He Doesn't Prioritize You - The Only Way He’ll Ever Change | Relationship Advice by Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs shares relationship advice for women and what to do when he doesn't prioritize you.

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In this week’s video you’ll learn 4 practices to get your man to step up and put you first... or to step OUT, so you can find another man who IS worthy of your time.

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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.

As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!

Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups.

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Written By: Mathew Boggs

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[pychow]

I rejected his breadcrumbs, spoke my standards, and when he went all combative and steamrolled me after I spoke up, I chose to hold my peace, walk away and let him go. Best decision I made.

[marianmade]

All women in the world should watch this video. I ve been there and I spoke. He obviously did't change so on one of my free days in which he chose another plan to being with me I gave the chance to another guy that WAS EAGER to meet me. He ended up being the best boyfriend I could ask for. AND, I NEVER had to tell him to prioritaze our relationship. Never accept less than you expect, there are plenty of men out there willing to make you the princess of their fairy tale!

[tiffanykellz]

I had a man who prioritized his friends alot i told him he needs to balance betweem his time with his friends and our relationship he claimed i am complaining and played the victim claiming that he doesnt seem to be enough. I left him with no second thought and it has been very peaceful. Never be afraid to communicate your concerns. Fear can keep u in misery.

[AllThingsSoul]

Great advice, Matt! That old saying is from Maya Angelou. We teach people how to treat us. If a man says he's going to call and I don't hear from him, I forget he exists. If he calls again a few days later, I tell him, "You said you would call the other day and I didn't hear from you. Do you have trouble following through? Because it's important that the people I surround myself with are dependable." If he apologizes, he gets another chance. If he gets upset, I tell him I'm not looking for someone who isn't reliable, so we are not compatible. I wish you the best.

[Ny]

When he wasn't making me feel like a priority it hurt so I backed all the way off. He realized it and changed towards me for the better.

[tinayeisherobin]

If someone can do without you, let them.

[debbiedebbie]

If you have to "tell him" what you want, he might fake it for a while, but guarantee he will go back to his old habits and not treat you right. Don't fool yourself. -- Don't waste years if your life on the wrong person.

[KS-odbb]

I was just in a long distance relationship. All I want is communication from him. I spoke my standards and then later on he ghosted suddenly. He went back and say sorry. I decided to end it for my mental health and inner peace.

[lisaisdabom]

When the relationship isn't being prioritized 1 I communicated concern 2 if nothing changed I moved on because I don't have time for someone who doesn't make me a priority in their life.

[CC-kxsp]

"The fear of loss ..." I've found that that is almost always at the root of my accepting less than what I deserve. Assessing why I am so risk-adverse to being without that which doesn't serve me is my current assignment. 🦋

[kmannone]

I ended up breaking up with a guy who wasn't prioritizing the relationship. I spoke up and gave the guy 1 month to change his priorities; he didn't so I broke up with him.

[lindadavisondodson]

I have spent a lifetime waiting to be prioritized and giving my man a “pass” and excuses. Now I find myself alone and working on forgiving myself for not expecting more. I’m an attractive, intelligent, giving woman who now feels not so attractive, dumb, and that I gave too much and stayed too long. I’ve obviously got some work to do. My heart needs healing, too. ❤

[Michelle-qqsd]

Luv the analogy, being brought a plate of crumbs then sitting there and waiting - hoping - for a meal- and not saying anything. 🙈

[lilfitzy]

Each time I noticed him ignoring me, making us excuses not to see me, and being unable to treat me with the bare minimum, I SPOKE UP. Told him time and time again that I wanted him to give me the qualities of a loving relationship. Each time I was assertive, he lost respect for me. He always found a way to turn it against me, making me think I was the crazy one. Making me think I’m the one that needs to change my mindset. He always made me regret speaking up at all.
And I’m still with him. Because yes, I love him, and even if I deserve so much better I still fantasize about him changing and treating me better some day. I’m so stupid… but this video really opened up my eyes. It made me realize I need to stop crying about him and wait for someone who will give me what I need. Someone who wants to give the love I give, the love I DESERVE.
I really just need a push in the right direction.

[terrimontanez]

After 2 months I knew it wasn't right when he only text and never called ever after I stated my feelings about texting. He was wonderful when we saw each other, but never made plans to spend time to get to know me. He only spoke about himself, never asked anything about me. His actions didnt match his words. Sad, cause it might have been great had he got to know me. One persons loss is another's treasure.

[anyabelle]

I love that handsome waiter and breadcrumbs analogy. I know exactly what to do at that moment, and I'll remember that for when my new relationship comes into my life.

[ngoziigwe]

I had a Frank conversation with him after 2 months of dating, he finally accepted he felt deeply for me but not deep enough to put in the effort to see me 45mins away. He claimed in the winter months he doesn't travel. He continued to treat me like a girlfriend, but I wanted us to see others. So, I simply said no. Now we talk once in a while but each moved on. Although it was painful as we created memories, it's now been three weeks and the pain is less and less.

I did exactly what you described, Mat and I hadn't even watched the video yet. I just knew I had to be willing to lose this person because the relationship that I want and deserve is more important to me than this person.

[juanitaforeman]

I was half way through this video and I shot a text to my man explaining that his lack of contact in the last week (or to be honest ever really) made me feel that I wasn't a priority and asking him to step up or let me go.
His reply? "Bye"
Wow that was a shock, but at least I know now. I replied thank you. Then some arrangements for splitting the property we own together.
Thank you Mat. I felt the resistance and did the tough thing. I am now free of a guy who didn't treat me right. I'm shocked and disappointed, but not so sad. I guess in my gut I knew this a long time ago, and yes I did teach him to treat me this way.