even though it’s not required anymore, I think it was the perfect idea that I plan on doing more, especially since it’s more acceptable and I don’t stand out as much.

nenah-startingfromscratch
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Latest revelation from this post: You mentioned how different types reacted to the necessity of masking during COVID. While my T$ secondary totally accepted the logic and necessity of this requirement, I was more worried that people couldn't see me smile at them! Sounds pretty T2 to me! :-)

laurenlosson
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Carol, I’m still unsure of my type. I don’t love talking to new people, but just a few minutes ago, in a hotel elevator, I told someone I heard it would thunderstorm in an hour because I knew she was going out. I feel the need to help, but not chitchat 😎

justme.....
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Thanks so much Carol! This makes so much sense - I can speak publicly quite comfortably when I’m prepared xx

virginiapeacock
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I’m a type 4 with a secondary type one. I think having a secondary type 1 one has given me the ability to enjoy being around people, when necessary, where I am known to laugh a lot and have fun. My preference is to either hang out with my husband or go hiking with a good friend and our dogs.
The previous video helps explain my husband and son-in-law who are both type 3, but both prefer limited social experiences.
I love your work! I no longer judge people harshly, but rather love them for living their truth! I also know how to honor other people instantly thanks to facial profiling.

jenniferhuefner
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Now I know why my type 4 son lets me walk ahead of him in public- I'm the type one talker and he sits back and lets me handle the chit chat... He only speaks up if he feels he has something worthwhile to contribute. I have a lot of type Fours in my life and he's my favorite 🤓❤️ What would we do without that strong type four energy? So thankful for each and every type, they all make life so interesting.

cbholmes
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I can relate to these comments although I am not sure my type (I suspect I am Type 2). This Pandemic showed me that I really do not mind being at home and not having contact with many people. I get nervous now when someone knocks on the door and I have to answer it. Reflecting, I can see that there have been times that my job required me to "turn on" being social (public speaking and meeting a variety of people) although I relate to being outgoing with people I am comfortable with. My wedding several years ago showed me that I hate being the center of attention and at the job I do not look forward to my birthday because more gregarious colleagues take it as an opportunity to celebrate something.

elizaflorendo
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Yep! That’s what happens to me in conversations. I am certain that I am a type 2. But I’m very new to DYT. 💐🙏🏼

sillybeeful
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I can relate as a type four not liking the be the center of attention. I remember playing a piano solo for a crowd and being the center of attention I messed up and embarrassed myself so much. I now understand why I hugely dislike being the center of attention.

dahlia
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I am a type 2 with a secondary 1, which can help me to be quite adaptable to new circumstances, and if I feel enough comfortable with the environment it might even look like I'm funny and outgoing. Although, internally, i know it is all a matter of preparation. I don't plan or prepare what I'm going to say in advance, but I like to have an idea of what's the context, what is expected and just set my mind to it.